Is long distance love really unreliable, is long distance love really unreliable?

Two people calmly talk about it If the relationship is really deep, they won't want to give up each other so easily Unless there are other unavoidable hardships, The other two people think about the direction of development clearly, and these are not problems Now the transportation is so convenient, most of the planes across the country can be reached in one day at most, if two people really love each other, make more concessions, what is he worried about You will solve his worries, and your heart will be at ease You will not worry so much.

There is true love in the world, there is true love in the world, no matter how far apart the two parties are, it's okay, the distance can't determine love, you just rely on her, let the girl more. There's nothing wrong with living with her, in short, the love of two people has nothing to do with distance! (I wanted to scold your concept, but I held back!) ）

I think she has no confidence in herself, you should support her more, often take her back and forth, get used to it, you won't be afraid of not seeing your parents, in fact, this is the sequelae of relying on your parents since childhood, once you leave the scope of your parents, you should feel uncomfortable or fearful, take her to travel, it is best to be short-term, and then move around more.

If love can give up everything, and feelings have not surpassed reason, it means that love is not enough, so keep trying.

You yourself are a worker, and any love can't be relied on, your income is only enough to feed and wear, women are very realistic, no one will give you hardships for a lifetime, this is the reality.

In long-distance relationships, many people are not too optimistic, and feel that in two different places, if the foundation of two people in the early stage is not strong, it is easy to have problems.

I have less time together, and it's a long place, I didn't hear that there is still work to do, after work, sometimes I'm very tired, I don't want to do anything, and I have to contact each other, although it is happy to communicate with my lover with Kai Shu, sometimes I want to be quiet, I don't want to talk, I don't want to move.

But in a different place, the other party is not aware that he has some troubles or unhappiness and sometimes does not want to pass on to the other party, but this just leaves a hidden danger, the other party does not know, to chat, the tone is not good, said a few words, which is not good, suddenly the mood is not good, maybe the tone of speech has changed, burying the estrangement.

The biggest sadness is not being able to meet, and the biggest helplessness is not being able to accompany you. This heartache manifests itself in the following moments:

So I can only keep talking, asking and sharing. It takes a lot of time to explain the "basic" things: what new stores have opened here, what new dramas have I recently chased, which characters I like, whether I'm doing laundry or I'm asleep at the moment.

The most common phrase in the chat log is "What are you doing?" "These explanations are exhausting. Unless you have the will to do so, it's easy to slack off.

Over time, they will begin to panic and know too little about each other's lives. A boy said to me, "Later, I often can't understand her circle of friends, and I don't know how to reply, so I can only like it silently." ”

Second, if you are sick, no matter how much you care, it is useless, or fragile The paradox of a long-distance relationship is: when you need each other the most, it happens to be when the other person is not around. One girl said, "Outsiders say it's a psychological cue, probably because they haven't experienced a long-distance relationship and run into illness."

3. Compared with quarrels, I am more afraid of the quarrel of a long-distance relationship without a voice, I can't see the expression, I can't hear the tone clearly, and it becomes very difficult to capture each other's emotions. Misunderstandings multiply wildly, and resentment toward each other grows bigger and bigger. I can't understand the quarrel.

But many starers said, "No matter how fierce the quarrel is, I'd rather quarrel, ** there will be more panic if there is no sound."

Fourth, the long-distance relationship is actually really sad, and they are not around each other when they are the most tired and bitter, although they can talk about something every time, but every time I say I miss you, how I want to hug you by your side. The most painful thing about a long-distance relationship is that someone asks me if I'm doing well and I say it's fine. It's good that I'm driving through countless streets by myself, I'm coping with the little calculations of life, I'm resisting the occasional bad intentions of fate, and she's not there in those terrible moments.

First, because of the distance between me and the other person, I gave up the person I liked for a long time. When we were in middle school, when we were together, the teacher said that we couldn't fall in love, because falling in love would affect learning, and the two of you couldn't come together in the end, but at that time, I really didn't believe that falling in love would affect learning, and I also felt that if the two of us insisted on the choice, neither of us could affect the relationship between the two of us. But now that I think about it, it's not unreasonable for the teacher to say those things, because he is from the past.

Maybe it's because the two of us have been together for longer and longer, so there will always be some inexplicable contradictions, and there will always be quarrels over trivial things, and when I encounter these contradictions again, I don't know how I should solve them correctly.

Second, the long-distance relationship is really too hard, we are not admitted to the same university, and the two of us are not in the same city in two different provinces. So I think when we encounter some problems, the two of us can't do anything at all, okay, my sister used to have some conflicts when she was in school, which could make the two of us angry for a long time. Maybe it's because we're too young and don't treat feelings particularly maturely, and sometimes we really need a hug from each other, but it's because of the distance between the two of us, which makes our hearts more and more tired.

Thirdly, in the end, I chose to break up with the other person, because I felt that it was much easier for me to find someone who was in the same school as me during the four years of college than to like someone who was very far away. But it turned out that I was wrong, and after the breakup, I realized what was most important to me, and I didn't have the time and energy to meet someone again, to like someone again. I can't give up the relationship between the two of us, because after all, I think the two of us have been together since middle school, and the relationship between the two of us is relatively pure and beautiful.

I also envy those couples who are still in a long-distance relationship, and I hope that all lovers can eventually become married.