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1. Inform your whereabouts at any time.
The fundamental reason why many online and long-distance relationships can't come to fruition is that they can't be with each other at any time. Sometimes you feel lost or flustered. Therefore, when you start online dating, you may wish to try to inform the other person of your whereabouts at any time, let him know what you are doing where he can't see, and let him participate in your life even if he is thousands of miles away, as if he is also participating in your life by your side, so that you can effectively maintain your love.
If you like each other very much after a period of online contact, you can arrange to meet. If the distance is relatively far away and it is not convenient to meet, chat with ** for the first time to make sure that the other party really exists. There is no shortage of stories on the Internet about uncles pretending to be little girls and chatting with boys, and the sound can be changed using equipment, which can be greatly trimmed, so we need to contact each other as soon as possible, 3. Trust each other.
There should be a fixed time **hit** every day, there must be romantic gifts for special holidays, he is the first person you think of when you wake up in the morning, and he is the last person you chat with when you go to bed at night. Be sure not to have anything to do with the opposite sex, no matter how much men and women have enough trust in your other half, the most test of a long-distance relationship is mutual trust.
4. Say what you miss.
No matter how long you have been dating, if you miss each other, you have to be brave enough to say it, occasionally be coquettish, and say "I miss you", no matter who is in love on both sides will always be very happy when they hear this. Because you can't see each other often, you can make up for the lack of heart through the nourishment of sweet words.
5. Cherish emotions and return to real life as soon as possible.
Every relationship is hard-won, cherish each other's fate. If you really like each other after a period of contact and understanding, arrange a meeting as soon as possible, even if you are not in the same city, you can also go to an intermediate city accompanied by family and friends to deepen your understanding. After face-to-face communication, you will find that it is completely different from pure online chat, and two people need to pay hard and cherish each other in their later lives.
Online dating is happy, but the premise is that both people must have the longing and confidence to return to real life.
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Don't know how to solve a long-distance relationship? Teach you to maintain relationships.
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For long-distance relationships and online dating, we should also overcome difficulties by carefully planning for the future, empathy, and strengthening communication, so that the relationship can still have results.
As long as the relationship between the two is stable, it is not enough to be a reason to be envious. Long-distance dating and online dating are just a starting point, although long-distance dating and online dating will have many changes, such as location, work, and future choices may be different, and these are all tests, all feelings need to go through a series of tests, and after passing the test, the future relationship will be more precious and will have a beautiful result.
How to talk about a love without breaking up?
First of all, we must know that feelings are not child's play. When starting a relationship, it is necessary to carefully consider it, take into account rationality and sensibility, and avoid ignoring practical problems as soon as your mind is hot. Good emotions are based on the inner psychological connection between two sexes with mature psychology and sound personality, and responsible feelings can go longer and further.
Second, do a good job of planning for the future of the two people. Economy is the basis of love preservation, most of the students will be independent after leaving the college campus, both parties have to find a suitable job to obtain economic independence, to support and support their love, the city of work, the type of work, the income of the work, are to be discussed and decided by two people, and these need to be considered clearly in advance by two people in the junior year, and then graduate in order to move in the same direction.
Again, learn to compromise and give in. When it comes to a mature relationship, both parties need to be motivated and compromised for the love to be perfect. For example, after graduation, long-distance relationships and other issues need to be discussed slowly by both parties to find a way to solve the problem that is acceptable to both of you, and the necessary compromise and abandonment are the only way to love.
Finally, self-improvement and love preservation. A good emotional state is that two buried people are moving forward, and the relationship between one person struggling forward and the other stopping and lying flat is destined to not last long.
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The probability of long-distance online dating being able to finally come together is relatively low, first of all, long-distance dating is more testing for both parties, love will be more difficult and prone to many problems, plus online dating will have a lower success rate.
The way to make long-distance online dating a positive result:
1.Focus on improving the degree of fit: Many long-distance relationships end up losing not to the distance between the mountains and seas, but the dissonance of the degree of fit caused by distance - the two parties grow at different speeds and lose their common language.
Because they are in a different place, the impact of both parties on Bi Yingyou's life will naturally become smaller, and the reaction to each other's changes will be delayed, which will lead to some seemingly inadvertent changes accumulating bit by bit, and finally the other party suddenly discovers: I don't recognize the original person.
2.Maintain a good level of interaction: Many long-distance couples who persist are not those conjoined babies who have to make ** porridge every day - this state of love is often immature or even pathological:
There is no independent life, and both parties only rely on each other to kill time. If long-distance couples adjust their relationship mode, not only will they not affect their relationship, but on the contrary, they even have more advantages than ordinary couples: the increase in alone time caused by objective conditions will help them better improve themselves.
3.Be prepared to anticipate the future of the other person: When we do something with a clear goal and plan, we have more motivation to accomplish it, even if the task itself is very difficult.
The most useful lesson that long-distance couples have taught us is that a clear expectation can be a strong bond that holds us together.
4.Actively do positive feedback: Speaking of which, many people vaguely feel that ** is wrong:
Some couples have all these things, and even their expectations are clear that they will get married in a few years. Yes, anticipation is important, but many people ignore another key factor in the imitation of the song, although it is not difficult, but once it is missing, our previous efforts and persistence are meaningless. That's where expectations come with – positive feedback.
Positive feedback as an expected outcome should not be pulled out as a factor in the first place: since you are working towards your goal, how can you not have positive feedback? Look, that's the problem.
Many couples finally break up with the so-called "no hope", because the positive feedback is wrong: the expectation is good, but in the end it is just a thought.
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The possibility of online dating and long-distance dating finally coming together is very small, 80% of people feel that it is not credible, most of them just want to have fun, and Benxian may even be the scene of a car accident. How difficult is a long-distance relationship, people who have never experienced it will never know that there is a kind of love in this world, all year round, you can't see your lover a few times, you can only hold your mobile phone every day and say that you miss it.
In fact, it is obviously in the name of a couple, but lives the life of a single dog, this kind of love is called a long-distance relationship. The weather forecast on the phone is for two cities, every time I think of you, I will look at the weather over there, but unfortunately it rains, and I can't send you an umbrella.
Sometimes I envy the people in your city, they can meet you at any time, can take the same bus or subway with you, and may even pass by you, and I can only miss you by memories and photos on my phone. There is also online dating is also difficult, virtual space love may have spiritual comfort, there will be a lot of uncertain factors, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory things in real love, not to mention online dating, so be cautious.
Online dating and long-distance relationships are both taboo ways to fall in love, you also engage in a double, first, less contact in daily life, it is difficult to understand each other, it is useless to understand on the Internet, you can't tell if others lie, and when you need help, the other party is far away, at most a few words of comfort, no use at all. In the end, after a long time, the relationship faded, and they will inevitably break up!
My boyfriend and I are in school, he is in Beijing and I am at home, it has been four years, the relationship is still very good, now he goes home to work and I go to Beijing to study for graduate school, he works while taking the postgraduate examination, can see each other for two months a year, probably, but the goal of the two people is the same, in order to be happier together in the future, long-distance relationship is good, every time we meet, there is a sense of freshness, and we can test each other in the time when we don't meet, you can send small gifts, you can stay all night**, you can do a lot of things that couples who stick together all day long can't do, So, if you love him and he loves you even more than you love him, then don't care about that!
If it's a long-distance relationship, I don't think I'm optimistic about this championship, because if the two people don't stay together for a long time, they will eventually separate.
Yes, you can. But it's still best to find a way to see each other often. After all, chatting is far apart, and if you don't say the right thing, there will be misunderstandings and friction. I wish you all happiness.
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