What is your approach to raising children?

Family is a child's first school, parents are the child's first teacher, the good or bad of family education will directly affect the child's life, so in the process of cultivating children, they have also formed a set of methods to cultivate children.

1. Create a harmonious and happy family.

2. Understand your child's needs and make him feel that you care about him.

3. Set an example for children, the power of role models is huge, and any words and deeds of parents have a deep impact on children.

4. Go with the flow, discipline the children appropriately, and let them understand some things by themselves.

Salute first, then soldier. In my daily life, I am very strict with my children's education, but the children in my family have become the envy of my friends, and they all envy me for having such an obedient child, in fact, the most important thing is my education style.

Sometimes I am very strict with the child, but I will give him a fixed relaxation, think about the child's future I must be more responsible for him, I believe that everything I am doing now will be very helpful.

1.Accompany. Children who feel the warmth of the family will naturally go to warm others.

2.Learn problem-solving skills. It's important to help your child build problem-solving skills, which means finding a way to overcome it later on your own or just asking for help from others.

3.Good psychological quality. Frustration, pressure, the current children are too lacking, they can't figure out jumping off the building at every turn, and good psychological quality is also a necessary condition for optimism to face the society.

4.Know how to be tolerant and have a peaceful mind. A tolerant heart can laugh at the shortcomings of others and at its own success.

My way to raise children is to respect children, never give children interest classes that he doesn't like, don't force children to do things that satisfy our vanity, respect children's wishes, communicate more with children, consider his ideas more, and empathize with children.

I think the most important thing is to develop children's ability to think independently. In many cases, it is a case to teach, asking parents to set a good example for their children, so as to subtly influence their children and make them develop a good living habit and study habits. And parents should always encourage their children, give them enough confidence and courage to do what they want to do.

In terms of children's cultivation, I think parents should not be overly preachy, give children a certain space for self-growth, and let children grope for growth.

We all had the same experience when we were children, being nagged by our parents constantly, in fact, there are some truths that we understand, but we are not used to this way of preaching.

I only tell the truth, the child does not listen to his own decision, I think through the child's exploration, he will make the right choice.

My child is only three years old, and I always want to give my child a happy childhood, so I raise my child to basically respect the child's natural development. What interests and hobbies he likes, I will focus on cultivating them, and I will never force him to study various interest classes. Looking at my son's happy smile warms my heart.

With the continuous development of social economy and the continuous progress of science and technology, people's education level is getting higher and higher, and people's efforts to cultivate their children are getting bigger and bigger. For each of us, children are the future of each of our families, so it is very important for them to be nurtured. So what are the correct ways to cultivate children, first of all, there are many ways to cultivate children, and we should also carry out different degrees of training according to different situations.

First of all, we should cultivate children's self-confidence, self-confidence is a very important thing for children, for them in their daily life, or in the process of growing into a lack of mold, more or less will encounter difficulties, then self-confidence is very important. It should also include educating them to learn, which is a lifelong task, so the right way to learn is very important, and there are other aspects that also include it.

For the cultivation of children, they should also be taught the correct values, which should be included in the process of communication between parents and children, subtly benefit them, and can be educated through books or short stories. The correct way to educate children is to let them develop with their nature, not to make them accept our ideas through coercive means, which is wrong.

Therefore, for the cultivation of children, we should follow our nature, should not be forced to instill in them according to our own concept must consider their receptive ability, because their thinking ability is limited at different ages, if the pressure is too great, then it is likely to lead to the opposite effect, so we must pay attention to this letter dress up a little.

First of all, it is necessary to learn to truly understand the child, and then to find the correct education method according to the child's different personalities, and the source of the mill must enrich the child's spiritual blind orange world, strengthen the education of the three views, and also give the child some interest tutoring classes.

First of all, we should create a good environment for children, and we should also establish a correct three views for children in ordinary times, and we should also pay attention to family education, and we should also accompany children with more wisdom, and we also need to communicate with children more, and we should also actively guide the children to improve their different abilities and awareness.

We must understand the child's character, we should take the way of positive guidance for education, do not overly spoil the height, and do not be excessively strict and clear, we must let the child feel the love of the parents, and also let the child understand what can be done and what can not be done.

We should pay attention to cultivating children's confidence, and at the same time, we should also answer so that children can feel pure wisdom to happiness, pay attention to the cultivation of character education, and pay attention to the punishment at the same time, and try to leave the best to the children.

