How can we forget? How can we forget?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    To forget about a person.

    That takes time.

    Slowly dilute feelings.

    Or. Find someone worthy of your love again.

    will forget the previous thia.

    Time and distance can dilute some of the things you want to forget. Change the rhythm and way of life in the past, add new elements, you can go to another city to work, travel, chat with friends, go shopping, buy your favorite clothes, eat your favorite food, make your life more fulfilling, and then make some new friends, new friends of the opposite sex, find a person worthy of your love again, and start a new relationship.

    So. You'll be able to forget about each other.

    Using a new relationship to forget the pain of a past love is the best solution. That's true, but it's not so easy to fall in love with another person again. Before you fall in love with someone else, all you need to do is minimize the pain that love brings you.

    For example, look down on the other party, let the other party no longer become the most important thing in your heart, don't let the other party be left and right, one day, you can be indifferent, maybe it's okay.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The more you want to forget, the more you will remember, and the memory is more firm, it is better to open your heart and not think about him, but it will slowly fade away. Don't deliberately forget someone, just let it be!

    I hope your mood can gradually improve, remember that life is short, we should cherish what we have now, not regret what we have lost, and it is the right choice to live happily every day.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget, it's hard....You need to do it yourself! Actually, the real forgetting is not what you need to forget...There are some things that some people will never forget...The so-called forgetting is nothing more than remembering those things, and I will no longer be sad or sad. If you are sad, it is better to treat it as a dream, and now, when you wake up from the dream, it is time to face the reality!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's hard to forget, and I'm an example of that. But I'm sure time will dilute everything. There is an excesses in everything. Take your time.

    Find a job and keep yourself busy and don't have time to think about anything.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After falling out of love, we always like to ask:

    How can I forget him? I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't. ”

    If you can't forget him, don't forget him.

    Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.

    Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant.

    Excuse me, what do you have in mind?

    You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

    The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

    It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.

    Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

    I've forgotten about him. ”

    However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.

    One day, you'll forget about him.

    True forgetting doesn't take effort.

    One day, you came out of the bathroom and took a shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered that you once loved someone, ah, it turned out that you loved this person, it seemed to be a very distant thing, and you didn't feel it at all. That's forgetting.

    One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember. That's forgetting.

    What's the point of the lost years if time can't make you forget those you shouldn't?。。

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, it is normal for feelings to encounter setbacks, everyone will have a first love, I think the first love is the most perfect, the most worth remembering, because the success rate of the first love is not very high. Time is the best medicine, and as time goes by, I will slowly forget the sad things of the past, because this is how I came through.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To be forgotten in the bitter memory not to think about the present or, difficult to be good, to think, the center of the earth one, after seeing the truth since the two good not to think about the good to light, is when to wait for the cut, light memory to be strong. When it is received, it is remembered by itself, and those who remember it are cut by some. After not smiling at the painful one, all have to wait for the cause to be.

    A mistake is full of cut times from Fushun can wish you to live not live not this want, the next time but not time, you are born only too, reluctantly light, up but a time to forget and you have a back to the fault, will. And the one who can be born forgets it, and the lucky one is to go again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How to say it, in fact, you don't have to worry too much, now I can't help it, leave, choosing to leave is the best way, there is no real forgetting, real forgetting is not painful, don't deceive yourself anymore, okay? Since you still can't forget it, then keep it in your heart as a memory, time will help you dilute everything=

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why do you have to force yourself to forget the person you love? But how do we forget?

    Trust me, leave it to time, time will really dilute everything, 7 months ago I may have wanted to forget him as desperately as you do now, but the more I do that, the more painful I am, so let everything be, if the conditions allow you to change your life, it will be better, and let yourself be as busy as possible, and block everything about the person you want to forget!

    I hope you are happy and happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Only time can dilute everything!

    Don't deliberately forget, you can't forget!

    When you think about it, find something to do to distract yourself!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A person always has to take a strange road, see a strange scenery, listen to a strange song, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can let go of what you are doing and go for a walk, or find something else to do to distract yourself, or find a good friend to talk to. I prefer the first one.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's impossible to forget someone you love dearly.

    It can only be slowly diluted with time, and after a long time, I will still think of her.

    But your heart won't hurt so much.

    You go listen to some sentimental love songs.

    Maybe it will feel better.

    And then I thought to myself.

    Ta leave me.

    It's that he doesn't know how to cherish it, and he will regret it in the future.

    Comfort yourself like that.

    What you have experienced can only be sealed in the dust in your heart as an eternal memory.

    Be strong, some people say that loving someone doesn't have to be with him, as long as he is happy.

    It's really hard to do that.

    I don't know if you can do that, but it's a comfort to yourself.

    Don't deliberately try to forget him, because.

    To think about forgetting while you are thinking.

    You also remembered ta

    Every trauma is a kind of maturity, and you will only mature if you experience it.

    These are all things that people have to encounter in their lives, and the road of life is inherently bumpy. There is no such thing as wishful thinking.

    All you have to do now is cross this hurdle.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she once left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, some things are just a thought, although some things or certain people are important to us. But the most important thing is yourself! Don't be sad because of some people and things that are not worthy of our sadness, the body is your own, no matter how sad and desperate you are, the earth still turns, and time still passes by minute by minute.

    You relax your heart, forget about unhappy people or things, maybe you are still a little tired at the beginning, but please believe me, this world will not end because someone leaves! I believe that in the near future, you will have a better life!

    I wish you happiness.

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