Is a new match marriage more likely to be successful?

Approve. The traditional door-to-door pair is based on power and money, without taking into account the emotional foundation!

The transitional period is based on the talent of men and women, heroes and beauties!

As for the new family, not only do they take into account emotional issues, but also a deeper outlook on life, and values are also integrated into it.

Friends are formed in the same values, confidants are in the same life audience, for confidants, isn't it the opposite sex who has the same outlook on life and values as themselves! A confidante built on the basis of love, that is the one who spends his life with him!

Isn't such a marriage stronger?

There are no absolutes! It's just different from person to person!

But I'm more in favor of being the right person, because the prince and Cinderella lived happily ever after, and that's what fairy tales say! I'm not saying that there is no love in this world! But how many can love supremacy for a lifetime?

Approve. Even if you can ignore these gaps in front of you, you will eventually find that people who are not at the same level will eventually find that there will be barriers in terms of concept and lifestyle.

In fact, the right match can reduce the friction between the values and outlook on life between the husband and wife, and make it easier for both parties to communicate.

In favor of it though such marriages are not necessarily the happiest

At least nothing goes wrong

It won't be too successful.

Individual exceptions. There shouldn't be any major problems.

The right thing is money and family, and to put it mildly, yes, people who have not experienced the gap will not know how powerless love is in front of them. My predecessor is a girl with a good family education, but what about it? 1.

Mom told her not to spend boys' money, girls do, and when you fall in love, tell your mom that mom will give you money. 2.Dad told her not to look for a partner with too good family conditions, for fear that he would not be good for you.

The girl who chats with my mother every day is a girl with a happy family, and I, who was born in poverty, was not worthy of this girl at that time. Two marriages are not in love, and various factors need to be considered, what does it mean to be a good match? The family background is almost the same, the personality is appropriate, and the three views are the same.

If you don't care about it because of love, it doesn't mean that you are unhappy when you get married. But most couples who don't have a good match will encounter more problems, and the marriage needs to be managed. There is a kind of door-to-door pair, which is called the convergence of three views.

When people with the same three views are together, they will come together from all over the world, and they will never get tired of looking at each other. The so-called right family, this does not mean that two people have equal financial resources, but because of their comparable family background, their views on things and their vision of the world will be the same. Those marriages that are comfortable with each other are just spiritual matches.

You don't have to please, you don't need to please, you know what I want to say, I understand what you mean. This kind of feeling is rare and precious for Zhenye Nianzheng. The marriage of adults is nothing more than finding someone who is comfortable with each other.

From a personal point of view, if your family, education, and all aspects are far lower than your other half, even if your other half does not feel much, you will always feel inferior in some small things and when getting along with the other party's family. He is even psychologically dependent on his other half, and he has no confidence. If two people are basically equal, there will be less trouble, in short, the right person or the oak will do it, but if you only look at whether the door is right, then marriage is too formalized.

Marriage is not a matter between two husband and wife, but a union of two families. When many loving couples get married, they will always pull out a lot because of the bride price, and even part ways. If there is a large family gap between two couples, then the requirements of the parents of both parties for the bride price will be much different.

There is such a thing around me, the woman's family is poorer than the man's family, and the woman's parents think that since your man is so rich, then you should give a little more bride price. And the man's parents feel that the woman wants to join their family anyway, and it doesn't matter how much the bride price is.

I won't get married because I'm married, only when I meet someone who has the same three views, the same goal in life, and a person who dotes on me and loves me and has a common language, I can marry her.

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three matches Lu Sen view may be difficult to be consistent, two people with different three views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage is naturally useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Women prefer to be flattered than men. In ancient times, the family match was for the matching of family status and economic conditions. Relatively speaking, in a well-matched marriage, when running-in, two people are more able to think from each other's point of view, and there is less of a situation where they cannot understand each other's situation and psychology.

Due to the existence of empathy, the communication and exchange between two people is smoother, and they can better communicate with each other, so naturally there will be less friction and conflict, and there will be a lot of harmony. In fact, in the 21st century, it is also very important to be a good match, if you just have the same personality, but the economic level is unbalanced and the gap is very large, in a marriage, one party will inevitably be very tired.

<>Take my cousin as an example, a marriage whose coordinates are not the right one will be more tiring, and the door is not the right one, which shows that the values, outlook on life, and world view of the two people are different, for example, the rich returnee and the poor are together, and the rich person thinks that it is normal to buy a watch of hundreds of thousands, and the poor will think that it is half a house in the county.

The word has been tested over many years. If the door is not right, the future of two people will not be too happy. After the marriage of the two reached a stable period, the conflict slowly showed up and regretted it.

