Where can I go on a blind date to increase my success rate?

You can go to those places where couples go on a date, and that kind of place generally has a good atmosphere and a good environment. Blind dates there, under the influence of the environment, can increase the good impression of each other.

When you go on a blind date, you can go to a cozy restaurant for dinner, and then meet up to watch a romantic movie or go to the playground for a while. This increases the success rate.

You can go to the amusement park to play, there are more things for two people to play together, and you can also increase the relationship without embarrassment, or you can also go to the scenic spot, which is also possible.

Personally, I think the success rate of blind dates has little to do with the place to go, if you have to choose, you can go to some places with a more elegant style.

1. Since you have decided to go on a blind date, you must correct your mentality, don't look full of resentment, and at least show your sincerity when you go to the appointment.

I had a classmate before, who particularly rejected blind dates, and then couldn't stand the urging of the family, and went on a blind date very reluctantly, without washing his hair, without preparing anything, and went to meet without face, her original intention was to make the other party dislike her so that she could end the awkward date quickly, and it turned out that the other party was her own ......But it was too late to regret it, she didn't perform well on the first date, and the other party rejected her after she went back.

2. Whether you are interested in meeting for the first time, you must behave well, in case the other party is better than you imagined? What if he's ten times better looking than **? What if he's dull on the internet but humorous in reality?

What if he has a good brother to introduce to you? So put on makeup, dress up, and go on a blind date with a full and enthusiastic mental state!!

3. Don't really treat a blind date as a blind date, what does it mean?

It's just not to show too much purpose at the beginning, don't ask a lot of questions in the form of surveying the hukou, and don't let people introduce themselves when they come up, it's best to make your acquaintance look romantic and a little accidental.

Let me give you an example.

In fact, I think that blind dates are very utilitarian, and it is not recommended that everyone make the blind date chat very similar to "blind date".

For example, you don't need to introduce yourself again, because the other party has already understood your basic information before, please assume that you already know each other. You could say that.

Siqin, it's a pleasure to meet you, happy May Day holiday".

Look at the moments you posted, how are you having fun?"

This will also make the other party relaxed in an instant.,It's much better than asking questions in the form of a survey.,Isn't it?。

4. Most of the stupid people on blind dates are more passive, so if you like each other, please take the initiative.

Generally, if you are particularly active in the relationship, you will choose to find a boyfriend and girlfriend by yourself, and you may have already taken off the single, so the blind date is generally more passive in the sense of filial piety, either shy and inexperienced slow heat, or there is no strong emotional need in itself, for this kind of person, you can't expect him to contact you particularly actively and enthusiastically, even if he likes you, he may not act because he doesn't know what to talk to you.

So if you like the other person, take the initiative and create more opportunities. In the process of blind date, both parties are originally equal, don't feel that you are a girl and have to wait for others to chase.

First, add feelings or comments before asking questions.

To give a simple example, if you want to ask a girl how old you are, if you ask directly like Nian Huai Wang Guo, will it look particularly dry? So you can ask like this: I feel that you are so small, are you a post-00s?

If you ask the girl's emotions like this, you will be pulled up in an instant, and the girl's emotions will come up, then she will naturally talk to you a lot.

For example, if you want to know what a girl's interests are, then you can say something like this: Do you like to play games for girls like you? If you ask the girl like this, she will receive more signals, and she will think:

What kind of person am I? Who are we like us? What kind of girl am I in your heart?

After that, she may ask you questions, and it will be easy for the girl to continue the conversation with you.

If you learn the first point, it's not a problem to want a strange girl to talk to you for half an hour or an hour.

The second point is to observe the girl's emotions at all times and resolve the embarrassment in time.

For example, if you go on a blind date with a strange girl, do you feel that Akeno is nervous, in fact, there will be more or less it, which is normal. But you know what? Girls will be more nervous than you, so what are you going to do at this time?

In fact, the best thing to do is to ask her directly: What's wrong with you? I think you're a little nervous?

Then he continued: Don't be afraid, I'm not a bad person, I don't eat people, I'll buy you a cup of milk tea later, and I won't be nervous after drinking it. Believe me, after you do this series of actions, the girl's favorability towards you will be instantly full.

Third, don't be too respectful of a girl.

I've found that many brothers do this too well, so much respect for girls that they seem to be too unassertive. For example, what do you want to eat, what do you like to eat, where do you want to play, etc., before making a decision, you have to ask the girl's opinion, for fear that the girl will be unhappy, but in fact, the girl does not like to make decisions, she likes to be led.

So we can eat and play whatever we want, just take the lead and make our own decisions. For example, you can say: That restaurant seems to be delicious, you must not have eaten it, let's go, take you to taste it.

Or that place is very interesting, the scenery is very beautiful, and it will take you to play, and this feeling of leading will instantly release your charm.

Blind date is a traditional way of marriage and dating, which can help people meet more friends, increase their social resources, and help improve their interpersonal skills. However, there are also certain problems with blind dates, and if you don't pay attention to some details, it may bring unnecessary embarrassment and distress to both parties. Here are some suggestions on how to improve the success rate of blind dates:

1.Choose the right time and place. When going on a blind date, we should choose a suitable time and place so that both parties can fully communicate and get to know each other. In general, it is best to choose a blind date in a public place or in a quiet place such as a café.

2.Be well prepared. Before participating in a blind date event, we should know some basic etiquette knowledge in order to behave appropriately and generously in the event.

