Is there any love and affection around that does not need to be paid?

Yes, but that's something that very few people can do. Being able to love someone unconditionally is often strong and stable in their hearts and wants nothing from you. Therefore, most people will not meet people who "love themselves unconditionally" in their lives, everyone is the same, and it is very fair.

But in fact, after thinking about this, it will be much easier. Your parents ask for something, your lover asks for you, if you can't give it, you can't give it, and you don't need to be pressured. If you always think that the other person "loves you unconditionally", then you will always be pressured to achieve what the other person wants to reciprocate this love when the other person asks for it.

But the truth is, you can't give. Investing is risky, not to mention asking for others. It is not very common to ask for it, and there is no need to often let yourself down and accommodate others.

You start by thinking about what you want, what you want to be, and what kind of life you want to live. Don't rush to follow someone else's approach just yet. Do yourself well first, and everything can go smoothly.

I've always heard a saying that says, "Parents love you unconditionally." "I used to be convinced, until I couldn't do what they imagined, and in the face of their skeptical eyes, I realized that they want you to be what they want you to be, and they have their expectations of you. But isn't it good to be yourself?

Why do they have to live the way they want them to be? Sometimes I really don't understand this. I think this problem may have nothing to do with parents, but just with people themselves, people always maintain respect for things they can't understand, always misinterpret or disdain, which is a common problem for many people, not only your parents.

It's just that they're your parents. However, it is only the most helpless point, the future partner can be chosen, but parents have no choice. And they are exactly all the first ** of your love.

I can only say that if I become a parent in the future, I will definitely not set my own expectations for her, I hope that she can be happy and healthy, and she can choose what kind of person she can go to and what kind of career she can do.

I don't know if there is unconditional love, but I do know that there is unconditional affection, and the maternal love I feel is like that. My mother gave birth to me and raised me, she felt sorry for me, worried about me, he never got anything, I didn't expect anything from me, he just wanted me to live well, even if it was at the expense of myself. ‍‍

The most painful thing is not only not to be loved, but to pray for love while not being loved. Love, since it is unconditional, cannot be forced. Just because your parents are parents doesn't mean they love you; Just because your girlfriend is a girlfriend doesn't mean she loves you.

Neither blood nor identity is a reason for love. If you are pursuing such love, you are likely to get nothing, it cannot be forced, it can only wait in silence. Don't ask them why they don't love you.

Love doesn't need a reason, so no one in this world has a reason to love you, and no one has a reason not to love you. For love, please don't ask why.

Isn't it a joy to give in love and affection? How can there be such a pursuit?

Your parents and girlfriend really don't love you, your parents want you to achieve goals that you can't achieve, and what your girlfriend wants to find is a partner or companion, regardless of whether love and affection are completely unconditional, but the person who really loves you will definitely give you a lot of support. The basis of a person's self-love is to accept who they really are, to find the life they really want, and the same is true for the person who loves you, if the other person is not willing to listen to your true thoughts, it is only at the mercy of love in the name of love.

Unconditional love from others may be there, but not everyone is fortunate enough to encounter it, and it is not a necessity in life. Regardless of whether your parents and girlfriend love you unconditionally or not, you first have to learn to love yourself, it doesn't matter what they want you to be, what matters is what you want to be, and then do it. You can't force the love that others give, but when you learn to love yourself, you have a love that you will never lose.

Before I became a mother, I may have the same idea as you, but after becoming a mother, I feel that my love for my son is unconditional, I must have hopes and expectations for him, if he can't do it I will be disappointed, but this does not affect my love for him, I love him for no reason, he is not the best looking, and he does not learn things faster than others, but this is not important to me, because he is a part of me, an indispensable part. As for the girlfriend, she is not related to you by blood, and whether you have the ability to have a future is closely related to her future life, which is of course conditional, otherwise why are we all over the world singing about those examples of never leaving the terminally ill lover? Because it's rare, it needs to be promoted, and this really can't be forced.

And what kind of coverage between parents and children is the most eye-catching? Often examples of unlove, such as abuse, such as abandonment, why? Because it's just as rare.

There are many selfless people in history, not without selfishness, but who see themselves clearly and understand the deeper value. Throughout history, how many people have been able to see themselves and others clearly. The vast majority of people are ordinary people, don't expect anyone to give you unconditional love, when you are thinking about whether others can give you this kind of love, it means that your heart has been extreme.

There's really nothing to talk about, and most of it is telling your own story. In my opinion, it makes no sense at all, human nature is like that. Expecting others to give you unconditional love is better than learning to love yourself better, recognize yourself, improve yourself, and protect yourself.

In the end, you have the power to choose the life you want, and the people you like. Finally, I would like to say a very cruel remark, that it is impossible for people to be completely selfless "forever". Unconditional love is like an epiphany.

Family affection should be chosen. The bond between family members is a lifetime, blood is thicker than water, this is how to bring such as can't give up, love may encounter stupid letter rebellion, family love no one can be replaced.

Looking at it first, is your family of origin good to you? If you can choose family affection, if it is not particularly good, then choose Zhan Suiqing love. If clan love is not good for you, then choose family affection.

