Do you want to remarry if you get divorced? What s your opinion?

After divorce, you should still remarry; I think it depends on your personal situation, if you want to live an independent and free life, you can choose to live alone, but if you want a happy family, you can choose to get married again.

Personally, I think if you can live a good life yourself, then don't remarry, if you still need someone else to help you, then remarry; My personal opinion is that it's best not to remarry, because there's a chance you'll be hurt a second time.

I think that if you get divorced, you can choose to get married if you meet the right person, and if you can't meet them, it's better not to remarry, so as not to be hurt again.

After the divorce, you can still find your own happiness, and when you meet the person you love, you must also work hard to grasp and fight, and don't give up the second marriage because the first love failed and the marriage failed.

When you are in love, you will respond to each other's needs. Because during the love period, all you see is the other party's advantages, and after the love is over, it is the process of accepting the other party's shortcomings, which needs to be tolerated.

Looking at the world, how can there be a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, with the calm and calm of the hills and valleys in the chest, and can take a few praises to balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.

We always marry the good of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the bad of a person.

One: Be sure to bring love.

It's lucky to get married for love!

When you get into marriage, you will understand that if there is no love, you will live a miserable life.

If you think about it, two people who are not related by blood, whether male or female, want to establish a long-term and stable relationship, except through love, there seems to be no other way.

If the purpose of your marriage is to say that I don't love you in the first place, I got married when the time came.

At that time, I really didn't know if you delayed others, or if you hurt yourself.

Never marry for the sake of getting married, take responsibility for yourself and your marriage partner.

At any time, love should be the premise of marriage, don't enter marriage without love, otherwise Yuan Bifeng will wait for you to meet love after marriage, you may be upset.

If it's not suitable, it's the best, there are no two people who are born right, they are two people who run in and grow together, and you don't even want to run in with someone you don't love.

Two: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.

I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in love, you only care about the merits of the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.

However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different.

All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.

Great, since you choose to divorce, it means that your last relationship was not happy. You have escaped an unhappy marriage and embraced better happiness, and there will always be someone who will be willing to be nice to you again. In fact, getting married is like two companies talking about cooperation, continuing to cooperate when the negotiation is done, running in with each other if the negotiation is not appropriate, and finally ending the cooperation if the negotiation is still inappropriate.

Don't believe in love, love will never exist, love is just like people, it will be born, old, sick and die. Many people live happily because they have a good "mentality" and firm "beliefs".

Perhaps busyness and running for life have become the most realistic appearance of many marriages, so two people in a marriage as husband and wife will be reluctant to be romantic after being tired, and they have no intention of falling in love after being trivial. Every woman is inseparable from the watering of love, no matter how busy the marriage is, they need to get a few sweet words from their lover, a little warmth. When love comes, it is always beautiful, romantic, and vowed, so it will be easy to compare it with your bland and slightly lonely marriage.

Men's fragile women can't understand, often see men as shelter from the wind and rain, and men have to block anything difficult, but men's psychological pressure will become heavier and heavier, so men would rather avoid than go head-on, rather than choose to remarry, and will not ask for trouble. Unless, this woman will educate the child and handle the relationship between the child and the father, and the man is very confident and has good educational means, and will handle the relationship with the child, or the remarried parties have a child together, then the remarriage will also be very happy.

I will. In life, there are many people who always feel that their imaginary marriage is full of beauty, so when they encounter a little family conflict, they feel that their marriage is unhappy, and they feel that their lover is useless, and they will have the idea of divorce. If at this time, there is an extramarital affair outside, coupled with the sweet words of the other party, and the alliance is made, so I feel that I have found true love and happiness, but some people choose to continue their marriage for the sake of their children because of the fetters of their children.

But there are still some people who are carried away by the fantasy of a happy marriage, and finally ruthlessly abandon their children and choose to divorce! However, these people he did not actually understand the essence of marriage, what is marriage? Marriage is a couple of men and women living together, facing oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, pots and pans, facing a common livelihood, facing the trivialities and contradictions of life, and no one's marriage cares about foreign affairs.

Most divorced people in life eventually have regrets! They found that after remarriage, the new marriage is nothing more than that, and sometimes, it is not as good as the original marriage! The successor is not as good as the predecessor, because it is a halfway combination family, if both parties have children in the past, it must be a family where you quarrel and quarrel, and the contradictions are constant, it is simply worse than death, and what happiness is there to speak of.

But who do you blame? You brought it on yourself! Suffer as much as you want!

Therefore, love is sweet, marriage is bland, you don't think too much about marriage, they will give you food and clothing! But it's also impossible for these people to give you sweet love, why? You should know.

Generally speaking, marriage is still good! Because the original marriage is a seamless whole that is fused by the husband, the wife, and the children; What's yours is mine, and what's mine is yours; The child is biological, your child is also my child, my child is also your child, the family is emotionally integrated, regardless of each other.

If you meet someone you like, of course you will. Many people don't think much about remarriage when they plan a divorce. On the contrary, after the divorce, I met someone who wanted to enter the marriage again, so I chose to remarry.

Those who shout that they will never remarry after divorce are either not met by someone who wants to remarry, or those who are still struggling in their marriage, venting their emotions in order to vent their grievances about an unhappy marriage. After all, the purpose of marriage is not to divorce, but divorce is the possibility of remarriage. Therefore, whether it is marriage, divorce, or remarriage, it is still essentially to pursue a better life and life experience.

And in this process, the most important thing is not what form to participate in, but what kind of attitude to face it. People who are willing to take responsibility for their own lives and choices will be brave enough to take their share of responsibility, use the positive experiences they have gained in their marriage in their second marriage, and try to avoid repeating the mistakes of the past. It's like a mature person who always knows what he's doing, doesn't let outside remarks sway his real needs and feelings, and neither fantasizes about the beauty of marriage nor exaggerates the unhappiness of marriage.

After all, the key to the door of marriage is always in your own hands.