How can we hold on to our feelings?

If you are married, I believe you can keep it, if you are a woman, please use your stomach to keep his heart, if it is a man, please use your heart to keep his heart.

If you are unmarried, give it up, the twisted melon is not sweet, if you are not married, you will be divorced if you are married.

If you love so much that you can't let go, get married quickly, she will become the backing of your career success, so that you can work hard with peace of mind, how can you work like this!

Go and propose now! For her wishes, and for your happiness!

Hehe, women are prone to betray feelings, and men are prone to betray bodies. And after a woman betrays her feelings, her body will also be betrayed, and the woman after betrayal is very resolute, (unless she likes the 3 corners game), don't have illusions about her, tell you that a mature man does not know how to find a woman, but knows how to leave a woman.

Some feelings felt that they couldn't let go of death, and they didn't marry her, but if she didn't feel for you, it would be for nothing. It's not good to change it, in fact, the sky won't fall without her. If she doesn't love you, marrying her is likely that you will regret it for the rest of your life, yes, I am.

If you really care.

You'll have a way.

The answer is in your own heart.

Napoleon said:

Men go to conquer the world in order to conquer women.

Women go to conquer men in order to conquer the world.

Are you a man?

What's the matter? The way to deal with it is not the same.

First, have the ability to discern whether the other party has really broken up with you or fake? Before redeeming, you must find out what the other party is thinking now, an attitude towards this relationship, whether the other party really wants to end this relationship, or just wants to test yourself and deliberately break up.

Only after figuring out this, can we take specific measures to redeem it, and prescribe the right medicine for the other party's careful thinking. And to find out whether the other party is a real breakup or a fake breakup, you can judge it from many aspects.

If the other party says that they will break up with you, but they still talk to you and do not tell their friends and family about the breakup, then this process is actually a process of redemption for themselves, and it is also a process of taking the initiative to admit their mistakes and apologize to the other party.

On the contrary, if the other party clearly tells you to break up, block everything about you, and make it clear to your family and friends that you have broken up. Then at this time, there is a certain degree of difficulty in retrieving, it is no longer a matter of two people, when it comes to retrieving, you need to start from each other's relatives and friends, and mobilize the power of relatives and friends to help yourself recover, of course, at this time, it will also test your usual social and behavioral behavior.

Second, find the reason for the breakup and build emotional trust. Nowadays, whether it is a sense of security or a sense of belonging, it is based on a certain degree of trust, and many people break up because of insecurity. At this time, you must figure out the reason why the other party broke up with you, and see if it was because of your own problems or other problems.

If it is your own problem, whether you don't care enough about the other person, or you are not self-motivated, always disappointing the other party, etc., you should start from a specific point to find the root of the problem.

If the other party lacks a sense of security, then accompany and communicate more, and if the other party is disappointed in himself, then make himself self-motivated enough to give the other party new hope.

Of course, in this process, it is very important to suggest the trust of the emotional potato banquet, whether it is to accompany or make yourself self-motivated, it is to build trust with each other, only if the other party trusts himself enough, he will want to reconcile with himself, and he will be determined to manage this relationship.

Third, find new ways to communicate and establish effective emotional communication. After all, the kind of love at first sight in the love life of Shuzhiyin is a minority, and most of the time it is necessary to get along and run in, and in this process, communication is very important.

Correct communication will make the other party feel very comfortable, and it will also make the relationship warm up in the process of communication. Especially when dealing with things, you can enhance your personal charm, tell your personal opinions through effective communication, let the other party better understand yourself, and redefine the relationship.

Therefore, after a breakup, if you want to recover, it is important to find a suitable time to have a deep communication with the other party, so that the relationship can make the other party change their minds about you in this heart-to-heart communication.

I want to save my feelings. The best way to do this is to restore the relationship to the way it used to be. Therefore, the influence of quarrels must be eliminated.

Admitting mistakes and apologizing is inevitable. There is also the need to give some small gifts of false talk. At the same time, he said that he would quarrel with the other party in the future.

After passing these, see if the other party can forgive you for renting and respecting you. If you can forgive, then the relationship between the two people should be able to come back.

First of all, you have to find out the reason for the quarrel between you, and after finding the reason, consider whose fault is right or whose fault it is, and quickly admit the mistake to the other party. And what you promised to the other party must be done, then your relationship can be saved.

If you make a mistake, it is best to correct the mistake in time, so that the other party can see your sincerity and changes. In addition, you can give each other some small gifts to coax each other. Group code grandson.

Hello, on this issue, you can use the method of giving gifts and making the other party happy, in short, let the other party feel your sincerity.

You can find things that the other person likes and make them happy, such as taking her shopping, writing love letters, or something.

There are three tricks to save your feelings, and even if you know one move, you can easily get back together.

1. Find your own reasons

During the freezing period, you have to find out some of your own problems, and seriously change the faults, so that the other party can see your good side again and accept you more easily. No matter what the reason is, when you break up, it already means that your attraction to him has decreased.

Therefore, the content you show should choose behaviors that are easy to trigger the other party's high demand, for example, the other party has always longed for you to be a good wife and mother, then your display is a home type, can cook, and can clean up the house.

2. Don't expose a strong sense of need

Don't expose a strong sense of need too early in the contact period, such as saying something that you miss and love each other very much, otherwise you will only lose your efforts. In the process of contact, when the other party's sense of need for you has improved, and they no longer reject you, and they agree with your change, you can try to invite the other party.

3. Do the right thing at the right time

The secret to redeeming love is to do the right thing in the right redemption period, only in this way can your ex let down his guard against you, be willing to accept you again, and then gradually enhance the relationship step by step, deepen the dependence on each other, and finally naturally harvest better love.

1. Reflect on the past and fill in the gaps

The process of redeeming love is actually the process of resolving your contradictions, and if you want to solve the contradictions, you must find out where the contradictions are. So as soon as you break up, you should reflect on what is wrong with you, have a clearer understanding of your relationship, understand your own shortcomings, and then work hard to improve yourself.

Each of your promotions is a process of increasing the success rate of recovery, making yourself more perfect, so that the other party can have more hope for you, and your recovery can move forward.

2. Don't be impatient, suffer from gains and losses.

Redemption is a process, it takes a little bit of accumulation, take your time, you can't be in a hurry, I can only use empathy to describe your feelings, for the loss of a lover feeling really sad, but since we decided to redeem, we have to calm down and correct our mentality.

3. Don't put pressure on each other, don't pester each other.

The other party's attitude is often quite "confusing", don't blind to Mount Tai! Don't deliberately pick out the details, you can treat him as the object of re-love, and keep a sense of distance between you during this period.

If you want to save your relationship, it is very important to adjust your mentality. If you can face the relationship after the breakup with a positive attitude and calmly accept the fact of the breakup, you have actually taken a big step towards success. In the final analysis, redemption is the process of secondary attraction, and your transformation and value display will attract the other party again, and then make the other party willing to start a relationship with you again.

If you want to save the relationship, you have to let go of your posture, and it is recommended that you show a sincere attitude and tell the other person that you hope he can give you another chance to start over, and hope that he can think about it.

Only sincerity can save feelings. The way to do this is to tell him what is going on in your heart and how important she is to you. Or it's okay to give some small gifts and create some small surprises.

To retain feelings, we must first pay sincerity and sincerity, and use feelings to retain feelings. The specific methods should be full and effective communication, listen more, seek common ground while reserving differences, and set short-term goals together.

If you want to save your feelings, you have to pay sincerity, and exchange sincerity for sincerity. You can give some small gifts, talk about your heart, listen to each other's opinions, and talk to each other about shortcomings and how to correct them.