How to face the feelings that are about to separate, how to forget him

I am very touched by your love, and at the same time, I feel your exhaustion in the process of your love. There is a way, how can there be love that does not tire people (heart)? You're leaving.

After so many years, it must be impossible to have results, but it is not absolutely impossible. But you have to think about some of the things that might have happened in the years you've been away, for example, if you're in love with a better man, if he's in love with another girl, and even if that doesn't happen, you'll have a lot in common when you come back from graduate school.

Language? Of course, I don't know if you'll come back to work after reading it, you said it, the gap between you is so big now, so you can imagine it in a few years.

How big is the gap?

My way: 1. Break up. Better a finger off than always aching. If you come back in a few years, you are still single and still love each other, you can also get back together, which is also fate and a test of the relationship between the two parties. (But the chances of this are very low).

Second, if you don't break up, then separate. It's not that pleasant, just a little less heartache. There was a glimmer of hope. It's easy for things to happen in the middle of a few years. I don't need to repeat what happened.

It's up to you to decide what way you choose, but I also know that neither of these is comfortable, but there is a third way, and you yourself said that you can't choose, so I didn't mention it again. It is up to you to choose which path to take, and you have to go on your own. I wish you all the best!

The more I want to forget, the more I can't forget, so let's think it's a bad memory! Bury it in your heart and start a new journey! When you mention him in the future, it's just a joke, and don't mention him in front of your boyfriend (it's better not to mention him!). ）

It's nothing, it's just that you've been haunted by your previous relationship, after all, the reason why that relationship ended is not something you can accept! In fact, many people who have had similar experiences have this kind of thought! You need to believe in the one who is with you now, cherish him (if you think he is worth cherishing), give your love, think more about the bits and pieces of the year or so between you and your current boyfriend when you are fine, think about happy or angry things, let yourself get used to taking the current him as your center, and it will be fine after a long time!

The key is to believe in his feelings for you!

It's best not to talk about marriage before you open your heart, it will be a hidden danger to your married life! But it really doesn't work, and sometimes simply getting married may solve your troubles!

This dilemma, and then you have to separate.

The best solution is to make a reservation, such as what will happen in a few years, and have enough time to think and choose during the agreed period, so that everyone can continue to be happy, and it is not good to heal. All we have to do now is have a good talk!!

To fall Maybe depravity is also a beauty.

This is not a matter of probability, it depends on whether the person you choose is really worthy of you to let go of family affection for him, but who can predict what will happen in the future? So don't do it if you're not 100% sure, no matter what happens, your parents will always be the ones who care about you the most!

I think he really has a deep affection for you, and you can think of this now that you are very attentive, but your question is how to forget him, I think that the separation is imminent, the emotional thing, just let it be, no one knows what kind of things will happen in the future, people say that the plan does not change quickly, you don't deliberately forget, let it be.

I feel like you know what the answer is, you understand the problem between the two of you, you just don't care about the facts, but you will only hurt him more by doing this, have you ever thought about it? Objectively speaking, the two of you will definitely not be together in the future, as you said, there is a gap between you, since you can't love each other until you get old, it's better to let go as soon as possible and let him find his own sky.

Enrich your life.

Put down all the habits and things he likes to do, such as QQ games.

Watch more movies and get out for sports.

Think about how you should study and live when you go abroad, and how to deal with problems when you encounter problems, it's hard to forget a relationship, it's even harder to forget a person, but you should try to do it, and you've had a relationship that made me die and live, but I still came all the way.

Time changes everything, and maybe, many years later, you'll still remember a time when you had a relationship.

Finally, I hope you can succeed in your studies.

Try not to do anything that might remind you of him, and cut off all news about him!!

You still love him.

However, the gap in all aspects is too great.

He has made many changes for you.

I'm afraid it won't bridge the gap between you.

I think. If you really love him.

Just break up. Let each other be free.

Probably the best option.

Find your purpose and forget about it

My life is limited, in different stages of life, whether it is good or bad, it is a growth for myself, from your first love, or the opposite sex friends after the relationship, when you look back when you are old, your psychology will be very comforting, absolutely you live a very full life, not in vain, feel that life is very rich.

