Should I tell my girlfriend 50 about my parents?

I think if you tell her, if she looks down on you or is unwilling to continue dating you, then such a girl still doesn't have to deal with her anymore, think about it, such a girl is a "snob", even if she reluctantly accepts, but what if the two of you live together in the future? What if you're having trouble with work or money? This kind of girl will still leave you, and you will be even sadder!

It's better to tell her now, because first, it's only a matter of time before he knows, you can't hide it from him for the rest of your life, or you want to wait until you meet your parents to tell her, in which case he will think you lied to her! It's going to be even worse!! Second, if you don't tell her when you don't fall in love with him now, you won't know how to open your mouth when you fall in love with him.

It will be more painful then!! In fact, if you need money, the two of you can earn it together, and your parents are old and in poor health, why do you have to rely on your parents for everything?! Let's fight with your own hands!!

You said that if you told her, would she think you were realistic and have a bad impression of you? If his impression of you deteriorates, then prove one point: it's a snob!!

So be sure to find a girl who is good to your parents and doesn't look at "money", I hope you can consider it!

Don't tell her yet, she may leave you immediately and reject you, and you will feel more lost. Today's girls are more realistic. You can cultivate a relationship with her first, and then when the relationship matures, you can find a suitable opportunity to tell her that if she truly loves you, she will definitely not care about this.

If she cares, it means that she doesn't love you, or this girl can't withstand setbacks and tribulations, so that even if the two of them are together again in the future, she can't shoulder the responsibility of the family well.

I hope that she of yours is a good girl who can take care of the elderly wholeheartedly with you! Wishing you happiness!

I think you still make something to tell her good, not your reality, but the facts, the facts are unavoidable, you marry a wife and hope that she will not only love you but also be able to take care of your parents with you, if she doesn't associate with you because of your family situation, then you don't need to be sad for such a girl, right?

Don't tell her just yet. Wait to get to know her. I'm talking about it when the raw rice is cooked. Anyway, don't talk about it at the moment. When you get to know each other. You know her well enough to decide whether to tell her or not.

Telling is a must, but you have to choose the right time!

Well, if she likes you, she won't mind.

I think you need to get to know her a little bit first, this problem must be faced, so I should say it.

You can't tell her until she feels like she can't live without you, or after the raw rice is cooked.

I don't think it's appropriate to tell my parents, because I just talked about my girlfriend, and the relationship is not stable at this time, and the two parties have not done an in-depth understanding, so it is not appropriate to tell my parents at this time.

You can find that many boys will not tell their parents for the first time after falling in love, they will wait for the relationship to stabilize before telling their parents, because they feel that after a long time together, the relationship between the two has been very stable, and the other party is also the person they identify, so they will tell their girlfriends to their parents at this time, I very much agree with the man's approach, very mature, and also very secure.

If a boy has just fallen in love and told his parents, then the relationship has been under the attention of the other party's parents from the beginning, which will bring a lot of pressure to both parties.

In my cognition, if you just talked about a girlfriend, it's best not to tell your parents, you can try to understand first, if you feel that the other party is your own identity, that person can tell your parents, so that you can also respect your parents, and it is also a recognition for girls, if you don't know anything, just tell your parents directly, which will make girls feel unreliable, and their parents will not approve, and they will not get the blessing of their parents, I very much hope that I have a beautiful love, Then I will be the happiest person.

I really hope that everyone can meet a very suitable other half, and I also hope that everyone can get the approval of each other's parents, during this period, both parties must get along well, to manage this relationship together, and then tell their parents after each other's identification, so that you will also get the support and recognition of your parents, then you will become particularly secure, people will be particularly down-to-earth, and then there will be a particularly good result, boys must be mature in doing things, and they must think more about girls. In the process of getting along, don't put too much pressure on the other party, it will be easy to scare the other person away.

I don't think you should tell your parents at the first time, you should tell your parents after you are stable, after all, talking about girlfriends is your own business, and I don't think it's necessary to tell your parents.

You shouldn't tell your parents as soon as possible, or you should wait until the relationship between the two people is stable before telling your parents.

Of course not. Because the two of you will have to talk for a while, and then tell your parents when you are sure that it is appropriate.

Hello dear, I'm happy to answer your questions, this is a tricky hail problem because my girlfriend doesn't know how this situation might affect your relationship. First of all, I suggest that you honestly confess to your girlfriend that you met her parents, explain your reasons, and apologize for not telling her in advance. If you're worried that your girlfriend will be upset or disappointed that you're going to meet her parents, you can explain to her why you met her parents and your attitude.

