A well married woman can t escape these characteristics, how many do you have?

Very independent, very motivated, often smiling, very good-tempered, able to give each other enough security, generally have these characteristics, I account for three.

Emotional intelligence is particularly high. Wise and foolish, have a bottom line, have principles, have their own ideas, are particularly excellent, strive to be independent, motivated, will not complain about bad luck, and will work hard to change themselves.

After getting married, a well-married woman will always have a happy smile on their faces, their dresses will always be very exquisite, they will always have an optimistic and positive attitude towards life, and they will love life very much; I have three of them, and I think I'm living a very good life now.

I think that a good woman who marries can't escape these characteristics, first of all, she will plan for the long term, maintain independence, improve herself, take her own responsibility, and manage her life with her heart, a woman's happiness and happiness mainly depends on whether they have these characteristics, and these also determine the happy state of their future marriage.

In most of their cognition, they may think that it is probably the kind of girl who has a poor family background, is not good-looking, or has no education, and does not have a good job to marry. But when you take a closer look around you, you'll see that it's not like that at all. At most, the conditions are good, and the probability of marrying well will be high, but playing a good hand with a good hand is very bad and people abound.

Where will those who marry not very well be defeated in the end? I've always felt that talking about someone is the same as looking for a job, when you want to find a job, you want to be an administrative clerk easily, if you want to be rich, you want to do development and design, if you want to be stable, you can take the exam, and if you want to test, you can run a business.

You can't be an administrative clerk and want a high-paying position, a development and design job and want to rest, and a marketing and sales job and want to be relaxed. It's the same with the person you talk to, you can't want everything, you have to be handsome and rich, you have to be humorous and funny and can coax girls, and you need to put everything first. Looking for such a perfect person in this world?

You have to know what you want most to be called. A reader once helped me write a letter and said: My husband, he loves his family and has a good temper, but he will be slow to do things, and sometimes I am in a hurry to die, and he is like no one.

So can I blame him, no, since I'm trying to have a good temper, so I have to hold my breath. I've always felt that learning to make trade-offs is the wiser thing in marriage. I chose someone who was free to accompany me, but I didn't look down on others who were unmotivated and wouldn't make money.

I chose one that would make money, and I blamed others for not caring about the family and being strict. I chose a long handsome one, and I was always sensitive and suspicious of other women. You look at the strengths of the other side, but you can't accept its weaknesses.

That's right, and I very much agree with the reader's idea. I have to admit that the beauty and the scumbag are in your thoughts. And the good or bad of married life also lies in whether this person is a beauty or a scumbag in your eyes!

Many sisters have not understood the difference between active and upside down, and there is a misunderstanding that it is not easy to cherish the lack of active girls and men. I really want to improve everyone, it's the women and men who don't know how to cherish it. So what's the difference between active and upside down?

Positivity means that you take the initiative to show yourself in front of the eyes of the boy you like, and you will also take the initiative to express your opinions and experiences. To put it bluntly, if you like it, you chase it.

Everyone's instinctive reaction is to be attracted to better conditions than themselves, so the more positive they are, the more they are able to find a satisfactory goal. Upside down is that in order to make a man feel ruined by you, you invest your time, time, energy, and money without a bottom line. You can do whatever the other party wants you to do, and you lack self-esteem in the relationship.

Many sisters don't want to behave when they see a boy with good conditions, and they always want to wait for others to come to you. You have to remember that fate is in your own hands, which girl doesn't like a single man and a woman, there are more people who look at it, and you are not active, so you can only choose others to pick the leftovers.

Women who have a bad marriage generally have a bad complexion, dare not put forward their own opinions and opinions, and are timid in the world.

often complains about life, has no goals, does not dare to take the initiative, and women who do not marry well generally have these characteristics.

<> "Well-married Kiritomori girls have these characteristics.

1.It has its own set of selection criteria.

Most of these girls are good-looking.

When I was a student, I had a lot of suitors.

So it's already clear in my heart.

What kind of person do you want?

When it comes to meeting such people.

Able to hold firmly.

No more being greedy and picky.

2.The mouth is sweet-hearted and hard.

This kind of girl can not only match your topic, but also empathize with you when you are unhappy, and the sophistication of the world is also in place, and the holiday gifts are not bad.

But if the boy does something unforgivably wrong.

They can also say goodbye decisively.

Never mud and water.

Waste your own time.

3.Not greedy, contented and happy.

Putting aside Bai Fumei's identity, they are never impetuous, no matter what their family background is, they have a very clear understanding of themselves.

They never pursue the rich and handsome.

When you meet a boy who is good to you and has OK conditions.

You will be able to settle your mind.

4.Passionate about life.

If you look at their circle of friends.

You will definitely feel their infinite enthusiasm for life.

It's like they don't have any worries, they are always full of positive energy to the outside world, and they are going to a shiny future.

5.The original life was very rich.

They were never waiting for a prince to bring them the life they wanted, and their life was abundant.

If you get together with your girlfriends today and go out for afternoon tea tomorrow, you won't be in love because you have a boyfriend.

They are all very gentle, beautiful, sensible, generous, independent, self-disciplined, and powerful, and they are all quite urban and smart.

A woman who will not be vain, who will never complain, who is full of love and gentleness, who will not marry money, has her own ideas and opinions, is very kind-hearted, and is full of childlike simplicity.

A woman who marries well will have their own light, they will be particularly confident and elegant, and their life will be very happy.

If a woman wants to marry well, she must be excellent, a woman must have an independent consciousness, and she must have the correct three views, so that she can find a suitable other half.