It's not easy to get along all your life, and in the end, you don't love each other much. What's more, it's really hard to have the door right. The economy, society, status, and foundation determine the future.

But not 100 percent bad. It varies from person to person, so consider it carefully.

Illiterate blind dates under the don't know how to cherish the rich, occasionally separated, and worried about the stomach, so that you can't wait to grow a pair of wings; If one of them accidentally catches a cold and fever, the other can cough as if he is infected, just like the poem - you and me, you and me, are passionate; Put a piece of mud, twist a you, leak with a me, I have you in the mud, you have me in the mud, the best door is right, of course, there are not the door is not right, the culture, economy, and atmosphere of the two families can go longer.

Clause. 1. You will not be disliked by the other party's family. Although it is not very much advocated now, many families are still the same, and if they feel that they have strength, they will dislike families who do not have strength. Clause.

2. You will not be bullied by the other party's family. Many people like to find wealthy families, but you have no right to speak when you marry in, and you often keep your voice low, and you are bullied and dare not speak. And the right family will not. Clause.

3. You can help each other and support each other. Many married people will often say that "finding a good family" is very important, but as everyone knows, this "door is right" refers not only to the family background and background, but the spiritual level is also to pay attention to the right door, otherwise the emotions of marriage will be shattered by the differences of "the door is not the right door", and it will be really physically and mentally exhausted. 1. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is to guess whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely. 2. Three views are very important. A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

3. Life goals. In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage. Therefore, many people don't care about the "right match" of family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families, but I want to say that compared to these, the spiritual family is more important, because it will directly affect whether your married life is relaxed and spiritually happy, so if you want to have a happy marriage, you must not ignore the spiritual match.

Individuals are very well able to receive notarization of prenuptial property.

The so-called pre-marital property refers to the property acquired by one of the spouses before the marriage. The pre-marital property of one of the spouses, whether movable or immovable, tangible or intangible, is protected by law as long as it is lawfully acquired. This is a manifestation of the rule of law society, which is unacceptable to many people in China, which is a "human" society, since love should be unconditional love, including everything on both sides should be shared together, so clear is not like a family, not true love.

Premarital property notarization is obviously not a specific practice of being a family with each other and not having true love, which is an invisible harm to us who talk about "love", and it is an injury to the outside world that "hurts the skin and saves face".

But in retrospect, in fact, why notarize prenuptial property? The union of each other is not based on each other's property, you love his (her) person, when you get the certificate, you can talk about the joint property of husband and wife, there are too many properties that are each other's and do not belong to you, if you do not get married, these properties do not belong to you? Why bother with pre-marital property?

Talking about money hurts feelings, which has been proven by countless people. Husband and wife truly love each other and cherish each other is the eternal truth in marriage, and money cannot buy marriage. Premarital property notarization is also a clear definition of each other, which is also to leave no hidden dangers in the future.

From the perspective of a society governed by the rule of law, it is also a good thing, and it is better to set many things in front than to make endless noise afterwards. Accept it calmly, and you will find that you will not have so much burden on your mind and live a more relaxed life.

The door is not right, the love of the wrong household, the most hole in the silver starts with the appearance, and finally the reality.

Is love really invincible to reality? If the door is not the right love, can it really not go to the end?

People often say that the door is right, so what is the right door?

As long as my family has millions of assets, your family must have million**.

Or as long as my family drives a luxury car, your family must live in a luxury house.

In fact, what I think is the right person is the right person in spirit, not the right person in terms of material and financial resources.

There is no common language and communication between two people who are not on the same channel.

Even if the wealth is equal, it is difficult to really go to the end.

And what we mean by parity is nothing more than ideological parity.

It's that I want to go out for a big meal once in a while, and you don't blame me for thinking it's extravagant.

It's because I want to work hard and realize my personal value, and you don't just want me to be at home because I'm a girl.

It was I who bought a set of luxury goods with my own salary, and you don't think it's a gratuitous show-off, nothing to do.

It's you who care about national affairs and study national policy diplomacy, I won't be unreasonable to snatch your exciting mobile phone, and only let you accompany me to watch the brainless TV series I like.

It's that you want to buy a set of photography equipment, collect figurines and classics, I don't think it's garbage, think it's a waste of money, take up space.

The real door is the door to the door on the soul.

Even if our original families are not equal in material and financial resources.

But our understanding of the world is the same, and our outlook on life and values are consistent.

Even if they don't match, we are willing to respect and support each other.

Two people together, no insecurity, no wild suspicion.

When we were tired of watching, we pressed the road together and ate snacks.

There is no "wrong door", there is no "wrong door", there is just that you love me, and I love you.