Asking for help was very tired and felt powerless 20

Write a letter to your parents and tell them what is in your heart and they will understand you!

In your case. It's not that your parents don't like you. It's that your parents like you too much.

The love for you is beyond your reach.

I think first you have to learn to be grateful. It wasn't easy for your parents to give birth to you. They take it for granted what they want from you. You want to think of them as leaders at work. People give you money. You have to do the same thing for them.

Serve your parents with a normal heart.

In the future, he treated his parents with an attitude towards the leader. Just like you do with your leaders at work. It would be better if you faced the current situation with this mentality.

If you can't even solve the problem of your parents at home. You won't be too happy in society either.

In the eyes of outsiders.

You are not filial to your parents. How can you be nice to others.

Even if you are looking for a partner.

He or she is in the same situation. We only have two requirements for each other.

1. Have a better personality.

2. Honor your parents.

Hehe, first of all, I don't know if you're a man or a woman, but maybe they don't love you, if they don't love you, they won't control you everything, it's because they love you, that's why they care about you, are you sure they don't communicate with you? It's because you don't have the confidence to communicate with them In fact, every parent needs to communicate with their children to understand what their children are thinking If you really want to communicate with them, you can take advantage of your family's dinner to muster up the courage to say, Mom, Dad, I want to talk to you today, can you listen? And then it's up to you to say it, and if you don't have the courage, you're going to have to live like that.

You may be very respectful of your parents, and then everything is submissive to your parents, causing your parents to think that you are still young and need to be arranged, so you have to be assertive in some small things, they know that you are old and need to have this current lifestyle, and then they will open you a little bit, after all, they also want you to grow up.

When you feel worthless, powerlessness accompanies you all the way.

As a participant in social life, everyone may encounter such moments and situations, and I myself have encountered them many times. Whenever I felt that I really couldn't get by, only strength and rationality helped me, and it turned out that we are still alive now.

I summarize these few psychological steps to fight the dilemma, I hope it can help you:

1. Let yourself quickly calm down from fear and anxiety and think rationally.

2. Predict the worst possible outcome of things and accept the worst outcome psychologically.

3. Do everything you can to solve the problem by all means, and do your best to solve the problem.

4. No matter what the result is, face it calmly and start all over again.

5. The whole process is always full of courage!

Everyone will have a moment of helplessness to a greater or lesser extent, maybe it is just a small thing, and there is no money to buy the snacks they want to eat; It can also be a big event, the sudden departure of a loved one; It's more about some trivial things in life, career problems, unclear emotions, etc.; Often all we feel is powerless. Some people will think of escaping and numb themselves with alcohol; Some people will think about dying and leaving to free themselves; Most people will face it bravely, they also have a past of living on alcohol, until a moment suddenly realized that they should still be brave, so they muster up the courage to challenge everything that is not going well, when this hurdle is really over, look back and find that those things are not things, not worth mentioning. Just like when you were a child, you wanted to buy a pack of spicy strips, no matter how you cried, no matter how hard you worked, you always had no money to buy it, now you can buy a pack of spicy strips no matter how embarrassed you are, you may think of this incident and feel how simple the happiness was when you were a child, so if you pass this hurdle, you will feel like this in the future, come on, face adversity bravely, and face all the gifts and challenges of life.

The first time you see the topic, you can plan for the worst, face various crises in your life journey, and you will inevitably be haggard when you deal with it.

Summary. In life, it is very common and normal to feel powerless about some things, no matter what identity you are or how many resources you have, you will encounter some things that you can't do anything about.

What to do when I can't do anything about it.

In life, it is very common and normal to feel powerless about some things, no matter what identity you are or how many resources you have, you will encounter some things that you can't do anything about.

Therefore, when we feel powerless in life, we must see the reasons behind this sense of powerlessness through the things themselves, and then take appropriate actions, knowing that going with the flow is not always the best choice, it may just be more positive in the case of "our own business has nothing to do with us", and in other cases, we will miss the opportunity to grow. In general, no matter what the reason is, we must face it positively, turn this feeling into a motivation for our own growth and progress, bravely discover our shortcomings and strive to improve in order to better cope with the future, and reduce the probability of powerlessness in a life of increasing pressure.

All in all, whether it is work or life, you will encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges, when you are at a low point in your life and can not do anything, I think: the best way is to calm yourself down first, but calm is by no means to lose the confidence and courage to work hard, but through reflection, let yourself endure humiliation, lie down and taste courage, develop strengths and avoid weaknesses to accumulate strength, prepare for counterattack, and when the time is ripe, then go all out to create a new situation! Visiting relatives.

"I can't do anything about myself" means to express a feeling of helplessness, and people in different relationships have different meanings when they say such things. A sigh of disappointment at yourself. If it's emotional, the person who speaks may just express his emotions, but the person who listens always thinks a lot.

He will say that he can't do anything about you, which means that he still expects something from you.

无能為力] pinyin] : wú néng wéi lì [paraphrased] : unable to use strength, unable to help, refers to inability or power.

Sentence formation] :1, I pretended to be confused because I couldn't do anything about it, because I didn't want you to despair.

2. He saw that Tushin was genuinely willing to help him, but he could not do anything about it.

3. Due to the forbiddenness of the form, although I have some ideas, I can't do anything about it.

4, I can't do anything about this, so you better ask someone else!