In addition, we should also understand the other person's background and hobbies and other information so that we can communicate and communicate better.

3.Keep an open mind. In the process of blind date, we should maintain an open mind, respect the other party's views and choices, and not be too picky or eager for quick success.

If you find that there are differences between the two parties in some aspects, you can try to communicate and exchange ideas to find common ground and increase mutual understanding and trust.

4.Pay attention to your appearance and image. In blind date activities, our appearance and image are very important.

First of all, we should dress well, neatly and give a good first impression. Secondly, we should maintain good manners and not speak too casually or offend the other person.

5.Be honest and upfront about your thoughts and feelings. In blind date activities, we should express our thoughts and feelings honestly and frankly, and do not hide our shortcomings or strengths.

Only in this way can the other party get to know us better, so as to build a more authentic and deep relationship.

6.Don't be overly results-oriented. The process of blind date is more important than the result, and we should enjoy the process and learn and grow from it.

Even if you don't reach a consensus in the end, don't be too disappointed or frustrated, and believe that you will always find the person who is attracted to and understands each other.

7.Pay attention to safety issues. In blind date activities, we should pay attention to our personal safety and do not disclose personal information or accept invitations from strangers. If you encounter an unsafe situation, you should call the police or seek help in time.

In conclusion, blind date is a way to try marriage and dating, but when participating in blind date activities, we should pay attention to some details in order to communicate and communicate better. Only in this way can the blind date activity become more enjoyable and smooth.

The first impression is very important when going on a blind date, and then the personal charm language.

How to have a high success rate on a blind date, in this case, do your homework in advance, and it is estimated that the success rate will be very high!

If you want to improve the success rate of blind dates, you can find my marriage network, this one feels very professional to me in many ways, if you are interested, you can take a look at what I wrote later, it will be clear, it may be because there are too many single people, and there are many marriage and love platforms now. I think it's generally not very reliable, after all, it's an online registration, and it's very difficult to verify the authenticity of members' information. Some ** take advantage of this loophole and package themselves as very good people in all aspects, causing many people to be deceived.

Therefore, this tool can only be regarded as a way to know the opposite sex, and cannot rely on it to solve the problem of making friends!

There are a lot of software or ** I have used, including some of the more well-known ones, most of them use bots to send messages to new users, and then set it to: only upgrade or recharge to become a vip, can you see the content of the letter. In fact, many of the above excellent user information is a false information set up and registered by the platform itself, when new users think they are very good or very opposite, in order to see the content of the letter, they quickly recharge and upgrade VIP.

As a result, after the recharge, most of the contents of the letters I saw were similar, and the discerning people knew at a glance that this was their platform. After chatting with each other a few times, there was no follow-up. And after topping up and before topping up is a completely different situation...Before recharging, there were a large number of letters from the opposite sex to themselves, but after the recharge, there were very few letters from the opposite sex.

Because you have already been used to recharge and spend, there is no value. This is just one of their routines, which is why the reputation of these platforms is getting worse and worse.

I was a chance to play with my mobile phone, and I knew that there was a blind date of "first-line marriage", and the software had not been made at that time, so I could only log on to the web page. The first-line marriage gives me the feeling that the platform is still quite reliable, although there are also ** above, but as long as there is evidence to report, these ** will soon be blocked and banned, which shows that the platform is sincere in serving users. And then there's....Even newcomers can see the content of netizens' letters, unlike other platforms that don't give user experience at all, and directly charge for it.

Moreover, the first-line marriage platform has never pretended to be a user, sent letters to members, and deceived heat and traffic. These two points alone are enough to stand out from the same category, and I hope that these two advantages of the platform can be maintained. And on this basis, we will launch more practical offline dating activities, so that more people can find suitable partners through these activities!

Blind date, from the impression level, the initial information obtained has a greater impact than the later information obtained, this phenomenon is the first cause effect, it should be noted that people through self-experience to form a more fixed view of someone or something is called stereotype. Therefore, when you meet for the first time, it seems that the probability of success will be much greater.

Clean up and be generous.

I passed most of the praise after a blind date chat, and I can pass most of the praise once I meet. There were only three people who met me more than twice. One ended with the appearance of my ex-girlfriend, one had no groove but I didn't like it, and I saw it a few times, and the other was my husband, satisfied, excellent, and suitable.

Remember, don't talk about "what are you doing", "I'm happy to get a raise today", "What is my favorite food" or anything like "What are you doing?" It is necessary to talk deeply and touch on the three views. Discover the conflict of the three views and end it as soon as possible.

As a marriage introducer, I have successfully matched more than 50 pairs, and none of them have started chatting on WeChat. It's more about the reason why I wrote the blind date investigation report (with no makeup photos) for both parties in the early stage, and everyone knows the root cause in advance.

Don't rack your brains 360 degrees to find topics to talk about, rack your brains to set some information about the other party, and nothing else is substantial. It took time and effort to chat for ten days to half a month, and finally saw the light and died, your height turned out to be counted as an increase in height, and your appearance was originally added ps, and in the end I felt cheated, or I suspected that I would be doing it for more than ten days, what a loss. Don't you think it's a waste of time.

Talking twice and deciding whether to end it doesn't mean that you have to fall in love and get married if you feel good after chatting twice. There are more things to consider if you want to fall in love and get married, and I have also written about pre-marriage preparations before, so I won't say much about it. I wish you all a perfect partner soon.

As long as the matchmaker is reliable, the blind date is very reliable, and it may be better than free love, so everyone should seize the opportunity.