How to become popular? How do I get better?

Personally, I don't think it's primarily a matter of dealing with people (of course, I don't rule out a little reason for this). In fact, after reading what you wrote very carefully, I found that it may have something to do with your personality. You can try to improve your lifestyle and make your personality cheerful.

As for how to improve, it's up to you. There may be twists and turns at first, but as long as you keep going, I'm sure your world will change.

I have friends like you, but I can't really talk about how bad this kind of person is. I can only say that there is a gap between what I expected and the actual reality. I hope you can make a friend, you can add q133120227

I can't talk about helping, I hope that we can make progress by communicating together.

Start with habits to change your life and character. Nowadays, people have very few confidants, and they all associate with people who are related to their own interests, doesn't it mean that there are no eternal enemies, no permanent friends, only eternal interests? If you want to change the status quo, I think first you should improve your own value and taste, so that others feel that your value lies, to put it bluntly, you have the value of being "used" by your friends.

People like to make friends with people who are stronger than themselves, and Confucius also said"Those who have no friends are not as good as themselves"If you are strong in all aspects, I am sure that many people will approach you, and of course you will have to learn to choose friends when the time comes. Also, isn't your wife your confidant, she definitely knows you better than anyone else, you can listen to her advice and communicate with her often.

Communicate well with others, communication is the most important. There is also a need to get together with friends and talk about troubles, so that you can become cheerful, put your mind in a good mood, don't think too much, nothing is unpassable. Think about something nicely.

I'm the same as you, introverted, don't like to talk much, many times there are times when I don't know what to do, I think, men should make themselves stronger, be sincere to people, and be good to people who are good to you, you have to be doubly good to him, because, after all, there are a few people who are good to you, and people who are not good to you, you just need to maintain a general relationship with them, and you have to be low-key, that's all, I often encounter these troubles, let's work together!

Treat people with courtesy, have a clear heart, do good deeds, and treat friends sincerely.

You're scared of why you trust people so much that it's good to be high.

In fact, if you want to make your popularity better, you must take away your personality well, smile more when you see others, be tactful in this way of speaking, and often be helpful, so that the relationship between people will definitely be better.

You don't have to think too much, then the main thing is to be an easy-going person in life, for example, sometimes your friends have small problems, small difficulties, you can help you politely and everyone to get along every day, so that it will naturally get better.

Try to talk as little as possible, do your best to do your part, follow your heart, don't care if others are friendly to you, just be yourself.

Let your personality become lively and cheerful, communicate with others more, chat, and usually bring some snacks to share with everyone.