Why do some long distance relationships end up breaking up over a little thing?

A long-distance relationship will make it impossible for each other to understand each other's lives, and they will be cranky over time. The main thing is that when you are at the most helpless, he is not around, unable to help you in time, care for you, comfort you, the seeds of complaining will gradually sprout in your heart, and in the end you will quarrel and break up over a little trivial matter. ‍‍

Long-distance relationship, because you are not in the same place, you can't see it, you don't know what he's doing, you don't know who he's with, once it's a little different from usual, it's easy to be cranky, uneasy and anxious, and over time, problems are inevitable. Maybe the man can't stand your crankiness, maybe you can't stand such anxiety yourself, and in the end, breaking up because of a little thing is just the limit of what you can bear, even if you still love it, you don't want to continue. ‍‍

If you break up in a different place, it is definitely not because of the little thing that broke up in the end. But in the details of your usual relationship, you can't pretend to love someone or not, even if you disguise it well, you will inadvertently show it from time to time. It's just that they didn't debunk it, or they made excuses for each other.

can lead to a breakup, it must be because you can't love or don't love.

Long-distance relationships are difficult, and they need to have enough trust, tolerance, and communication between both parties, so that each other can feel each other's hearts and have enough security. Because the two parties in a long-distance relationship are not together, if the communication is not in place, it is easy for both parties to think too much, misunderstand, and gradually make both parties feel tired and disappointed in the relationship, and it is easy to get angry and break up because of a little thing. Therefore, long-distance relationships must communicate more, and each gives each other enough trust and security! ‍‍

After all, it is a different place, and if the two are not in the same place, they can't see each other, which leads to a big barrier to communication. Although communication is now very convenient, it is still not as warm as face-to-face. The breakup is never because of a specific little thing, it must be the result of the superposition of countless small things, and the most recent little thing that directly led to the breakup is just the straw that crushed the camel. ‍‍

In fact, there have been many problems in long-distance relationships because of not being together for a long time, and the last little thing is actually the last straw that crushes the camel, which is obviously not a big deal at all, but because of the long-term accumulation of dissatisfaction and lack of communication, in the end, that little thing has become a big thing, and both parties will extend from that little thing to other things, so that it will be out of control, and the ending will naturally be a breakup!

The friends around him fanned the flames and added fuel to the fire, for example, you see how handsome this guy is so good to you, why did you hang yourself from a tree? For example, where did I go with my boyfriend today, what did I do......Who doesn't get angry when they hear this? and so on, causing you to meet, or in the process of ** porridge, because of some trivial things to make trouble, at this time, if there happen to be other suitors or ill-intentioned people around you, then the long-distance relationship must be gg! ‍‍

Because the long-distance relationship has not been together for a long time, it is all dependent on ** porridge, and it can't solve the problem of food and clothing at all, for example, when I usually see others in pairs, I will think that I also have a boyfriend, and Mao is a person. As long as the situation is concerned, it is easy to start quarreling with the other party because of a trivial matter. ‍‍

Growing older brings not only maturity, but also the importance of work, communication, and socializing, how many times have you put her alone, in your opinion, "Am I wrong to fight for the future?" "It's right from your point of view, in your heart, she will wait for you if she loves you, but she waits, but she can't wait. Finally, when countless disappointments accumulate into despair, she is determined to leave you. ‍‍

A long-distance relationship can accumulate a lot of problems, and when it accumulates to a certain extent, then a little thing will erupt.

You think it's a small thing, maybe this little thing brings out your past dissatisfaction with each other, he is just a fuse, the real problem is the problems that have accumulated in the process of getting along in different places. ‍‍

I'm afraid that only people who don't love each other can be in a long-distance relationship for a long time, and the deep long-distance relationship of true love will not exceed a year, and I can't stand this distance at all, loneliness and blows.

It's not a matter of a little thing, it's a lot of accumulation, and finally it collapses and explodes because of a little thing, and the accumulation of quantity produces a qualitative leap!

If you don't know how to communicate and communicate with each other, you don't know how to care about each other, and you don't know how to trust each other, so that two people will break up sooner or later.

In a long-distance relationship, you must know how to solve the problem of the wheel of enlightenment in a timely manner, and often give each other some small macro surprises, so that the other party has a sense of security, mutual understanding, and mutual trust, so that it can last for a long time.

Long-distance relationships don't know how to think much about each other, and if you put all your mind on each other, you will break up sooner or later.

The main reason is that long-distance relationships will cause very serious problems in the relationship between the two parties, and there is no way for the two parties to communicate in a timely manner, which will lead to more and more serious conflicts between the two parties, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship between the two parties.

This is because two people in a long-distance relationship are not together, and they have no way to communicate well when they encounter problems, they are very far away, and they often do not see each other, so it is easy to cause breakups.

Because two people in a long-distance relationship often don't see each other, when some misunderstandings occur, they can't be resolved in time, and over time, they will dislike each other, and one of the most important problems in long-distance relationships is that they are insecure, and sometimes they will be suspicious of each other.

