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After the breakup, I think I should first reflect on myself, what is going on, and reflect rationally, the problem is **. If the problem is with the other person, then you are right; If the problem is on your side, you should think about not making the same mistake in the future. After thinking about these things clearly, people will be relieved, and they can travel lightly, and they can re-devote themselves to work and study with full enthusiasm; There's no need to rush to find something or something, fate doesn't come just as it is, as long as you work hard, what should be yours will always be yours, and it's not interesting to force it if it's not yours.
In short, life is fair to everyone, complaining about life is useless, as the so-called "there is nothing in the world, mediocrity disturbs itself", opportunities are always left to those who are prepared, work hard!
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Many people will experience broken love, there is no good medicine for broken love**, only time, let time slowly heal your wounds.
During this period, remember that when you are alone, don't think too much about the past, drink more, go out with friends, get together, have fun, and relax. You must not hold it alone. If you want to recover as soon as possible! If you don't want to recover and want to wallow in pain, lock yourself up at home!
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Then you go and die.
Boring question ... What if you fall out of love... There's a kind of going to die.
I cried if I didn't plant... It's as simple as that ...
Falling out of love doesn't hurt your heart. You come up and ask a fart...
It's good to go while being sad. Enough hurts. Then find another one that suits you. ok?
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What to do if you fall out of love, of course it's easy to do, do what you have to do, everything is not so beautiful
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There are a lot of lovelorn people, so you can come over slowly.
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Do you know how to get out of a broken love?
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Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.
Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...
Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.
Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...
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The first is overeating, because the loss of love has brought a lot of trauma to a woman's soul, and many women will take a kind of physical destruction and use physical destruction to alleviate the relief of psychological trauma. In order not to add to the annoyance of their lovelorns, they will increase their appetite, because they no longer care about having a good figure, so they will start the rhythm of overeating. No matter how you controlled your appetite before, and no matter what you used to control your appetite, since you have fallen out of love, then have a good meal.
Even the initial goal of ** was indifferent, and the pain of the time was relieved by a large amount of food.
The second is, of course, drinking, which is a relief for many people, and women are no exception. In order to be able to paralyze oneself and not think about someone, they will use alcohol to numb themselves, in the paralysis of alcohol, it is easy for people to be in a short-term short-circuit state of the brain, once they enter the state of drinking, they will drink without scruples, in order not to think about the beauty of the past. will also use drunkenness to make noise, feelings are garbage, not worth being nostalgic for yourself.
The third is to start a new relationship and forget about it before you know it.
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Just suggest, against the drug!
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I'm a girl, but my role is the same as yours. Although such thoughts occasionally swirl through my mind, I quickly adjust my mindset.
I always feel that when two people are together, they can't care who pays more or less. The one who pays more, may I ask, is there anyone holding a knife holder around your neck? Everything is your own volition, even if people can't afford it in the end, you have no room left, the road is your own choice, no one forces you, understand?
Since you are determined to give, don't regret it. There will always be times when you are struggling, and the important thing is the mentality. I understand that when we pay more, what we hope is not that the other party will give you the same amount of pay, what we hope for is just to get a little affirmation, to be sure that our efforts are worth it.
Is that right? Your love for her, she can feel it, she knows that you love him, and that's enough.
I have always felt that it is very painful to live that kind of depressing life, why should I suppress myself if I love someone, if I love him, I will say, if I don't love him, if it is not your own view of love, I don't recommend that you have to leave yourself the so-called 2 or 3 points, love him can love yourself, don't put pressure on yourself, isn't it also a manifestation of loving yourself?
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In fact, this kind of thing is difficult to say, there is nothing wrong with leaving three parts to love yourself! So love yourself more and don't let yourself get hurt too much! The more you give, the more you hurt!
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Everything is the opposite! Loving someone is not just a drop of selfless dedication, there must be a degree, love without self-esteem can not be drip for a long time!
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Don't blame yourself! If only you were worthy of her.
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It turns out that I made the same mistake as you. I've lost it too, and I want to get it back, but now it's definitely not going to work. Let's look at fate in the future, because there are many things in life that are more important than love.
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Love is a two-way street, you started to blindly pay, has drawn a role level for your love, you must be the sacrifice party, but your excessive sacrifice and pay doomed you to be humble in love, to love her is to love yourself is just a simple argument. Remember to give yourself two points of space next time
Hello, I am also very touched by this problem, I have also fallen out of love, almost half a year, I feel that I like it, I can't forget it, it's okay, after all, we have worked hard and dare to pursue our own love, I like it for two years, you are tired and uncomfortable now, I understand, the more you want to forget, but you can't forget it, because it has been planted in your heart, don't force yourself, it will be very painful, I am the same as you, I also like a person who will not bear fruit, but I still love him, as a result, since there is no result, I choose to let go, it has been four months now, and I have been busy for four months I don't have time to think about him, work, study, but I don't have any other thoughts, maybe you will be distracted in it, you can find other hobbies, such as singing, learning musical instruments, etc., increasing the girl's self-cultivation, improving your level, and restraining yourself, don't follow him, don't open his blog, don't enter his space, don't contact him, you know, and listen to some cheerful songs, be with friends, don't force yourself to forget immediately, the more this is the case, the more uncomfortable it is, the time problem, I hope you come out slowly, regain your happiness, bless you Time will tell you everything, be happy.
In fact, there is nothing that everyone will experience when falling out of love, this is just a process, there is nothing that cannot be passed, as long as you want to open it, if you want to quickly come out of this shadow, from a new step into a new journey.
Send him a text or email and tell him what you really think. And let him see your sincerity, explain that you said that the breakup was unintentional, and promise not to say such sensitive words in the future. And explain that if he really doesn't want to reconcile anymore, you won't force it anymore. >>>More
Do you know how to get out of a broken love?
Divert your attention and do more other things, such as studying, exercising, and if you have a musical instrument or dance that you want to learn before, you can simply sign up for a class. If you don't pay attention to all the things about that person, it will pass slowly, and to put it mildly, time will dilute everything, really.