To see her or not to see her 20, to see her or not to see her

Updated on amusement 2024-06-28
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's wrong for you to confess to him, real love is not made out like this, it's not that she doesn't like you. That's what I thought. It's just that your method is wrong or the timing is wrong.

    I don't think you need to say things like "I like you" or "be my girlfriend" when you're in a relationship, and sometimes it's counterproductive.

    From ordinary friends - good friends - bosom friends - girlfriends, you are still too anxious.

    I can see that you like her very much, so give yourself another chance, give her another chance, and go for it! Say what she thinks, speak it thoroughly, and she'll cry.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Good buddy, it's good to think like this In fact, the highest level of loving someone is to love someone is to make her happy, you don't have to get her In fact, emotional things are the most difficult to grasp I also wish you success and happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After reading your post, I found that you like her very much, but you are afraid of being hit, why bother, do it, there is hope if you do it, and if you don't do it, it will never come to fruition. I hope that the word regret will not happen to you, and I wish you success.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Keep in touch with her, then refine yourself and wait for the opportunity to confess to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The confession was rejected, then you confess again, if there is really no hope, then you can change people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Whether it's time to see her in your heart, you know best, you don't need others to tell you, good luck.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Girls just like to talk back, you can't listen to her say no, don't use it. You have to take the initiative.

    When she saw me or didn't see me, she said no, she didn't need to go down or not to collect things. When she saw me, she was very cautious and patient, whether she saw me or not, how could I go?

    Girls just like to talk back, you can't listen to her say no, don't use it. You have to take the initiative.

    So what's wrong with me? How do you think it's better to go back, the chances of seeing her are better, whether she sees me or doesn't want to see me or not.

    You can, I'd like to see you before I go back.

    When I see you, I will go back tomorrow, and my heart will be handed over to the baby to express my sincerity. How about this back, it needs to be changed again.

    OK. Today, I ate and played in the city by myself, and my colleague played at his friend's house. When I see you, I will bury the hail and go back tomorrow, and my heart will be handed over to the baby to express my sincerity.

    Saying this means that a person has no scum to be with his colleagues. The gift is in hand, and if you say what you think, give an opinion, and modify it.

    Put my heart in the hands of the baby to show my sincerity. Remove.

    You can change to, I haven't seen the baby for a long time, I really want to see it this time, I hope the baby can let me take a look at the chain segment, Fu Yin, if the baby doesn't want to be now, I don't want to ask for it, next time I miss me, just tell me, I'm on call.

    I sent it to see if she agreed to make an appointment, and if I didn't see it, I would send you that paragraph, if I saw it, how to try it, she was to see me, or to see her for a gift.

    OK.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's very tangled!

    First of all, since he is your ex-boyfriend, as your current boyfriend you have to tell him, it is important to ask your current boyfriend's opinion first, after all, he is your current happiness!

    Secondly, it can also be seen from your words that you want to meet him, ask your boyfriend for advice, if you agree, you have to kiss him a little, so that he will not be angry with you because of jealousy, and you must not lie to him!

    If you don't agree, you should also be coquettish to him and say, "Honey, I only love you alone now, just having a meal with him!" If you don't believe it, you go too!

    Tell me about it in a language like that! He won't really go with you! In this case, if he agrees, kiss him, don't show too much pleasure, let him think that you care about him and love him, and will ask for his opinion!

    He will understand and love you even more! If he still doesn't agree, you don't need to ask him anymore, you don't have to meet your ex-boyfriend, compared to seeing your ex-boyfriend and your current happiness, it's more important now!

    I don't understand why you want to see your ex-boyfriend so much, you have to treat this him next to you with your heart!

    Hope you don't have to tangle it!

