I m talking about a girlfriend, but her family wants 8 gold and 6W, what if my family is against it

1. Wait until you make enough money 2. Give up.

Resolutely deny, with such a family environment, I never got any good tutoring.

It's very cheap compared to us! This kind of ** gift money is nowhere to be found, at least 10w up.

No one else can answer this question for you. But you can try to analyze it:

A couple of relationships you want to consider and measure are:

1.How deep is the relationship between you and your girlfriend, and whether you can break through all family conflicts with this relationship;

2.What is your girlfriend's attitude towards her family's request for gift money?

3.What is your own attitude towards the payment of key money?

4.Let's put aside the question of whether your family is willing to give gift money. The amount of the gift asked by the woman can be borne by your family, and if not, whether the two parties have room for negotiation;

5.What your family is against and why.

After thinking about the above questions carefully and discussing them with your girlfriend, I guess the two of you should know what to do.

Marry your daughter or sell your daughter! Let's talk about it again!

8 gold 6w?What do you do, and can you afford to pay for it yourself?

People can't be separated from real life, there is a saying "buy a needle (really) don't buy a needle, try your heart". If your family doesn't even object to this, it can only be said that it is too serious.

Although the end result of the matter is that each of the two is good, but the real life will also develop into a situation where nothing can be done without money, which is far from the original intention, so I advise you to convince your family if you don't want to miss the opportunity. Or the opposite way to persuade the woman's parents, but after all, it is impossible for other girls to marry you too facelessly.

Unless... Let people think: Your young man is worth more than 80 gold and 60wWork hard. Good luck with good people.

Negotiate face-to-face, make it clear what is going on, and say kindly, now marriage is two families and one family.

If you have money, give it, anyway, after passing the door, the people and the money are yours.

If you have money, you will give, and if you don't have money, you will leave.

Don't be fooled.

Let's break up. Square peg. Because you're 20Still very young . I don't know the helplessness of reality. The family must oppose it, and the opposing feelings will not last long, and it will be broken off as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will hurt yourself.

This should be your girlfriend to talk about it, and your girlfriend and family have made it clear, as long as you are asked to go to his house to play, that age is not a problem.

The difference is too big, and if you are 8 years older than her, this is normal.

I'm also in favor of points ... Look at the family and your personal perception.

There is no tree in this world that cannot be cut down!

Someday they will make you happy too!

Look at your customs, generally speaking, the woman's family wants gift money, it is not too much, specific things should be analyzed specifically, generally speaking, the gift money will be given to you in the end.

Do you still need a deposit at this time? Take advantage of the fire to rob Is it possible that your family's economy is limited, and you just bought a house and renovated it, don't your little girlfriends know it? If you can't do it, you will disperse, don't hang yourself from a tree, or crooked neck.

If you want to get married, you have to spend some money.

I am really not afraid of hard work, let your initiative to prove that you can give their daughters happiness, and let your true feelings touch their hearts. In fact, they are also worried that her daughter will have a bad time if she marries far away. It may also be a test of your sincerity.

If you want to love her, you will persevere, we will support you, and I hope you can be reunited as soon as possible.

The best way is to make some achievements in your career first, don't keep staring at the girl, since she wants to escape now, you go to her again, isn't it also forcing her? I don't see that you have ** want to change, and you don't really think about each other, do your own thing, and when your career is on track, you will find a new space, a new height, and a different understanding of feelings and life, then you will deal with emotional problems, it will be better, otherwise your current oath is, the future that you can't touch, what qualifications do you have to say that you will change the past.

Please your mother-in-law and let them see a bright future in you.

If you love her enough and make up your mind that you must protect each other in this life, just talk about it, and your sincerity will definitely solve all problems. There is nothing difficult about love.

I think this situation is very complicated, if you don't think about it now or are impulsive, you promise to give your girlfriend a lifetime of happiness, when you encounter things that really test your ability to resist pressure, you will have fear, because, from your text, I can feel that you have psychological pressure on the 8-year-old gap, not fully acceptable, so, in the future, your girlfriend will be very painful, if you are willing to accept all her words, you will not have this kind of thought, Therefore, it is recommended that you choose carefully.

If you really love each other, age is not a problem, height is not a distance, I wish you happiness...