For me, if I can't have it both ways, then I will choose to choose my family affection carefully, because I don't want to hurt my parents for anyone, they are the most important people in the world of respect to me.

Feelings are things that come out of the heart of animals, and for family affection, love, and friendship, almost everyone needs it, unless that person encounters something that hits him, leaving a shadow in his heart, making him distrust family love, friendship, at this time, it seems that he doesn't need it - for normal people. In fact, he still longs for it in his heart, but he just deceives himself. No one doesn't need this.

There are some special cases, such as people who are physiologically deficient in certain hormones (or hormones), who will show a little less in this aspect and may not seem to be needed. Mentally ill people also have brains, we can't say that crazy people are stupid, right, crazy people are just crazy, not necessarily stupid. Therefore, a mentally ill person also needs others to care for him, to understand him, and to listen to him.

There is only one kind of person who does not need it, and that is the dead.

There are people who don't need the goal of family, friendship, and love.

In ancient times, there were a lot of such people, what kind of imperial guards.

A person who pursues the highest level of martial arts.

And the person who has received special training since childhood, does not know family, love, friendship, only knows his abilities and things to do.

And many more!!

But these people may learn about family, love, and friendship when they are in contact with the outside world, but they all appear in the second world (that is, the world that ordinary people can't reach), where people often use it to accomplish special tasks.

In addition, the dead will not rest in peace if they have no feelings.

Psychosis can be aroused by affection, love, and friendship.

There are many cases of geniuses committing suicide because of lack of feelings.

Like me, I don't need to, I've always lived by myself, and I live without these, but I don't know if this state is really alive. At least the so-called family affection, love and friendship only cause me trouble! I'm a person who doesn't like trouble!

Dead, mentally ill, or genius.

In the growth of people, we will encounter all kinds of feelings, such as family, love and friendship, which we will encounter in our livesThen in our hearts, family affection is the most important, and it will make us desperate to give.

Affection

When we are born, there will be family affection that has been accompanying our growth, so that we feel meticulous care, but in many cases, we will feel that family affection is the most common, and will not strive to cherish it, but when you lose, you will find that family affection is a good existence, giving us shelter from the wind and rain, in our most difficult times, it is also family affection has been supporting us.

When it comes to family affection, the first thing we think of is our parents, our parents' love for us is meticulous, and they will not leave us at any time, even if we do not do well, then in the eyes of our parents we are the best, when we are not sensible, we often do not understand the painstaking work of our parents, when we become adults, we will slowly understand the difficulty of our parents, so that we will cherish our parents more and cherish this affection.

Love

Everyone will experience love, and some people will experience many kinds of love, but sometimes love is not a long-term existence, and it is likely to leave you halfway. At this time, you will feel the preciousness of family affection, which will make you cherish family affection even more. Eh please is an emotion formed by two people who love each other.

But sometimes love is a very fragile emotion, as long as you don't pay attention to it, then this emotion will be lost, which will make your heart very uncomfortable.

We can experience a lot of love, but family affection is just such a part, so I will give everything for family affection, because this kind of pay is worth it, and we must also do it, we can give up love, but we must not give up family affection, it is family affection that makes us happier, so we must cherish this family affection.

In fact, in many cases, family affection and love need to be paid together, so that our lives will become more satisfying.

Love and affection, family affection can make me pay more desperately, only relatives and parents will stand behind you unconditionally.

Nothing is more important than my parents, so family affection is especially precious to me, and if my parents have any needs, I will definitely work hard for them.

In the face of love and family affection, what can make me desperate to pay should be love, I feel that for the people I love, I am willing to give everything, including life and death.

Family affection can make me desperate to give, especially if I have a daughter in the future, I will care about her growth.

Of course, it's family affection, I personally don't have a special idea about love, so it's hard for me to be desperate for love, because I don't particularly trust love.

I think it's family affection, because if you don't have love, you can find it again, and if you don't have family affection, you won't have it anymore.

As a perfect life, family love is indispensable.

Although sometimes there will be a time when you have to choose one or the other, for example, if your chosen marriage is not agreed by your family, at this time, you have to make a careful choice. Family love is love, both have love, and there must be understanding and love in them.

If it were me, I would choose to give up love, because family affection is innate. It is an unchanging love and care. Family affection is always the first in my heart, or in my heart.

Love is something that accompanies each of us throughout our lives. Of course it matters, it will make you happy and it will make you mature, but it will also make you sad and it will make you miserable. It is an unreliable thing, even if you lose love.

You still have at least family affection. This is a fact that will never change.

If I want to be with him, I can't be justified, I don't want that, help me! You have to see if it is really worthy of your love, good love and family affection, you don't have to analyze which is important, who should be given up love.

Love is an impulse, and family affection is more long-lasting, a momentary throbbing short-term giving, and a long-term support giving, which do you think is heavier?

AffectionJust like for your parents, you can find a boyfriend and girlfriend after you break up, but what about your parents?

Whether it is your parents or older siblings, they are the ones who have been with you from the beginning, you are happy with you, you are sad and will always be with you, family affection has always existed without paying, but it has always existed and it makes people forget it.

I don't think there is an absolute between this emotion, it depends on how it compares with you!