I m getting married right away, and it feels weird

Haven't knotted, no experience.

But are you a little stressed by the complicated things when you get married?

And oh, you are marrying the woman you want, you should be very happy, marrying back is yours, hehe

Also, big brother, are you a little younger?

It's just not used to it.

You can't just play in the future.

Always think about your home.

You have to go home early after work, your lover is waiting for you, and you will have children in the future, and your responsibilities are too great, which is very important.

And slowly you get used to it, like our parents.

I wish you all happiness.

You will definitely be happy, sweet, so envious.

Work hard.

Sublimated, upgraded, upshifted.

You should feel happy when you're about to get married, believe in yourself, how you live when you're in love, and be more practical than when you're in love after marriage.

Premarital depression is generally common to people who want to get married! It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist!

Marriage is a happy thing, and there is nothing strange about it! I wish you all happiness.

1. Emotional stability and dependence.

People are social animals, need to communicate with people, a positive relationship brings a huge impact, into marriage can have a stable and long-term relationship, can be a warm love, can also be transformed into a long stream of family affection, but in any case, you know that this person can be the person who accompanies you for the longest time in life. After getting married, you are no longer alone, and any emotions and trivial matters are borne by someone together.

2. Stability and companionship of life.

A stable and mature partner can accompany you through the ups and downs of life, accompany you to grow up slowly, and feel the scenery of different stages of life.

3. The need for inheritance.

Marriage allows the family to inherit the bloodline, and after both parties raise a child together, they have an extra layer of parental identity, which can further warm up the relationship and make them more responsible. And when you are old, you will also have someone to take care of you and accompany you to prevent the aging of the population, and there will be successors.

4. Self-growth and experience.

Marriage is not a matter of considering others completely, and entering a family does not mean giving up everything, a mature and healthy marriage will bring people growth and give people a fresh and unique life experience. We have many social identities, we can be daughters, sons, sisters, brothers, classmates and colleagues, but we also have the opportunity to become wives, husbands, mothers, and fathers. Dress slowly.

5. Be more motivated.

When you have faith, you will be fearless and invincible. After getting married, each other has someone to protect, and in order to give each other a better life, they will do their best to fight for Hongzao. Home has become a belief in life, bringing the motivation to move forward bravely.

If you want to get married now, then you have to be brave enough to go out. Make more friends.

You've made a lot of money!

You see, you raised a question, "Zhihu also" came, "Nam no Amitabha" also came, and of course, even came!

1) It seems that you are not ready, especially him, who is not yet ready for marriage.

2) Suggestion: You leave everything to him, because he marries you, not you! (You're all it takes to help!) ）

3) Money matters, your money, you spend. The money to buy a house, if his 40,000 yuan still has to be paid back, then don't write his name, because you can't get married, and there is something to say! Don't make a fuss about the after-effects!

Don't forget to give points! Thank you!

You tell your man that it's okay if you don't pay for it, but after you get married, you don't write him on the real estate deed. After you get married, you pay the loan with him to see if he is willing or not. You have to consider that you have to decorate at least 80,000 yuan after buying a house, and you will need milk powder or something if you have a child in the future, and sometimes you may consider buying a car after 5 years in order to improve your life.

Girls may think differently from boys, boys are afraid of changes in the future for their children to keep, girls may be afraid that they will be angry with boys in the future, and they want to live out by themselves, but the quality of life will be greatly reduced, if you don't consider the situation of substitution, you still have to think twice.

It seems that you are not ready to marry him, at least in terms of material things, he can't give you much security, and the house is the biggest asset and the most invested money, all of which will inevitably make you feel uncomfortable. But there is an important question that it doesn't matter if you love the man who is going to be your husband or not, and if you really love him, it doesn't matter what else matters. If money is used as a measure, then you will not be happy when you get married in the future, it is better not to get married until you have thought it through or in a few years until everyone is comfortable with each other before getting married.

If you don't fit together, even if you get married, you have to get divorced, so why bother? So, I think you should think about it again. Tell your fiancé that you haven't thought about marrying him yet, tell him to wait, and if he gets angry, there's nothing to discuss about breaking up.

After all, marriage is a major event in a person's life, and no one wants to be so painful to get married. I recommend a book to you, the Bible, that I hope will help you.

It's hard to do with less money.

What to do if you want to have more money.

Understand your man's struggles.

Everything is negotiable.

No problem, your idea is correct, but your boyfriend is very excessive and can't afford to buy a house, don't say, hey......It is recommended that you think carefully, otherwise you will be the only one who will be unlucky in the future.

You'd better tell him about your thoughts, make a list of the things you still need to do, and let him quickly make a plan and do it quickly, and show a way of doing things, or tell him not to get married and get everything ready

The main key is to blame money, if you have money, this problem is not a problem, if the house does not have much strength can be temporarily slowed down, we did not buy a house when we got married, and we bought a house two years after marriage, if you really love him, don't base it too much, if your premise must meet your requirements, you are still unhappy after marriage.

