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As the saying goes, "a gentleman doesn't live in the belly of a villain", since you know that she has a small heart, you don't have to care about her words. In other words, from her point of view, the more anxious you are, the happier she is. Therefore, it doesn't matter much whether you endure or not, the key is your own attitude!
Before a big situation happens, you should take a blind eye so that you can be calm and not fall into the name of being stingy!
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Most of the people in the world are wandering in these states, and you have to have all these states, and then adapt to the time and the situation. Don't explain, if you want to explain, it's in the dictionary. Savor it slowly.
Specifically, it is connected like this: Give people a sense of generosity, but you have to know that you are cautious, you must be careful in life, catch all the wind and grass, and be heartless when you encounter problems involving your own essential interests. Does that make it clear?
To overcome the cautious eye, we must first recognize its harmfulness that affects our image, and enhance our consciousness of overcoming this shortcoming. To overcome the cautious eye, the key is to improve the connotation quality with wisdom, generosity, reason, and sincerity as the core. Always pay attention to the threesome, there must be my teacher, strict with discipline, lenient with others.
Think twice before you act, and avoid being overly emotional. As long as you are determined to make amends, it is not difficult to overcome!
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What should I do if I meet someone with a careful eye at work? Especially the kind of colleagues who need to deal with all the time, sometimes they are really helpless, so what should we do when we meet people who are careful to dig tricks?
What is cautious eye?
Cautious refers to people who are narrow-minded, short-sighted, and suspicious by nature.
Careful eye performance.
The common manifestations of the cautious eye that we encounter in life are love to take advantage, being unforgiving, jealousy, being more sensitive, not allowing others to say that they are not a word, etc., which may be reflected in a certain characteristic, or it may be manifested in two or more in it.
How to get around with a cautious eyed person?
Without violating the principle, go along with other wishes.
It is a person who must deal with him at work, without violating the company's system and the company's interests, and does not entangle with him.
Be tolerant of yourself.
In the case of the loss of their own interests, they can be tolerant as much as possible, after all, colleagues are looking down and not looking up, and they will suffer a little loss if they suffer a loss, and they will be more tolerant.
Try to avoid suspicion.
When doing things, try to avoid his suspicions, be above board, need to notify him, notify him, don't need to tell him, you can do it openly.
Let time run in.
If you are jealous because of your excellence, then let time run in. Or when there is a contradiction in the judgment and it is not clear to explain, let time dilute all this.
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