I just talked to my boyfriend about breaking up, what to do

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, even if someone tells you to stay or leave, you are the one who makes the final decision, so your feelings are the final answer. If you think it's torture to stay, you leave, or else you stay. And don't always say break up, if the other party is someone you love very much, he will be annoyed if you always say that, and will really leave you, because he will feel that your love is not real.

    No two personalities are the same, there will be more or less run-in together, wouldn't it be nice to be more tolerant! Quarreling is not a bad thing, it can enhance the relationship, and if you don't quarrel, it means that your relationship is really wrong, so quarreling can be regarded as a kind of adjustment. If you think about the problem from a different angle, maybe it won't be so bothering.

    You still have to decide your own affairs, no matter what others say, they can't represent you, so you better think about it.

    If you say it, it's nothing, he will think that you are angry and don't care. He didn't come back, he also wanted you to separate a little bit, and think about dissipating your anger.

    Hope you're happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Go home, it's not a relationship problem, it's a life problem.

    You know your feelings for him, you just feel that life is ...... slim

    So, go back and find a place to rely on (parents and the like) to start over, if you are in Shanghai, you don't have a bottom. Of course, if you are very confident, not afraid of hardship, not afraid of grievances, not afraid of setbacks, you can try to work your own in Shanghai, which is a place full of gold, and there are ...... losers everywhere

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It doesn't matter if you say it or not, the important thing is that you don't fit it at all, since this is the case, the long pain is better than the short pain. I suggest you leave Shanghai, two people barely together will not be happy. Don't think that he is now your dependence so you are reluctant to live together, there is no one in this world who can't live without anyone, I was reluctant to be together because I felt that I couldn't do without him, and now I feel very painful and regretful.

    Besides, he didn't see you very nervous, didn't he say that he never came back? He knows you don't have any friends here, so isn't he worried about you?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think it's appropriate! So what else to say! You have to master your life well!

    It's good to say that! Find out if your boyfriend really loves you! If there is really no way to go, this question cannot be decided!

    I think it's time for you to leave! The world is so big! Isn't there a place for you?

    Be strong! Have faith in yourself!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Girls also have their own way of life.

    You can't always rely on others.

    We are not parasites.

    Go your own way.

    Be independent.

    This time it's you who propose to break up.

    You can still stay.

    What if the next time he proposes to break up?

    Now stand on your own!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Back and forth, don't let him look flat. There is no grass at the end of the world.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Boyfriend is not a meal ticket

    Only independence can earn respect!

    You can't give up all dignity for love, you can also give up this tasteless love for dignity!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Better a finger off than always aching.

    Now you can't starve to death if you go out and find a job.

    Resolutely leave him!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it's not suitable, divide it! Can't you live without him?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't let him look down on you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You ask yourself if you still like him.

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