If the other party is sick, will you still choose to get married?

It depends on what the disease is, if it is an incurable disease such as cancer, I will not choose to get married, but I will accompany him through the last days, if it is a long-term chronic disease, but it does not have a great impact on life, I will choose to get married.

I think that when two people get along together and reach the age of marriage, there will definitely be a relationship foundation, if he lets me go because he is sick, I will definitely not be able to do it, but different diseases have different choices, for example, cancer cannot be cured, I will not leave like this, but I will not choose to get married, because I already know that the final result is that it is impossible for two people to be together, and I will silently accompany him through this time, even if I spend my savings, it doesn't matter, because I also tried my best. If he dies after getting married, and meets a suitable person in the future, others will ask you why you got married at that time, and you have to explain to the other party what happened between you, maybe he doesn't mind, but I don't want to say, I just want to cherish this memory in my heart.

If it is a chronic disease, such as lupus erythematosus, this disease can be suppressed by drugs, and it only needs to be revisited on time, and it will not have a great impact on daily life.

I still remember last year I saw a very touching news, the love story of Shandong guy Yu Haining and Henan girl Fan Huixiang, the two of them have been in love for 5 years, but when it came to talking about marriage, the girl suffered from advanced thoracic metastasis adenocarcinoma, but the boy did not choose to let go, and still chose to marry each other, so they got married in the ward, this love also touched many people, the girl still left a year after marriage, and the boy has not remarried.

Maybe there are few people who can be as brave and responsible as this boy, think about it from another angle, if I am this boy, I can't do his part, their experience is very touching, but many things in this process are unimaginable that we have not experienced, that kind of pressure and mentality is a lot of people can't hold back, maybe some people are very confident in themselves at the beginning, but for a long time, half a year, three months or even one or two months to give up, this is human nature,In the face of illness, we, as ordinary people, can hardly change anything, which is why we seem so helpless and want to retreat because there is a way back.

No matter what kind of choice the other person makes, you should not morally kidnap how the other person should do it, only if you have experienced it yourself and are in this predicament, you can understand the decision you have made in your heart.

It's bound to be a sad story ......

First of all, you have to know one thing, (human nature is the most untested thing) everything is objective and fair, it depends on what kind of disease you have, if you know that cancer will not live for a few years, it is best not to get a license to get married. If you feel that you can't get over it with your conscience, you can also accompany him through the last few years, and know how to change but don't get a certificate.

If the minor illness is fine, accompany him to face it and spend it together. There is a saying in the medical community (placebo effect) that a person who is sick and sentenced to death is particularly in need of moral support, and if he is sick and his partner leaves him during this time, then his condition will deteriorate dramatically, and a minor illness will deteriorate into a major problem.

Ay! This life is ......Birth, old age, sickness and death, thinking of this topic, I am really emotional. The Buddha said that (when you meet in this life, you will be indebted) In this life, since you have met and become partners, you must do your best to cherish and grasp it.

Of course, if you fail to get together for various reasons, it means that your losses in your previous life have been paid off, and your fate has been exhausted.

On the surface, marriage means that two people live together, but in essence, being married means taking responsibility for each other and taking care of each other as partners, regardless of illness or poverty. Therefore, whether the other party is sick or not, you should live a good life with the other party. However, if you are particularly concerned about this aspect of things, it can end in divorce.

Second, if you don't particularly care about this aspect of things, you can reluctantly live your life, the most important thing between husband and wife should actually be emotional, other things are not decisive, two people can overcome difficulties if they face it bravely. And if such a disease can be cured, two people can face it together, support each other and encourage each other to eliminate hail, find a way, and actively ** until the disease is cured.

Third, if you get married because of a blind date or introduction, and the other party deliberately conceals you and deceives you into getting married, no one will accept this matter. At this time, you can apply for annulment of the marriage, and if you do not agree to the party, you can solve it in law.

To sum up, I think that when you find out that the other party has a physical disease when you just get married, you can live well if you have feelings, and seek the best way. If you have been deceived, you can get a divorce.

Life as an adult is really too hard!

Everyone has their own fate, and people will always encounter various accidents in this life.

When you encounter such a difficult thing, you must first be strong and make sure that you don't fall. You and your ruined husband have been in love for four years and married, it should be said that it is very affectionate, your husband's mental problems have a certain relationship with his own original family, you may not have paid attention to this before, the current situation is more serious, but you still have to be positive**. In addition to the doctor, you should communicate with him more, encourage him more, love him, and show him weakness appropriately.

Don't snub him. Tell him more about the outside world. Try to let your husband go out to work, his condition will improve after work, people are social animals, after having mental illness, it is even worse to live alone, and it is even worse not to work and not contact with society.

I suggest that you give him another year or two, try to take care of him, take him **, and help him recover, if it is not good, it is getting worse, you will not be able to persevere.

Soon after getting married, the other half fell seriously ill. Of course, I'm going to sell the crack line, help** or take care of it, etc. Everything that needs to be done has to be done, and this is the only time to do itThat's itThe kind of responsibility of husband and wife must be done well, even if you are very sick, you must insist on doing it to the end, then you have done it, and there will be no regrets.

As the saying goes, the moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have good and bad luck. In life, when the relationship between yourself and your other half develops to a certain stage, and finally two people enter the marriage hall, it is obviously a thing that makes you particularly happy and happy. But not long after getting married, my other half suddenly fell seriously ill, which is obviously a huge blow to myself and the whole family, but in this case, if it were me, I would still do it for the other half of my own clearance, never abandon it, guard my other half, take good care of each other, help each other, and recover as soon as possible.

We should understand that since we have chosen to marry our other half. Then it means that two people should help each other on the road of life in the future, take care of each other, and share all kinds of setbacks and difficulties encountered in life.

When we encounter such problems, we must show our sense of responsibility. No matter how considerate and careful care is, let your lover feel your warmth so that you can really promote the relationship between two people, and we should also realize that your other half, suffering from serious illness, this is not one of the things, but also related to yourself, related to a family, in the face of this problem, we must have confidence, change our name, face the challenges that life brings us, in this process, let us get real growth, and in this process, It will also make the relationship between yourself and your other half deeper.

Since they are married, they are in the same boat, and they are blessed to enjoy the same difficulties. People eat cereals, no one will get sick if they don't close their eyes and regret it, so even if the other half is seriously ill, they can't abandon it, and they must compare their hearts with their hearts, if they are sick, what do you think, what should I do?