My boyfriend asked for that, but I thought it was too early. But he

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you can't be firm, don't make frivolous decisions.

    Even if you choose to be submissive, you will feel uneasy in your own heart, and you will feel that you have lost the capital of pride in front of many boys. If one day, this man doesn't want you, you will regret your efforts.

    Even if you go all the way to the end of the day, you will have regrets in your heart, regrets that are not perfect. If you don't have an open mind, don't do an open thing.

    Only you know what it feels like to regret!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's so well written! My boyfriend just hasn't been with me like that, but he still loves me that much. It's been two years, and we've taken a shower together, but he doesn't, he just does something else to vent.

    I consider myself so lucky. I am a person who sticks to my principles, and when I meet someone who has the same intention as me, I am really, satisfied!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How old you are If you are old enough (over 20 years old) and you love him, there is no problem.

    Remember to have good contraception and pay attention to physical hygiene.

    Wish: Happiness and happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Disagree. Respect your future husband.

    He may not be able to go with you to the end.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to marry him, let him wait as equals.

    If you want to be a slave, be obedient now.

    Take your pick.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I support the 4th floor, we men are not all like that, like me, haha.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Think it out for yourself!! Think about your future husband

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The 2nd floor is too ruthless, isn't it? Who do you think of our male compatriots? Halo

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not to mention that it will come better, if you still want to occupy the vantage point of the passive side and the freshness of love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, people in a relationship will think that each other is the best, and your boyfriend will think the same way.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, no, he's more confident in the relationship between the two of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Probably not, as long as you love him, say it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Or pay for a while, half a year and a year, to reflect on how the boy usually becomes, marriage is a lifetime.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's like you're very reserved.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, miss, you have to keep it mysterious. Your boyfriend loves you like he's reading a poem he can't read. You can say something at the right time. Whetted his appetite.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Go by feeling, love has no rules, and it's right to feel comfortable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He wouldn't mind if he loved you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As long as you love him, what's not to do?! You can work hard and improve your career in the past few years! When you get married, then your life ** is secured.

    And you have to believe that true love is rain or shine, and you can't taste the last sweetness without overcoming the wind and waves.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you have to think about not how to keep him, but how to enrich yourself so that you can keep up with your partner.

    There's nothing wrong with him wanting a better life, but can you guarantee that he won't go for someone better when he has a better life? Therefore, you must improve yourself, and you can't rely too much on men, so as to ensure that you can maintain enough charm and attractiveness to marry you after the promised year, and they all say that smart women are not afraid of old people, I wish you success.

    But from what you're describing now, I think you're keeping him with your appearance, and you're worried about losing him as you get older.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's hard to say that you've met a career-oriented boyfriend who wants to save face, but if you have a choice, I suggest you choose another one.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What does it mean to keep him? You know, when it's 30, can it get married? I don't think necessarily, men have a fear of marriage, when it comes to marriage, everyone has no confidence, mainly the cost of marriage and the responsibilities to be faced after marriage, I think the key problem is here, not a matter of time, if you want to get married, you must help her solve his problems, otherwise you will not have results, and your age can not afford to delay, I feel that your boyfriend is very unconfident, occasionally indecisive, transmutation is also her characteristic, I think you have to plan your life well, but also grasp yourself

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It turns out that I'm not the only one who is distressed, I will be 25 years old next year, that is, the day after tomorrow, just one room will make us tired to death.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's what my ex-boyfriend said the same. In fact, in his subconscious, he has basically decided to break up with you. It's just that it's inconvenient to make it clear now, first, there is no one to accompany you, and second, you haven't found your next home and are reluctant to shake off.

    My one has just found his next girlfriend, and he has decided to get married and have a daughter before he has been in office for half a year. So don't be fooled.

    The man who really loves you can't wait to marry you, for fear that you will run away, how can he back down when you are willing to marry him a poor boy.

    Give you advice, properly let him not get your attention and love, keep it as if you are leaving, by the way to see if there is another candidate, and at the same time let him know that if he does not propose to you, you will dump him first.

    If you can't arouse his enthusiasm, he even blesses you. Then you break up quickly, and don't forget to slap him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Does marriage have an impact on your career? Or does not getting married help your career? Generally speaking, marriage and career are complementary. will become an impact is an issue in the first place.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let's wait 2 or 3 more years to see how it goes! After all, if you have money, you can better organize your family.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's hard to say exactly what you should be doing, maybe he wants to give you a better future and a happier life; But women should be clear: no matter how good the relationship is, women must be independent, financially independent, and have their own circle of friends and social circles. When a man loves you, he really loves you!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    25 years old is not too old, and it is okay to wait another 2 to 3 years to get married. But it is recommended that you do not delay until after the age of 30.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Talk to him and have a good chat! If he doesn't care, maybe his heart isn't in you, and there's a problem.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is recommended to get married, I can't wait.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This is China, and Western thinking is unacceptable. You just say let him wait, get married and give it to you, if he really loves you, he will be willing to wait and will continue to be good to you, and in this process, naturally, when the relationship develops to a certain stage, there will naturally be a more intimate relationship. In the Book of Changes, it is said that everything should be natural.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Before he gets on you, you put him on first, so that it is his turn to lose and not you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    A girl's first time is very important After losing it, a girl is worthless!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If he can't put you in a wedding dress, please don't let him take off your underwear.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It depends on what you think, and if you really love him, you don't think you will regret it if you break up later.

    Then it's okay to be together.

    Personal opinion: After all, you're only in high school now, so it's best to focus on your studies, and don't let the relationship between men and women affect the curriculum, after all, you're not that big.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Boys will inevitably have ambitions.