There are too many cases of long-distance relationship breakups, because many people can't bear the pain of long-distance relationships. There are too many couples who are already in a good relationship, but because of the long-distance relationship, it is slowly. Our hearts are too tired, for example, when there is a conflict between two people, something that can be solved with a hug needs to be explained many times and many times.

Or that one of the parties in a long-distance relationship can't hold on anymore because it's too lonely. The breakup that led to his need for someone to keep him company.

Many people will always form a lot of anxiety when facing the separation of a long-distance relationship. In fact, this is a kind of negative energy, transmitted to the other party through words and voices, and the pressure brought to the other party is often the last straw that crushes the camel when it breaks up.

For example, if you are in a bad mood, you miss each other very much, and you are constantly worried about the future, then when you get along with the other party, you will also bring this anxiety to him, so that the two people will get along unhappily, and over time, this anxiety will become stronger and stronger, and the negative energy will become more and more.

Communication between two people is equivalent to the exchange of information, and the other party's life has nothing to do with you, so the two of you get along less and less on the same channel. For example, when he was in a meeting, I wanted to chat with him, and when I was about to sleep, he called me **, but there are not too many intertwined points in the lives of the two people, so the usual communication stays in care and daily life, and there is not much depth.

Due to the pressure of life and work, I am also physically and mentally exhausted. People who can understand and understand their hearts, people who can talk to each other, after a few unhappy exchanges, the distance between them and their lovers will gradually increase.

Recently, I had dinner with a good friend and talked about things in ordinary high school. I heard that there was a couple in the class who had finally come together. I was surprised at the time.

In my junior year of high school, I was envious to see them. I thought I would break up after college. I heard that the school is not in the same big city yet, so I can work hard until the end.

When I hear from these people, I think that some true love is not easily disturbed by distance. The original long-distance relationship Chi Ming may have many results. When it comes to long-distance relationships, many or long-distance relationships break up easily.

Is a long-distance relationship really that easy to break up? What causes the yard to complain?

Time is unforgiving. A relationship that isn't deep enough can easily be erased by it. From the beginning, the two of them chatted every day, and in the end they had nothing to say, or were perfunctory.

When the distance between two people becomes longer and they are busy with work and daily life. When there is a habit of not having each other's feelings and absoluteness, emotions become insufficient, and of course, two people become strangers.

Due to the distance, everyone does not know what they are doing with each other at this time, and trust has become a kind of tempering. Some emotional people can become suspicious. Jump the track.

When there is too much distrust between two people, it is easy to cause conflicts and disputes. This emotion can be tiring.

Because in other places, people can easily feel lonely because they are not able to receive all kinds of comforts for a long time, which is also a very routine thing. Children who leave their hometown for the first time to go to school think of their hometown. Parents can't help but feel uncomfortable, let alone a couple.

Even when you are immersed in a new natural environment and new human interactions, worries will continue to sprout in the dead of night. People who are worried about loneliness may want to find someone to comfort themselves. In the end, I think that in addition to true feelings, feelings and friendships can become alien over time, and these things that do not stand up to tempering will eventually become obstacles in everyone's life.

It's because the distance between two people is very far, when one of the coincidental parties needs it, the other party can't appear around, and the two people are likely to have conflicts and quarrels because of the distance.

Because a long-distance relationship will make two people strangers, especially girls, they will always be cranky because of the distance, but it will cause a lot of conflicts.

Because the distance between two people is very far, there is no way to take care of many things, and there will be great contradictions.

I have also experienced a long-distance relationship, two people are more than 1,000 kilometers apart, and they have been dating for about a year and a half, and finally chose to break up. Generally speaking, there are very few long-distance relationships that can achieve positive results, and the main reasons for breaking up are as follows.

1. You can't see or touch each other, and you are easy to be tempted by the people around you.

Two people in a long-distance relationship, one is sick, the other can't be by his side and take care of him, one is unhappy, and the other doesn't even know, let alone comfort. When you need each other, the other person is always absent, so when you get through all the time alone, you will feel that that person is not necessarily there, anyway, it is the same as not. At the same time, it is very easy for you to like people in the same place as you.

Among the two of you, no matter which one of you likes someone else, your relationship will inevitably not go on, and you have to face the end of breaking up.

Second, I feel insecure and don't want to endure such a state anymore.

When two people are in the place, it is often not easy to meet, at this time, each other can only contact each other through mobile phones, through each other's story, to understand the recent situation of both parties. In this state, there is no problem in a short period of time, but after a long time, when two people do not really participate in each other's lives, over time, there will be a sense of alienation in their hearts, and they will also wonder whether what the other party said to them is true. You will inevitably suffer from gains and losses, suspicious, and deeply uneasy in your heart, this state is very bad, and it will make it very hard to love each other, and you don't want to stick to it anymore, so you choose to break up.

Third, I can't see the hope of ending the other place, and it is easy to choose to let go.

Some long-distance relationships can be clearly known that they can end in one month, three months, or half a year. But too many long-distance relationships, when both parties are unwilling to give in, when the end of the long-distance is far away, then this will inevitably exhaust patience, make each other feel very tired, and are not willing to wait without any hope. So from my personal experience, I am not optimistic about long-distance relationships, because since I have thought about breaking up, there is no need to be together.