It s been so long since I graduated, and I m still confused, and I don t know what to do.

This is actually a problem that many graduates will face, and it has nothing to do with how long it takes to graduate. It is suggested that you can think about two questions: 1. If conditions permit, what kind of industry or job do you want to be able to engage in; 2. If conditions allow, what kind of life do you hope to bring to yourself and your family?

Take a piece of paper and a pen, think about it, write down the answers you think of and organize them, and I'm sure you'll find the answers that belong to you.

That's when you didn't find a job you loved. Some people suspect that they can't do every job for a long time before, because they haven't started at all, maybe after working for a long time, they will like it after they get started! It seems that the work still has to be done continuously, and if you do one thing for a long time, it will still have some effect!

The so-called confusion is because there is no clear direction to work hard, the ability is not enough and the effort is not enough, some just complain, there is no perseverance in doing anything, and serious procrastination.

Confusion is a frequent stage in life, so don't be afraid. Calm down, think about what you're interested in, whether there is a possibility of developing into a career, and if so, plan it and give it a try. See what you are capable of, what you can do to make money, and try boldly if you think you can do it, even if you fail, you will accumulate experience!

You can't do nothing, it will be even more decadent if you stay for a long time.

That's what I'm worried about. It is recommended that you take a look at what certificate you use for this major, you first go to take it down, so that you can work in the company in the future, have a certain amount of capital during the interview, and then the next thing is to look for a job, find a job, and then go to work in a down-to-earth manner. And then take root in this company to survive and develop.

Employment first and then choose a job, all the confusion is because of thinking too much, since you can't figure it out, then simply don't think about anything, first find a job to do, feel the working atmosphere, and at the same time see which jobs are suitable for you, little by little to change yourself, you will not be confused.

It is very normal for such a situation to occur, I just graduated for more than a year when I don't know what the direction of my future work is, whether to take the technical flow or the management flow, and finally decide that it is better to take the technical flow, because your technology can be used in the future, and the management is not so good.

This phenomenon is a very common phenomenon, today's society is full of college students, but can not find a job, this is a manifestation that you do not know enough about your own positioning, if you don't know how to find a job, now very confused, then you can start from your own profession and interests, to find a quieter job, and then start slowly from this job, slowly become bigger. Then the transformation takes place.

If you can't find a direction, then find a relatively simple job to do, let yourself accumulate some experience first, and also solve the current problem of living expenses, and there will be a certain foundation for finding a job in the future, if you want to stabilize yourself, and then slowly think about what to do in the future, otherwise it is a waste of time to be idle at home.

Confusion is the norm of life. It's okay to be confused, what matters is how you deal with it? Do you slack off from now on, or do you keep trying? If you are not satisfied with the status quo, then try to change, if you don't try to change anything, then how can there be a better outcome?