What does it feel like to talk when no one listens?

Feeling lonely! Everyone has a desire to confide in others. This allows us to feel safe and present from the collective.

And the lack of someone to confide in directly leads to a person's uneasiness and anxiety. Loneliness is not isolation, but the inability to communicate with people. In this case, we need to think about our life situation, is it because our relationships have deteriorated, or is it the wrong way we communicate with people?

Everyone is a social person, and the quality of interpersonal relationships also affects our physical and mental health.

Confiding is a kind of emotional catharsis, which is an innate instinct and need. Human beings are social primates and need to constantly exchange information and feedback directly or indirectly with their surroundings. If, of course, this basic communication and feedback does not exist, people will be completely isolated and helpless, and at the same time, they will be unable to release their spirit and spirit outward.

The confession is divided into three stages, namely, reverse confession, condensation confession and release confession, etc. Loneliness is not about oneself, but about how to learn to absorb the confiding of others, condense the essence of one's own wisdom, and release one's own spark to illuminate everyone around you. Only those who know how to flexibly control the confiding can find their own happiness and wisdom in the confiding.

I was lonely and felt like I was so bad. There wasn't even a person to listen to.

Despair, feeling abandoned by the whole world, no one understands themselves, and then firmly believing that everyone is lonely, and after a long time, even the desire to express is gone. Anyway, you don't understand it, and you don't understand it either.

The feeling of no one being listened to makes it feel like the people around you are deliberately alienating you. I feel that my words are not taken seriously. I feel like I can't melt into them.

The pain that no one shares, the pain will be doubled, pour it all out into the diary, write the lines with tears.

If that's the case, I feel very uncomfortable in my heart, after all, I don't have any friends.

There are many times, and I have some good friends, but for a long time, because of the different living environment, work, and study, I slowly have a different life, and I don't know where to start talking about some truth. Many times you still have to learn to be alone and digest it slowly.

Even if it seems to be so-called listening, it is nothing more than an understatement to deal with oneself and laugh at the situation. There are few bosom friends, and who listens to broken strings. It's not that there is a lack of listeners, but that there is a lack of someone who really understands himself, including whether he understands himself or not.

I'm like this now, after leaving school, everyone is busy with their own work, and there is less contact, and then some of them have a family or a partner, I want not to disturb others, and I can't find anyone to talk to, so I can only find a way to vent myself, and I usually go to eat a big meal by myself when I'm in a bad mood, watch comedy, exercise and run, write a diary, etc.

I usually think that there are a lot of friends and girlfriends, and when you really have difficulties in your heart, you will find that there are very few people who can talk to you all night. In fact, it is you who is the most reliable!

It is a very depressing experience to have no one to talk to, and a lot of depression can only be held in your heart.

Confide, tell, describe the verb of speaking, emphasizing that people tell everything in their hearts more thoroughly than ordinary speaking, especially for people who have lost love and encountered other setbacks and failures, and often need to talk about it very much.

Women should not talk excessively

Psychologists have found through research that too much confiding in female friends not only fails to regulate emotions, but can lead to emotional problems, and may even lead to emotional problems such as anxiety and depression.

Women are overly interested in confiding in the problem of being emotional, which is also a warning to more female friends, hoping that female friends will try not to avoid problems or guess problems when they encounter troubles, and face them positively, so as not to let the mood tremor index continue to decline and bring more negative emotions.

Finished? What about you now? What do you think?

Hate Mom and Dad? Jealous of pretty girls? In fact, when your parents are old, if they still remember that to you, they will blame themselves deeply.

You have to cheer up, live a brave and optimistic life, treat the things around you with a normal heart, and treat the people around you with a tolerant attitude. You'll benefit a lot from it yourself. Come on chick!

Some people choose to write when they need to talk, choose art when they need to talk, and resonate with their inner emotions with the help of literary works, movies, and **.

All in all, it is a very dignified thing for a person to have a private emotional space and can be self-**.

But confiding is definitely a normal human need, listening, responding, giving is the greatest care for a soul, is a sign of human rights, everyone is eager to meet the right person to help themselves complete the process of transformation.

Why do I see my former self....My memories of my childhood are still stuck in the picture of my parents beating me hard. There were times when I wanted to run away from home and want to kill myself, but I was very timid, afraid of death, afraid that even if I died, no one would remember me. I'm 23 years old now, and when I can look at things like an adult, I find that life is not as hard as I imagined, and my parents can now giggle and joke with me, and every time I go home, I rush to wash the dishes and clean them, and my parents don't let me do it, and I still live happily every day.

I also had excellent grades, and I was a student leader during college, and now I have a good job.

I hope you can talk to your parents independently and don't rebel in a negative way.

I wish you a happy day!

Like you, I have low self-esteem, troubles, and never talk to others. Our Chinese teacher, she always asks those with good grades, beautiful people, and rich families to do things that we can never do because we don't have the opportunity to ......But don't be discouraged, life is still long, work hard, move forward, and be optimistic. Let's do it together!

I was very ugly, I used to despair of hope and the future, but after the enlightenment of books and others, I successfully walked out of the shadows, but occasionally I still have some inferiority, you should try to communicate with good friends, tell your heart, of course, look for you who you can trust, if not, you can find me, because none of us know anyone.

In fact. It's the heart.

It's the uneasiness in your heart. Caring too much about what others think.

I've also walked past your age. It is an inevitable phenomenon.

Actually, you don't have that much audience.

You just have to be yourself.

Adolescence is always very sensitive to everything, no matter how bad the environment around you is, how hateful the people around you are, you must learn to love yourself, others don't love you, you must love yourself. After learning to love yourself, you will love others. No one wants to hurt you, and even though your parents speak ill of you, they have given you life after all, don't hate them.