Interest is the best teacher for children, and respecting children's virtual sources and respecting their interests is the most important. Cultivate good personal habits in children. Educate children to be polite, read more, and not break the law and discipline.

<> according to children's education experts, a child's endurance is actually inversely proportional to his age, but the trait of "patience" must be cultivated from an early age. Experts suggest that parents should gradually develop their children's endurance, patience and perseverance from early childhood to primary school. If the child gets incorrect'Guiding education, when you grow up, you may have to suffer the "consequences".

The most obvious is becoming overbearing and failing to conform to social norms, such as waiting in line. In addition, it is easy to be swayed by one's own emotions, and if you are slightly unsatisfactory, you will feel unbearable, unable to think calmly about ways to solve problems, and unable to bear setbacks, so as to affect your work and life. Experts stress that parents should first understand their children's age, abilities and temperament.

Secondly, parents should lead by example, if the parents themselves are also acute, it is difficult to train the patience of children.

1. Practice concentration in the mini-game

Concentration is the foundation of endurance, and if a child's concentration is good, it is naturally easy to be patient. Mothers can play more games with their children to improve their concentration, such as "finding differences", "finding mistakes", jigsaw puzzles, listening to stories, ......Let the child concentrate and focus on one thing for a long time.

2. Reward for achieving your goals

Children have their own goals and have the perseverance to do things. When a child desires something, the mother can ask them to achieve a certain goal first, and then reward him for achieving it. The older the child, the higher the requirements, and the most important thing is that the goals set must be clear, clear and reasonable.

In addition, you may want to use "reward cards" or "reward stickers" to make it easy for children to grasp the results of their efforts.

3. A number of experiences have been tested

The wider a child's interests, the easier it is to hone their stamina. In fact, the key to developing personal patience is to build the ability to delay the gratification of desires. And in the process, if time and energy are easily consumed, and emotions are not easily fluctuated, patience will naturally be built.

Therefore, mothers may wish to arrange for their children to participate in different types of interest activities.

Fourth, increase the difficulty and challenge yourself

Mothers can choose some things that children can't do at the moment, but are capable of doing themselves, and guide them to complete them, and don't just let children give up easily. Mothers should set a specific goal with their children to help them constantly try to challenge themselves and build up their ambition, such as engaging in physical activities such as swimming every week. In addition, children can also be arranged to participate in more "self-challenge" activities, such as "trekking", "adventure training", field orienteering, etc. (pay attention to safety and organize properly), which can hone personal will and patience.

Everyone hopes that their own pie boy child can be envied and work hard to cultivate the child. Different parents have different answers to the question of what kind of goals they have for raising their children. For me:

1. Train children to be good people and good citizens. Children become good people and good citizens, so that parents do not have to worry about their children. For society, it is good to know more about balance.

If the child does not become a good person and a good citizen, it will cause harm to others and society. That is not only a matter of worrying and worrying about parents, but this kind of worrying and worrying is more worrying than worrying about raising children, and it will make parents lose face.

2. My ultimate goal in raising children is to enable them to become successful people in their careers. I hope that my children will be able to make achievements and achieve certain achievements after entering the workplace, and become a respected person and a successful person. In this way, his life will be meaningful, and he will be pleased with what he has achieved.

3. My realistic goal in raising children is to enable them to pursue a happy life. The reason why I set such a goal is because life is the foundation of a person, and only when you have a happy life will everything become meaningful. Because of this, I take this as a realistic goal to cultivate my child, guide and educate him, help him improve his ability to live independently, so as to pursue a happy life through his own efforts, so as to make his life happier and more perfect.

Slowly cultivate patience education.

There are two kinds of training: 1. Set a clear goal and mechanically train 2. Set a clear direction and guide to cultivate. In the first stage, some visible results may be achieved, but in the long run, the child will be eliminated later.

The second type is rare in China, but it can indeed cultivate "talents". Cultivation is closely related to the social environment, which cannot be changed in a short period of time, in Chinese history, the feudal society has experienced a bit of a long time, and some things will not be changed for a day or two, and they are not allowed to change. The child's path, or let the child walk on his own, whether you want to cultivate or customize is up to you.

Follow the laws of natural development and don't pull out the seedlings to help them grow.