    But girls need to know how to love themselves.

    No wonder it's a little bit now.

    The girl is too stupid.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You're only a freshman in high school. You've only been with him for a month.

    Self-love that girls need to understand.

    I have the ability to think.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In fact, a person's most precious reserve, but this is also the most fundamental difference between any animal. People will say no, and animals can't show what they think in their hearts. Everyone understands this truth, but when you encounter a problem, you don't know how to solve it!

    You can try to ask yourself: Do I really love him? What is Love?

    Will he be accountable to me? Do I really want to? If you don't know the answer (which one of them will do), then you are not resolute and are not mentally prepared to give your life to him!

    Some people regret it, some people do it, and they stubbornly say that they are very happy. In fact, only the really unhappy people will say that I am happy, because they don't know what happiness ...... isHowever, your happiness is in your hands, and if you let go, it may be lost, or it may no longer be yours! If he really loves you, he can wait!

    When you can give him your life, the most beautiful thing is happiness....But if you don't want to wait, thinking that he loves you and you will be responsible for you, then please talk about your happiness and hand it over to him! But I don't know if you will be happy at that time......

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    All the upstairs are facing the wall!

    What did she say?

    I can still understand that.

    I'm 15 years old and I have a 25-year-old boyfriend who says he wants to be with me....(Let's go to the movies, travel...) May I?

    why not?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    How so? I don't think you're 15 years old and you're not mature enough to think about something, you don't know what's right and what's wrong, and you've ever thought about it. After that, what will happen in the future?

    Can you guarantee that he will love you for the rest of his life? Can you guarantee that your parents, his parents, will agree to your business?Think about it, it's a lifelong thing, and it's not to be sloppy.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It only takes 3 days to get it, and he'll ignore you.

    And then you ask a new question, about the Chinese men who are in a lot of pain, and basically more or less mind

    Ruined yours. However, now that the post-90s generation, it's hard to say if you like it

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Absolutely not. You basically have no future, you are too young to lose your most precious thing for him.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You are so young, breaking up is a pull, making such a request is not a good person to pull, study hard, find excellent in the future, and live a happy life.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't make a mistake and hate it for eternity!

    He's obviously taking advantage of you!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Don't, you're only 15! (All of them are underage).

    You still have so much youth, (it doesn't matter if it's two or three years late).

    What if he dumps you (I didn't mean to say that).

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Crazy, you are so young that you can't have sex, you have to be responsible for yourself.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    No, you are still young, it is not good for your health, and your future is unknown, weigh it carefully, it is not the time, and you may regret it later!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    No.. Otherwise you'll regret it.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    This question is your own, and no one else can give it to you.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    He's 15 years old and you're 5 years old.

    He's going to be with you that.

    May I?

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    That man has a brain problem.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You're only 15 years old, huh? It's too small, be cautious...

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's okay not to break up and give up, the relationship is very hurtful!

    For an average family, as you said, except for loans, 26 + 10 + 5 = 410,000, which are all banquets, ceremonies, and so on, which are not counted ...... real use for marriageObviously, her family situation is just average, and for such a family, there is not much that can be taken out... To be honest, your situation is not necessarily very good, otherwise your family will not chase the 50,000 bride price, although it is just a courtesy, but you have to be considerate of each other, if you really can't take it, you really don't want to marry your daughter out? It can only be said that the man is still a little bit bold, if you really like it, don't you have another 50,000, borrow!

    It's a big deal, and in the end, I got married, and I still had to carry it together! is still discussing with you under such pressure, unless there is a possibility, he can take it, but he just doesn't want to take it, otherwise he has already broken it with you. So,If you really want to put it to understand whether he really can't take it out.,If so,Then work harder.,It's not 50,000.,It's not much.,If not.,It's still broken.。。。

    Do you think a man who cares about this kind of thing will be reliable?

    I never say nice things about this kind of thing, I just want it to help you.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It's not me, I'm a man, that's why I help your boyfriend. To be honest, your boyfriend is very difficult at this time, and the pressure is really high. What do you say to your boyfriend who won't let you hear it, it's a family when you get married, and it doesn't matter if you don't want the bride price.

    Why do you have to do as much as you want? People are really under a lot of pressure, I am a person who has come over, I know that marriage is not your bride price, and other expenses are also very large, especially now that tobacco and alcohol are too expensive. If you feel that the bride price is not given to others, it is shameful, then you are like this, the man gives the bride price, the woman buys more things or something, and then returns a little.

    Other people's homes are like this. People give a lot and you think it's all giving, unless it's very rich, but how can everyone in society be rich.

    You must remember that this is marriage, and the simple point is that two people walk together and live together to create a better future. It's the two of you walking together in love. Everything else is just etiquette, just customs. The only thing that has the law is the marriage certificate.

    Don't do anything, your boyfriend can, he just said slowly, if he lied to you, borrow money. When you get married, you will pay it back together. In the end, you have to pay it back.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    After so many years of relationship, don't give up lightly, you should understand each other, you also have to put yourself in his shoes and think about it, two people living together is a process of mutual understanding and mutual compromise I hope you can talk calmly and have a good chat with each other Be considerate of each other Talk about your difficulties and help each other think of ways Don't get angry Don't quarrel This won't solve the problem It will only intensify the conflict Finally, I wish you happiness.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It may be that due to financial pressures, the other person's family has been shaken, including your boyfriend. But he always has feelings for you, and there are still some expectations in his heart, and he can't make up his mind to let go of this relationship for the time being. If you really can't live without him, take a step back, otherwise the results are worrying.

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