Plan your future well, you are still very young, and after going through hardships, there will be a rainbow waiting for you. Remember to struggle!

Don't be like that! The wound of your soul is not a terrible blood, but the power of your own joy. You should think about it, maybe it's for your parents!

You have to study hard. Don't care about beauty or ugliness, as long as you are beautiful in your heart, you are truly beautiful. Don't run away anymore, face it, it's okay, as long as you don't forget, you still have us behind you, and we have your back.

A fifth-grader Li Kexin.

Also an unfortunate child.

Hopefully, you're strong now.

Move a bench and listen to you.

Seeing that you are in high school 2, you are almost an adult, and you will be independent immediately. In the past, it could be said that it was caused by parents. The road ahead is still to be walked by yourself.

I believe you can still be admitted to a good university, you can fall in love, and you can start a family. Unpleasant things, don't always keep them in mind, it won't make you happy, it will only make you miserable, happiness is easy to forget, and pain is unforgettable for a lifetime. Learn to forget.

Look ahead, let the past pass.

A lot of times, we're all there, looking for someone to talk to.

Some words; Holding it in the heart will collapse and need to be exported;

Something; Carrying it on your shoulders is pressure that needs to be shared.

Find a companion who can speak freely and soothe your spirits;

Keep a copy, never abandon the love, let the soul dock.

All the bitterness and happiness, someone understands; All the efforts are known.

A cup of hot tea warms the body; A sentence of understanding warms the heart.

The most real possession is that I am there; The most beautiful feeling is that I understand.

The best time is when you are with each other, but you can not see each other;

The best relationship is that both parties understand, but they don't need to say it.

Accompany; It doesn't have to be at the moment, as long as you have it in your heart;

Affection; It doesn't have to be confessed, just feel it.

Language is not everything, feel it with your heart; The oath is not forever, keep it with your heart.

The proximity of the two hearts is love, and it is also attracting; The two love each other is like, but also affectionate.

The right shoes, only the feet know; The right person, only the heart knows.

A good relationship is the warmth of two hearts and the companionship of each other.

Come to think of it; Unconsciously smiling, pronounced yes; Warm taste.

I have never been invited, and I have a peace of mind; Don't say your vows, never see you again.

Attachment is born because of understanding; Accompanying, gathering because of thoughts.

Accustomed to each other's language, they don't get tired of repeating it thousands of times;

Waiting for each other's good night, just because of the longing in their hearts.

There are thousands of roads, and only one is suitable; When you meet all kinds of people, one person is enough.

No matter what kind of feelings, don't be a burden.

If there is pressure, always run away; If you create a bond, you will always lose.

cares, but not deliberately; Cherish, but not obsessed.

If there is no connection, it is a casual;

The intersection of deep or shallow is a tacit understanding.

You can talk freely, or you can talk silently;

They can be closely connected, or they can be invisible.

If the heart knows each other, there is no word and tacit understanding; If you are in love, you will pity it if you don't say anything.

There is a kind of companionship that is not visible, but it is very sincere;

There is a kind of waiting, although silent, but very affectionate.

In the depths of the soul, there is silent support; Between the souls, there is quiet listening.

Never show your heart, just appreciate it from afar;

Never ask for any response, just go with you without complaints.

The watch on the other side is the moving of this shore; The company of thousands of miles is the abundance of the heart.

The deepest love is always through thick and thin; The strongest affection is always warm and cold.

Feelings are not the whole of life, but they are the best destination for the soul.

No matter how dark the night is, there is no hardship; No matter how cold the winter is, some people will not be lonely.

The companion of the soul is the source of warmth; Intimate emotions are the spring of life.

The four seasons alternate, and some people miss the cold and warm; The mood is changeable, and someone has been tolerant.

What we seek in our lives is nothing more than someone who hurts and someone understands.

There is a smile in the eyes, there is warmth in the heart, and life is simple happiness!

As a woman competitive, willful, competitive, maybe her natural character, your character and your mother have such a character at the same time, so it is difficult for two people to get along well, the best way is for you to accommodate her a little more, after all, she is your mother, in fact, many times we all need to understand each other more, think more about others, and tolerate others, maybe things will not develop like this, if conditions permit, find a job, so that it is good to meet less!

Say, I'll listen, and finish it all at once.

The pursuit of ambition, the struggle of hard work, the unwilling growth, and finally after old age, looking back on the past, I can smile indifferently and say: I never regret my life! Perhaps, this is the meaning of life! ”

It's not easy to find a person who can listen to yourself in life, when you are unhappy, you don't care about 15% of the people who say it, and the rest of the people are very rare, some people haven't found it in their lifetime, the Internet gives people this platform that doesn't have to worry too much, but it's very virtual and ethereal, click on the copper-clad option, and then set the way of copper-pouring, and draw a closed box in the area to be poured.

It seems that you have too few friends around you.

A close friend is not sincere to you.

I think you should live for yourself, it's a good thing to continue your studies, but please consider a very practical problem, you study abroad is undoubtedly adding a burden to your family, if you really think about your own future, but you are not, you are for a woman, you ask yourself, if you have money in the future, then she will be good with you?

If she can really be good with you, then what kind of person is she, maybe all she loves is your money, if she really likes you, she won't be good with you now because you don't have money, it is recommended that you learn a skill, work early, there are still good girls, after a long time, work, there are more girls in contact, looking for a girlfriend is not the same as looking for a wife, what kind of woman to find to accompany you in this life You should know.

It's also easy to use, and you'll understand it if you look at the instructions.

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