People who betray are unforgivable, long-distance relationships are not as difficult as you think, the key is to see if your love is firm enough, I am in a long-distance relationship, I estimate that I will not see each other for at least 2 years, but I have confidence.

You do something else to forget him. Very simple.

Recognize the facts and forget about the beginning of knowing a new person at the end of a person.

There is a kind of love called letting go of the hand, there is a thing that can make you forget - that is time, there is a sentence I want to tell you, after separation, it is a relief for everyone, if you can't forget, don't forget, leave a place for him in your heart but life has to go on, people are like this for a lifetime.

With the passage of time, I will slowly lose my current attachment to that relationship, but sometimes the memories will always come back.

In fact, there is no need to choose to forget.

Just rationally precipitate it.

After all, not all feelings will have results.

What we have to do now is to face the facts and admit the facts.

There are some things we can't change.

I'm sure you'll get better.

Bless you!

Since that's the case, let's be ruthless.

Actually, love. It doesn't have to be together again.

If together, they will hurt each other.

Together, it hurts the family.

Then it will be sad to be together again.

It's better to be ruthless than one of them.

You can miss your days together.

But look for him no more.

It might be better that way.

Looking for one.

What else can you do?

It's better to divide the relationship as soon as possible.

I feel the same way. See what you're talking about. It reminds me a lot, and I don't have anything to say, because my current situation is much the same as yours.

I know very well that others can't help me, and the most important way is to walk and make my own decisions. Sometimes it's better to turn back the clock. I didn't know each other.

Love is wonderful and romantic, but after the love is gone, it will bring great harm to each other. Therefore, there are many people who want to forget each other as soon as possible after a breakup, so how should we learn to let go and forget each other?

Clause. 1. Don't force yourself to forget.

There are many people in life who constantly forget each other through self-suggestion after a breakup. As everyone knows, such an approach will actually bring the opposite effect. Cognitive psychology believes that the more a person forces himself to forget something, the easier it is for him to remember it.

The more you don't let yourself not think about things related to the other person, your mind will be filled with memories between you. Therefore, when we can't forget, we might as well go with the flow and don't force ourselves!

Clause. 2. Accept positive energy.

When many people just break up, they are in a critical state of extreme pain, losing their enthusiasm for life and interest in work, and immersed in endless sadness every day. At this time, you might as well take a vacation for your soul, go out for a walk, meet old friends, or listen to inspirational stories and watch positive videos. After a while, you will find that falling out of love is not so terrible, and there are many beautiful things waiting for you to accomplish in life.

Clause. 3. Face the reality and don't run away.

Some couples are afraid to face their friends and loved ones when they first break up. They feel that it is a very shameful thing to fall out of love, and they are afraid that relatives and friends will laugh at them. I also force myself to put on a smiling face to face everyone every day.

It doesn't have to be this way. After all, your relatives and friends are your strongest backing, and they will support you unconditionally. So when you fall out of love, you must face the reality, talk to relatives and friends about your feelings, let them accompany you through the ups and downs and pain, and accompany you to face the unsatisfactory life.

The first point is that if you want to forget the other person, you should have a new way of life, the second point is that you can try to make a boyfriend so that you can forget the other person and stop thinking about him, and the third point is that you can also have a new favorite and hobby, so that you will forget the other person.

Block and delete the other party, throw away things related to the other party, no longer care about anything about him, keep a certain distance from him, and no longer go to places with memories.

Hello: First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love.

If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone. But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.

1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.

You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.

Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in the same city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.

You can recall little by little about her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.

3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!

But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn't like me now, but I also want you to be the same, every time I think about it, I have a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and that person doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it will be useless. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.

Let me tell you one more sentence: the current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.

The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.

After a couple breaks up, how to quickly forget each other, the secret is inseparable from these 5 points, please keep in mind!

Even if you start a new relationship, you're not going to be happy.

Although there is a saying that "the best way to forget a person is to fall in love with another person", but if you don't let go of him, how can you love another man wholeheartedly, if you really can't forget it, put him in the bottom of your heart, and occasionally come out and recall life will not be so boring, I have no way to forget a person, a few years, I can't forget it, then hide it in my heart. I hope you can forget about the unhappy ones soon, and I don't ask you to give me a share, but I hope what I say can help you.