    Happiness with boyfriend! Don't lie to him, a man can forgive you many, many mistakes, but deception is hard to forgive!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You shouldn't see it at all, you are a typical person who is not dedicated to your relationship now, you already have a boyfriend, but you still think about your ex-boyfriend, do you think you are worthy of your current boyfriend? If you let your boyfriend know about it, how many unnecessary disputes will it cause, cherish the person in front of you, the reason why he calls him an ex-boyfriend means that he is a thing of the past for you, you both have your own new life, you are already impossible, why continue to break the thread? After separation, try to forget, live your current life, and don't involve each other is the best choice!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then it depends on whether your current boyfriend minds or not, you can hide it from your current boyfriend, but do you think this is worthy, and then you have to see how you separated at the time, since you already have a boyfriend, and you and your ex-boyfriend still have each other in their hearts, then it's better not to see each other, because it's easy to make your relationship burn again, I'm just saying that there is a possibility, and it's also easy to have ambiguity. It's not good for all three of you, and it may bring you a lot of unnecessary trouble in the future, and you have to cherish the life in front of you, and don't do things that you are not sure about or that may cause trouble, and maybe a lot of things will happen in this time that you don't want to happen, which is also possible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    See you! Although you broke up, you can still be friends, and one more friend is better than one more Merson. And you also loved him, and said to him, I am very happy now, and I hope you can also find your happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The relationship that has been cultivated for four years should be very deep, and you also said that you still have him in your heart, and I personally feel that you should not go to see him, saving unnecessary trouble after meeting.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello friend, if it's really a meal and greetings to each other, I don't think there's any problem, we should see you.

    But you said that you still have each other in your heart, so as long as you don't feel sorry for your current boyfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    is separated and now has a new boyfriend, but you still think about him in your heart, which means that you haven't forgotten him, so meet him, be responsible for your innermost feelings, and also be responsible for your new boyfriend, don't leave regrets in the future. I'm from here, so I know it very well.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    See, if you break up, you're still friends, so why bother to make a detour when you meet.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Not at all.

    You just want to have a meal with him, but others don't necessarily think so, your current boyfriend, ex-boyfriend, they will think, associate, diverge their thinking, and --- again

    When the time comes, everyone is confused.

    It's better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    See or not see yourself because you can be friends! But now that you have a boyfriend, you may have a conflict. It's best to talk to your new boyfriend when you see you!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are sure that you can't be with him anymore, then don't contact, there will be a lot of unnecessary troubles that interfere with your life, this kind of situation is entangled and uncomfortable, but the best choice is to forget

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's still gone, I already have a new boyfriend, so don't always worry about it when it's over.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's good not to see, don't have an old love**, pull the current injury!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ask him to see if he has time, mainly you yourself really want to meet, but you have to consider whether it is convenient for him, and it doesn't matter if friends eat.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You have to think about your current boyfriend's feelings, and the past is gone.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hehe, first send him a text message, chat, and finally, jokingly, do you want to invite me to dinner? Hehe, improvisation, it's not impossible to be a friend, besides, love is to have each other's private space, the important thing is the present, the past is always the past

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your current boyfriend really likes you, I don't think he would suggest going ahead and have a meal.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    "I just want to have dinner with my ex-boyfriend."

    You've actually made it clear, so go see you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I have each other in my heart, why do I have to separate, I have already separated, and I have a boyfriend, if my boyfriend knows that you have each other's ex-boyfriends in your heart, how sad it will be.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is easy to stick to one's own position and say anything.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Go What can't afford to lose? 4 years is not easy.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one who loves to guess you the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, whether you are in a good mood or not, you want this person to accompany you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. When two people are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you! knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren; Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then. When making a promise, don't make a promise that can be fulfilled, it is best to promise what you can't do, Anyway, if you can't do it, it doesn't matter if you say it, remember: "Impossible promises are the most moving" In love, saying one thing is one thing, and doing another set; The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Since she chooses to leave, you also choose to forget, don't think about these things, time is the best healing medicine.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What's there to cry about,**? Buckle fastening.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I thought to myself that she wouldn't have it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why are you meeting her? Do you want to redeem it? Do you want to say goodbye? The worldly red dust can only be chosen by yourself! Go for it! It's not that she doesn't want to see you, she needs time, and you both need to be calm!

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