The distress of going to school, the distress of going to school

What to do in the future, you must think carefully, there are thousands of roads to success, and going to college is just a shortcut In short, persistence, single-mindedness, you are right 360 lines, no matter what you do, you can excel! You can be prosperous and rich for a lifetime! Life is in your own hands!

No matter what others (including yourself) think of you, I believe you You're not a boy now, you're a man! If you want to live, you must first learn to survive and wish good luck

It seems that you like to read very much, and you are different from others!

But it's very good to get a good job or something like that in the future, and it's very important to have a degree diploma.

You don't want to go abroad either? I still want to stay in China.

Your parents are right about it, but it's all the same, it's all on your own!

If you don't want to go abroad but still want to stay in China, what about starting in 2 years of high school? Are you afraid of being embarrassed? Or what?

You also said above You are not a stupid child, you are very careful, it is very good to read from high school 2, don't be afraid of anything to be ashamed, it is all nonsense!

You're not a stupid kid, what are you afraid of when you take the Chinese entrance examination in 2 years? Read well, it's changing, and it's impossible to put the donkey's head on the horse's mouth, right?

If you put in 2 years of hard work yourself, don't be afraid of 2 years from now.

You are such a person who likes to read, I don't believe you can't get into college!

Isn't there a good saying, go your own way, let others forget or something?

Don't feel guilty about yourself, believe that you can !

I think you should go back to high school 2 and start studying now, rather than staying at home now. Because no matter what the situation is in China, you should still study hard, and when you are older, you will feel that you don't have enough time, so you should hurry up and study now and don't regret it later. I believe that if you study well now, you will succeed.

I'm also 89 years old, I didn't study hard at all in 3 years of high school, I studied **, and then I messed up my grades, so now I take the self-exam, in Beijing Humanities, and it's also a private school, and I still take the self-exam. However, I thought about it for a long time and struggled for a long time. In college, it is not only academic theory, but also some practical work.

Actually, you're a little escaping from the status quo!

Do you really think that you will definitely get a good job after graduating from a prestigious university in Beijing?

What are you studying for? In fact, it is to realize the value of one's life!

If you are dissatisfied with the status quo, try to break through. You can only provide you with a possible direction, and you have to figure out for yourself how to go.

My parents said that everything is the same, they are all on their own, and my parents also said this, 17 years ago, I thought it was wrong, but now I think it is right. In addition to my self-taught major, I also taught myself English and Japanese, and I was in a state of struggle that made me very excited.

Find something that interests you.

After all, I'm in this state of confusion just like you, and I'm more sad than you, but now I'm here.

Good luck.

Do you have a career that you really want to do in the future?

If so, work in that direction! If not, it's better to start thinking about what you're going to do in the future, think about it very seriously, and take your future seriously Actually, what to do now is secondary, you should first think about what you want to do, and then think about how to do it

In other words, you should have an ideal, and that's the key

Go to a technical school in the country to learn a technology.

Personally, I think so!

Well, I think you should have mastered at least first.

1 2 Technologies, even if college students graduate from undergraduate, they may not be able to get a job that they are satisfied with

On the contrary, the chefs and technicians are very popular, and it is not bad to learn the language, and the conditions at home are not bad when they go to work in the embassy

It should have a bright future

Good luck

I think you already have the answer.

I really want to find a regular university, even if I spend money to find someone to go to, I think I can graduate and study just as well as the people who are admitted. But it's hard to get in.

Reread. Wherever he falls, he gets up.

There is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.

Your life has been smooth sailing.

You need a win of your own.

After repeating it, I went to a similar university.

Prove yourself and let your parents worry less about you.

The foundation doesn't matter There aren't many things in high school.

Half a year is enough.

Take the art exam for undergraduate + go abroad.

Big brother, give me some points.

Practical point.

Recently, I was thinking about some of the problems that my children might encounter when they went to public school in the future, which caused me anxiety and distress.

The reason is that I and my baby have lived in Beijing for a long time, and the educational concept is not backward. The baby was sent to a private garden that pays attention to the natural growth of the child's soul when he was more than two years old, and I began to let myself carry out various scientific baby education from the time the child was born. Therefore, there is still some understanding of the current new education situation and new concepts in China.

However, because of the economic situation, because of the household registration, we may need to go back to our hometown in the future and choose to enter the public park, from our own contact with the teachers in the small county, and the current environment, what we have seen and heard, for parents to supervise homework, assist in punching in, join the group to listen to the teacher's teachings and other aspects of the situation is more disgusted, and I feel that I can't communicate in parallel with a teacher who thinks he has the power to kill students. How not to let the baby become a student who obeys the teacher's orders, how to grow into a baby who does not take grades as a goal, how to maintain physical and mental health, self-discipline and self-improvement, is really a little anxious and troublesome.

Especially today, I watched the screenshots of several parents in the friend group complaining, and I was even more afraid.

Many parents' questions are here, but the answer is in**?

It depends on what school you go to, like elementary and middle school, there is basically no trouble, if it is a university, you are worried that you will not be able to get a job after graduation, especially if your family conditions are a little poor!

You didn't go to school? Few worries.

1。Being bullied by bad classmates.

2。Too much homework.

3。Not liked by the teacher.

4。Too tired.

Emotional troubles and material troubles with friends of the opposite sex.

Hate yourself for not working hard, the troubles of self-struggle.

Troubles with classmates.

Troubles with teachers.