Since you are allowed to buy a house by yourself, then remember that the house must be a pre-marital property through a legal agreement for pre-marital property And I found that the relationship between the two of you is average, how can he be so impatient about marriage Ask him If you don't want to get married, then don't get married, you're about to get married, you haven't done anything, your parents haven't seen it, the wedding photos haven't been taken, what is he going to do, he's going out to get married, tired, understandable, but his attitude is a little too much, remember to adopt it.

My friend encountered the same problem as you, but the man had no money to provide a down payment, and the woman took the family money to advance, and in the end the man's parents took it away to do business, and the bride price money was not given, although she is still dead set on the boy, but I don't like her to wronged herself like this, quarrel with her family and then cater to the man.

Either you can talk to him and see what he plans to do in the future, or you can manage the small things yourself, and he can grasp the backbone.

The worst thing is, you...

Your thoughts are normal, and judging from what you said, it feels like your man is really not doing enough.

Your awkwardness may stem from an imbalance in your mind, thinking that something that should be happy is affected by one thing or another. In fact, if you think about it, is it because of money? So didn't you know that he had no money when you chose him in the first place?

Since the choice has been made at that time, it means that your man should be very good, right, otherwise you would not choose him knowing that he has no money! And your man is also under a lot of pressure, marriage is a very happy thing, and the two of them are inextricably linked, so you should understand him more. As long as he's someone who deserves your life, what's not worth it?

How can the wind and rainbow not experience wind and rain! Hope it helps!

Where you don't do well, you communicate more with your boyfriend... It's good to communicate well, don't say anything at ease, your boyfriend knows at first glance,

We often hear the saying that marriage is the grave of love. There is some truth in this sentence, but we don't have to be afraid of it, because there are more couples who have more and more feelings after marriage, and they will work together to conclude the crystallization of love, and finally grow old.

Marriage simply means that two people go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate and become a legal husband and wife. Since then, they have lived together and faced all sorts of problems together. After marriage, all the expenses of the family are borne by two people, and the mortgage and car loan need to be repaid by both people.

Two people will not feel lonely together, they can face problems together, solve them together, and share blessings and difficulties. After having a child, the two raised them together. When the child grows up, he will face educational problems again.

Therefore, it is difficult to express the feeling of marriage in words, and each stage also has different feelings, and all the joys, sorrows and sorrows can only be expressed after you have experienced them yourself.

Marriage is a major event in a person's life, and it is also a thing that needs to be operated for a long time, so it is necessary to choose carefully. With someone who binds you and someone who is bound by you, you have to take a responsibility to deal with the relationship between each other and each other's families.

I think "love" may be that I know that our three views are not completely the same; There will be inexplicable quarrels in the future; I'm not good enough to stand side by side with you; You are not the perfect other half of my heart, and there may be better "choices" in the future, but my heart is in you, and I can never see a better one. When the flowers bloom, it is the time when love matures While loving you, be yourself.

Marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea 2, which is the continuation of two families. It's a long stream of water.

I think that many young people may feel that they are still very young and do not realize that they should also get married, and I think that getting married actually means that they have to bear a kind of responsibility.

You can get married casually, but the point is whether the other person is the person you have in mind.

After getting married, it is time to think about things like your future life, having children, your parents, whether to buy a house, and so on. You can ignore it until you get married.

If you get married, you won't be free, and you'll still be single.

It shows that you want to stabilize the relationship, and this is a good thing.

Marriage is a formality, and then you are tired.

It may feel sweet at first, but it may become bland later.

It's sweet at first, and then it's plain and bland.

As soon as they got married, the other party was seriously ill, and it was really heartbreaking. When one of the spouses becomes seriously ill at the beginning of a small family, it means that two, or even three, families face a major challenge.

First of all, it is best to look at the emotional foundation of the two people, and the foundation is good for the three families to work together, and go all out to heal the disease with financial, material and energy resources.

But if one party is sick and the other party has concerns, it is very embarrassing. One way or another, love can trump all!

I'm an example, it's no wonder that my health has been bad since I got married, so I have been Qingque for 3 years without children, not that I can't give birth, it's that I love to have a miscarriage, in the third year, I have pain all over my body, I can't see it in several hospitals, and I can't find out the reason, in the process of treatment, he is really good for me, but the body is not angry, and finally paralyzed, he was only 29 years old at the time, one day he suddenly proposed to divorce me, why suddenly, because there is usually no appearance of divorce, I couldn't accept it at the time, and said to him, I still have hope of being cured, and when I go to the provincial doctor for examination, if I really can't be cured, I won't drag you down, and I will take the initiative to file for divorce, but he not only didn't agree, but also forced me every day, saying that he wanted to break me mentally. Seriously, the mood at that time is self-evident. Every day, I live in pain and the pain of facing the breakdown of my marriage.

Fortunately, my family did not give up on me, and with the help of my mother, brother and sister, I was sent to the provincial doctor**. Before leaving, my mother came to him and told him that she was going to take me to the provincial doctor, just to inform him, not to give him any hope. He didn't react at all.

After arriving at the provincial doctor, he was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. At the time, I heard that it was cancer. I didn't have any fear, I only had one belief in Xinliang Zheng's stupidity, I wanted to live for five more years, not to divorce him, and to drag him for five years.