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Generally speaking, people will always have troubles, and when they have troubles, they will have negative emotions, so there is no need to worry about it, and there is no need to blame yourself too much. Life is originally a contradictory process of kneading the thread while dismantling the thread, if you find yourself in a negative mood, be sure to do the following.
When you are stuck in negativity, don't be alone because being alone can make you cranky and make it harder to get out of it. If you are working, then you are lucky, then don't be cranky, work hard first, a fulfilling job will allow you to get out of negativity temporarily.
Sometimes, when you are depressed, you can vent appropriately, but venting should not threaten the personal safety of others. You can go to a close friend, chat together, and have a drink together. Reminiscing about the good memories of childhood, everyone will always have a few good memories of their childhood, in the deepest part of our souls, but we don't want to, don't want to talk to others, to communicate.
Life is always unsatisfactory, in fact, you can see that there is nothing, but we are not willing to let go, we don't want to let go, and we can't send down the facts, because that is our responsibility, that is our strength. However, the problem is not unsolvable, and the negativity is no different. Look carefully for the causes of our negativity.
Family, friendship, love, or work problems, family problems, social problems.
It's not that it's unsolvable, but it's hard to solve, isn't it, so we're stuck in a dead end. In fact, it's always us who can't let go, can't let go, can't let go of ourselves. But we still have to face the problem objectively and solve the problem.
Since you can't get it, you've worked hard, so let it go and go. If you feel like you can do it, then you have to do it step by step. Maybe you feel like it's a mountain, maybe you feel like it's a sea, but what does it matter?
You just have to do it, and it doesn't matter if it's successful or not.
Let it go, don't embarrass yourself, don't embarrass your friends, and don't hurt your family. Because once lost, it can never be returned. We can forgive someone we just know, so why can't we forgive our loved ones.
Life is actually very helpless, but we still have to live, cry and laugh when we walk, and a lifetime is enough.
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