This classmate is still more mature in thinking, and he is more thoughtful, the tuition fee of the junior college is not expensive, and the three books are expensive, and many junior colleges are easier to employ, especially some majors in science! It depends on whether you are a science student, if not, you can consider upgrading to a ...... after studying a junior collegeI've graduated from college and I'm also a teacher, so I should sue you for this. As for persuading your parents, it depends on whether there are better examples around you, which is more convincing, after all, the facts are there; As for the tuition fees of the university, you don't have to worry, the scholarship at the university is very high now, and there is a kind of national scholarship once a year, 8000 at a time.

I got more than 10,000 yuan in the scholarship for four years of college, which is equivalent to two years of tuition. So as long as you study hard during college, you can also earn money.

Your parents' fears are based on two things

1. Tuition is expensive. In view of this, the following explanations can be made, the financial burden of spending tuition is temporary, and the skills learned are a lifetime, and the art is not pressing, these skills can not only help you in the future, but also greatly improve your support for your parents in the future;

2. Worry about spending money and not being able to find a job. The following explanation is given for this: If it is difficult to find a job after learning knowledge, is it easy to find a job without learning knowledge?

Without work, there is knowledge that people can't do, and without knowledge can do it. No knowledge is the most terrible, the level of knowledge directly determines the level of life and cognition of a person's life, including the understanding and embodiment of many traditional consciousness, your parents will be indirectly affected when they are older.

Persistence is victory!

If you want to go to college, it depends on your parents' attitude, as long as they agree to say anything, you just need to persuade them well, but I'm afraid that you can't convince them, there are no good conditions for them to agree to you to go, working or being a soldier is really not as good as going to school, you really can't afford those hardships, not everyone can experience it, in fact, you can go to college to work as a temporary worker in your spare time so that you don't delay your studies, the best of both worlds, just think about it yourself.

Oh, in fact, you can go to convince your parents with the long-term development in the future, but you can feel more expensive now, but this is a lifetime thing, and it will be too late to regret it later, and it will take a few years to go to school, but the time to go to work in the future can be long, (although you can go to school now when you are older, but it is not realistic for us ordinary people after all) Let's talk about it, parents are not unreasonable.

In fact, the specialty at least guarantees its own future. If you go to work and don't have a solid job, the future will be unstable. If you go to the army, you may not be able to stand the hard life of being a soldier. It's okay to say so, or ask them to let you repeat it.

It's good to learn the technology Now a lot of it is nothing more than a book But having the ability is the most important thing You find what you like, and then you can tell your parents about it You have to analyze and analyze the prospects and the like And now there is a college book Finding a job is better than not having a book, so you can analyze it more.

You say you don't want to be a soldier, JD is too dark. Then I don't like to be tied down and hope to live a freewheeling life in the future. Then give some promises, such as earning some money when you go to school in the future. If you really want to do something, just explain it, and your parents will definitely support you.

You can go to them to explain the information about the college you want to study, and you can also tell them that you can also upgrade to a junior college and you can get a scholarship if you have good grades in a junior college, and if you study in a junior college, you can get a scholarship for your grades.

Talk to your family and let them know what you think, let them know that they will stick to their choices and that they need their support!

In fact, you can go to the military and then take the military school, I heard my classmates say that it will be easier to go to the military school after becoming a soldier! He has already been admitted, but he still wants to take a leave of absence to become a soldier and then take the military academy, so it should be better to be a soldier than to go to a junior college!

Relying on oneself to work and study, this is called honing oneself, since the economic conditions at home are not good, don't hold back, think about it yourself.

The problem is expensive, as long as you think of a little help for your parents to pay for school (also after school), plus your determination and hard work. I hope you will honor them more after graduation, what do you say?

In fact, you can go to the military school and then take the military school, I heard from a friend that it will be easier to take the military school after becoming a soldier! But I still want to take a leave of absence to become a soldier and then take the military academy, so it should be better to be a soldier than to go to a junior college.

If you still want to go to a college after serious consideration, then you just stick to it, and your family will agree.

The key lies in whether the major you choose is practical, if it is practical, it is easy to do, if it is not practical, it is better not to go.

You can tell your parents that you can also go to the military during college, and I can continue to enter the military school with a high quality at that time.

The college also has the benefits of the specialty, because the junior college will pay more attention to vocational education, and the technical operation ability of the junior college will be relatively strong, and many enterprises will like the personnel with strong operational ability, so the junior college is not worse than the undergraduate.

If you learn a skill, you will have food and loans to study, and now the state has a policy of subsidizing poor students.

With the current social trend, you don't know if you see "it's you" No diploma But experience Understand 4 Chinese Have management experience Sales experience Have your own set of related programs This is the real knowledge Diploma? How many people believe in it now, I have a small book, I don't have experience, I can't stay for long, if I want to be a soldier!

Communicate with heart, the most important thing in the world is to hope that we are good parents, say our own thoughts, and communicate well.

Stick to it, impress them with practical actions, and prove your abilities.

It is very common to apply for student loans and apply to the state.

If the family conditions are not very good, you can work and study.

Let's just say it's your wish.、If your parents understand, you can get it as soon as you say it.、If your parents are an old antique, then it's useless to say dead.

As a person who has come over, I have to tell you that it is useless to study in a junior college, and no matter how good a junior college is, it is useless.

Hey, I don't want to say it.

To go to school, first find a good major, the same major, undergraduate schools are not necessarily better than junior colleges.

Try to convince your family to go for it!

You can go and learn a technical class, or the knowledge is promising.