If a woman wants to marry well, she must first be very good in words and deeds, and she must be generous enough to deal with things, and she should not always be careful about things.

A woman with a sweet mouth can easily coax the people around her to be happy, and I have to say that this is a woman's strength. Women are easy and can make people smile, and I have to say that this is far stronger than those women who are contrived and vexatious.

<> "Five Characteristics of a Well-Married Girl."

Nearly 30 years old, looking at the girls who marry well in the circle of friends, the following 10 characteristics are summarized!

The good marriage mentioned in this rent does not mean that he is married to a rich and handsome man who has no worries about food and clothing, but that he is married to a husband who is obedient and responsible, can help take care of children, can communicate, and has a good family economy, and the overall happiness index is very high.

Feature 1will be screened, and have their own set of selection criteria.

Most of them are good-looking, and they have been in contact with a lot of boys and suitors when they were students, so they already know very well what kind of person they want, and they can firmly grasp it when they meet such a person, and they are no longer greedy to pick and choose;

Characteristic 2: Mouth sweetheart is hard.

They basically have a very sweet mouth, and they will always feel very happy when chatting with them, not only to match your topic, but also to empathize with you when you are unhappy, and the people are also very sophisticated, holiday gifts are not bad, and boys will remember to return the gift when they give them gifts. But if the boys do something out of their frame, they can also say goodbye in time and not waste their time;

Feature 3Not greedy, contented and happy.

In my eyes, they are all beautiful women, but they don't have that sense of arrogance. Their family background is ordinary, and it is rare that they have a very clear understanding of themselves, and they never pursue being rich and handsome, and when they meet a boy who is good to them and has the same conditions, they can settle down.

Feature 4Know how to be grateful.

If you look at their circle of friends, you will definitely feel that they are full of enthusiasm for life. Today to this best friend, tomorrow to show her love for her mother or family love for her, the day after tomorrow to show the little beauty in life. Such a girl, everyone will think that they must be very happy with her After they fall in love, they will often praise their objects in the circle of friends, so that you not only feel that they are very happy, but also feel that their objects are also very happy, because their eyes are full of light!

Feature 5Their lives were already rich.

These girls are never waiting for a prince to bring them the life they want, and life is rich when they are single. Gather with friends today, dance or draw by yourself tomorrow, and even if you have a boyfriend, you will still see that they still hang out with their friends often, instead of having a boyfriend and the focus of life is only love.

A sensible woman, an empathetic woman, a contented woman, a woman with high emotional intelligence, etc.

Love family, love life, etc. Generally, those who live happily are always women who love their families, and they are always the opposite sex who love life and life, these are all ways to accompany people who do not need to be doubted.

It is to be able to do what you like and maintain your optimism and cheerfulness in your married life. No longer wear out your love for life in life.

A woman who "marries well" is not directly related to her good life or her own efforts.

I have also talked about this topic with friends in my daily life, and often people say that who is destined to marry a good husband as a way to express their envy. In fact, most of the women who really "marry well" do not need to "marry well" to live well. This kind of person can not be beautiful, gentle, or virtuous, but he has an irreplaceable position, which may be the ability and capital to make a "well-married" woman live a happy life.

Personally, I think that "marrying well" is a false proposition, who will define how to count "marrying well" and how to count "marrying badly". Even if a woman is "married well" but does not live well, she will not be happy after all.

As far as the current social environment is concerned, a woman who "does a good job" has a higher social status than a woman who "marries well", and doing a good job has become a correct life orientation, which is in line with the advocacy concept of the era of equality between men and women, on the contrary, a woman who "marries well" may not really marry well.

If it is really "married well", it is also determined by many factors to produce results, rather than the results that can be produced by the so-called good fate and one's own efforts. Especially if you marry well or not, it is a hammer deal, and if you want to pay for this decision, you need to pay the price now.

In the past, it was better to advocate to do well than to marry well, but now it is better to advocate to marry well than to do well, and the changes of the times will lead to changes in people's concepts. A woman who used to seem to be "married well" may not be considered "married well" now, and a woman who is "married well" may not live a good life now.

"Marrying well" for a while is not "living well" for a lifetime, and "marrying well" cannot play a key role in determining the key determinants of good life and one's own efforts, and there are only indirect influencing factors. Even sometimes if you are lucky enough to meet the right person and love, marrying well has become an attainable goal, but modern people have found that "marrying well" is too difficult to achieve through personal investigation, and the influencing factors of all parties are interlocking, and it is difficult to get the "marrying well" standard in the world's mouth if you take a wrong step, not to mention that the personal views are different, and the definition of "marrying well" is also different.

A well-married woman can't escape these characteristics, how many do you have?

If a woman wants to marry well and have a happy marriage, first of all, she must not be strong and have a desire to control, secondly, she must be ladylike, virtuous, knowledgeable, and can care about men, thirdly, she must be smart, well-behaved and cute, and fourthly, she must learn to dress up herself and the man you love, and handle housework cleanly and tidy. FYI.

I think to marry a good woman, first of all, you have to be beautiful, you must have a high appearance, this is the first level on the surface, if you want a long-term marriage, you have to be smart, to be a smart woman with EQ and IQ coexisting, so that you will live a good life, very envied by others.

Good luck! I have a colleague who is several years older than her husband and feels immature when she talks and acts, but her husband loves her very much!

Young and beautiful, temperamental, with high quality, there are a few who excel in their work.

Such a woman is inseparable from the characteristic of financial ability.

Good vision, independent and serious about feelings.

It's just that there are many, many aspects.

It is inseparable from that kind of desire characteristic of money.