Maybe you and her parents met by chance on some occasion, or maybe you want to build a good relationship with her parents in the future. In any case, please maintain open communication and try to understand and respect your girlfriend's thoughts and feelings. Finally, it is recommended that you do not go to see your girlfriend's parents again without her consent, and respect her wishes and choices.

If you have communication issues and trust issues, it is recommended that you seek the help of a counselor or psychologist for deeper communication and problem-solving. The above is about your question. Thank you for your consultation and have a great day!

No. I don't think renting a girlfriend will satisfy my parents. This behavior is not only impolite, but also inappropriate.

In my opinion, the right thing to do is to accept the parents' perspectives, understand their concerns, find reasonable ways to communicate, and actively look for opportunities to explain and improve the relationship.

In fact, the most important thing for both parties to build a relationship is trust and respect, which can maintain the relationship.

<> Zhang Ling said to me that she wanted to take me to meet her parents, I looked at her and didn't know what to say, I and Zhang Ling have only been dating for a month today, but she said that she wanted to take me to meet my parents, I couldn't believe it, she saw that I didn't speak for a long time, and asked me if I was willing to go? I said no, after all, it's really bad for a girl to bring it up like this, and it's really bad for me to refuse.

Zhang Ling and I were introduced to each other by friends, and her first feeling to me was very considerate and gentle, so I began to chase her, and she agreed to be my girlfriend after we got along for three months, and I was very good to her after we got together, and I would give her almost whatever she wanted.

But I didn't expect that after half a month of our relationship, I heard others say that she was married, and I was a little angry and asked her if it was true? She was silent for a while and said yes, she explained that she and her ex-husband were flash marriages, and they got married after half a month together, but they divorced after only half a year, she kept saying sorry to me, and didn't make it clear to me, seeing her appearance, I softened, I think she also cares about me so I don't say anything, so I didn't say anything after that, I just hope she will tell me if she has something in the future, don't hide it, she smiled and said okay.

On the weekend, she and I went to the mall to buy gifts for her parents, and then went to her house, her parents were very happy to see me, she also has a younger brother, just graduated, and now looking for a job, I politely called her family, her parents were very satisfied with me, and during the meal, her father asked me if I would drink? I said I'd drink a little, and he smiled and said that he could drink a little, and poured me a full drink.

My girlfriend's father was very refreshing, drinking cup by cup, girlfriend's mother advised him to drink less, but he ignored it, he told me about his youth, I listened carefully, we talked very happily, I think I have such a good father-in-law who can get along well in the future, it is also very good, at this moment, he said to me, you look better than my ex-son-in-law, he, just can't figure it out, married to my daughter, of course you should take care of our family, at the beginning he only gave 180,000 dowry, and then I want to ask him to ask for money to buy a house for my son, He refused, this is how my daughter divorced him, you said that it was all a family, what did he care about doing so much, I was stunned when I heard this, my girlfriend pulled his father and said, Dad, don't talk nonsense if you drink too much, I glanced at my girlfriend and ate food silently.

After eating, I was about to leave, my girlfriend pulled me and said, don't listen to my dad's nonsense, I looked at my girlfriend and said, you tell me the truth, your family really wants so many dowries, do you want to buy a house for your brother? My girlfriend was silent and said yes, I said, I don't have so much money when we get married, my girlfriend saw me and said, then it's not interesting for us to talk like this, I looked at her, sneered and shook my head.

After I came out of her house, I saw my girlfriend send me a message saying, if you love me, you will lend money to my family, you don't want to pay money just don't love me, I saw this message, it was very ridiculous, and then proposed to break up, shouldn't the relationship be the first to love each other? Why does my girlfriend think money is important, I really don't understand!

It is estimated that his father thinks that your family's financial ability is not worthy of his daughter, and he is not optimistic about you, and thinks that your future life is unhappy.

Because my girlfriend's father made two very excessive requests, and my girlfriend didn't object, I proposed to break up.

Is it because I am from the countryside and my parents are farmers? When I arrived at Ling Ju Minchen, I figured it out, maybe my girlfriend and I didn't get along with Han Lachang to talk about it. Because when her father said that, his girlfriend didn't mean to object at all.

It seems that she has known the five requirements for a long time.

If you are in a relationship with your girlfriend, if the relationship between the two of you is already very stable and the relationship is very deep, you need each other's parents to know and meet your parents. After the relationship between two people is good to a certain extent, they naturally want to let each other's parents. Meet your parents and your girlfriend.

Tell your parents, of course. But without knowing each other. You don't have to tell. When the time comes, be sure to tell your parents.

Of course you need to, and if you're serious, tell both of your parents.

I'll have to tell her parents about this sooner or later. Let his parents know about you. You're going to get along better.

Of course, I have to tell my parents. Why don't you talk about it in the end, do your parents disagree with you not setting up a stall, it's a waste of time.