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When an unmarried man marries a divorced woman, it is very important to get along after marriage. When some unmarried men face second-married women, they should do a good job of psychological construction before getting married and think clearly about what they want.
Some people may have emotional cleanliness habits, thinking that divorced women are not worthy of their own cherishment, so in order to complete the task of marriage, they take divorced women, and they will not cherish each other after marriage. It will cause secondary harm to the other person, which is very immoral and bad for both people. Therefore, in order for two people to get along well, unmarried men must consider whether they can accept it before marriage.
He has a history of marriage, if he can accept it and does not care, and thinks that two people are equal, there is no distinction between high and low, so that he can enter the palace of marriage, and at the same time get along harmoniously after marriage.
Don't think that the other party has been married once, inferior, and know how to respect each other. A divorced woman may have a better understanding of what a person wants in a marriage. They have learned from the experience and lessons of a failed relationship, and know the consequences of the wrong way, so they may cherish the relationship more, they are willing to give it wholeheartedly, and they also hope that you can fully devote yourself to the relationship between two people.
At the same time, don't think that divorced women are not self-respecting, they will still have pure feelings in their hearts. In this way, do not one-sidedly think that marriage and divorce determine a person's purity. Many people think so wrongly that their marriage is broken.
Of course, we also have to learn to discover each other's true thoughts in marriage. There are divorced women who become very realistic, they become selfish, they feel that marriage may be a necessity, but it is not the most important thing in life. Therefore, whether a marriage can last or not is not very important to them.
We can only give full merit after we have thoroughly understood each other. When you find that the other party is not a person with a very positive outlook, you should also stop the loss of knowledge in time, and don't let yourself waste too much time and energy on him, otherwise you will only be hurt in the end.
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When you get along, the boy must learn to accept her previous experience, cross this hurdle, and don't look at each other with colored glasses. When you get along, don't mention her previous marriage, and don't use it to talk about her when you quarrel.
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After getting married, you must respect each other as guests, you must care about each other, do not have any deception, and the issues that need to be paid attention to are to respect each other's personality, understand each other, and empathize with each other.
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After getting married, you should trust each other, don't talk about each other's marriage when you quarrel, both parties should tolerate each other's shortcomings, care more about each other, and communicate deeply with each other.
I should give it, there are many such situations around me. Some time ago, a friend who had just divorced a colleague was about to get married, and the man's family gave a bride price of 50,000 yuan. The bride price itself is a bride price before marriage, so regardless of the first marriage and the second marriage, the corresponding bride price should be blackened when married.
Divorce is not ashamed, on the contrary, it will make a woman work harder, see the reality clearly, will not be very naïve, become mature and steady, work hard, and make yourself excellent Someone who loves you will appear one day
There is no need to scruple about talking and doing things. What kind of family you marry into determines what kind of life you will have and what kind of environment you will live in for the rest of your life. If a woman needs to take into account a lot when speaking and doing things, she needs to take into account the feelings of her parents-in-law and husband, she needs to take into account the face of the whole family, and she also needs to take into account the overall situation, but she does not need to take into account her own feelings, then the marriage must be unhappy, and the status of this woman in her mother-in-law's family will not be high.
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