It s been three years, should I let go of this relationship? 55

In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is impossible to completely forget how easy it is, and it is also deceiving yourself, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up, some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the time of the years, occasionally pick up the memories, it will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, and sighing in the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart. When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

I think you can consider riding a donkey to find a horse, and if you come across a better and more suitable one, you can let it go. Life is your own, happiness is your own, there is nothing wrong with being selfish, on some key issues, since he refuses to give you the sense of existence and commitment he deserves, and refuses to give you realistic security, what else do you have to wait for. Although a certificate doesn't mean anything, he refuses to even give the unanimous promise of 9 yuan, so he can only say that he didn't think about it.

It's a pity that those couples who have experienced a lot of ups and downs in life together and can't get together in the end. Giving up a relationship for three years will be very painful for everyone, but after the pain, we still have to continue to live, after all, life still has to be lived.

Learn to look forward.

The years I have experienced with someone in the past are very unforgettable in life, and no matter what kind of characters life brings us, he has left a unique imprint in our lives. After three years together, I believe that two people have experienced a lot of things, sweet words and wind and rain, and the run-in of the years, can not let two people go hand in hand in the days to come, that means that the fate of the two people is over. If we have been living in the past, all that remains is endless painful memories, and even if we are happy, all we can feel in the present moment is pain.

So don't be nostalgic for the past feelings, we must resolutely come out and welcome new characters, new lives, and new lives.

It won't be too painful to let go.

If you are still in this relationship, then you must be very painful. But if we want to think that since two people have come to the point of breaking up, most of the reasons may be because they don't love each other so deeply, and if it's because of the outside world or family, they may not be able to stop you from loving each other. In a relationship, if one person does not love, it means that two people do not love, because a person's love is not established, and it is also an unequal relationship, so I don't want to be able to get any good consequences.

The reason why it is painful is because we can't let go, if we can calmly face all this in our lives and let go of the people in the past, all the memories we will not still live in pain and cannot extricate ourselves.

No one will help you get out of the pain, unless you can accept all this in real life, unless you can forget the feelings of two people!

Yes, after all, three years is not a short time, and the two have developed a deep relationship in these three years.

It should be painful, because the two of you have been together for three years after all, and if you are separated, you should be. Pain for a long time.

The relationship between the two of them will be very deep after three years of love, and they will definitely suffer great pain when they give up. But time will dilute everything. Everyone will start over.

It will definitely make a person very painful, and a lot of things will happen when two people come together, but both people can face it calmly, and two people have a very deep emotional foundation.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: We have been living together for two years and have been living a relaxed two-person world. Recently, because of his job change, frequent overtime, and the number of people he knows, he also falls asleep when he comes home, and he talks very little, and we have less and less time and topics together. Don't eat at home and don't take care of housework.

It's like a different person. I became very clingy to the banquet, and wanted him to accompany me, and he was very reasonable to think that he was making money, and I was messing around... I've always been depressed, why do people change so much?

Recently he offered to marry within three months (presumably because his mother was urging him). Thinking about it, if it weren't for his transformation, we would have happily walked into the marriage hall, but now I can't think of a reason to get married, except for the relationship of the past two years.

We've always lived together, but the money is in its own hands, almost AA system. Now he is busy outside, very macho, and told me that he wants the male protagonist to be outside the female protagonist, and he ignores the oak family, just like a hotel, and I am also a person who wants to work, without his concern for me, I can't feel the physical and mental relaxation when I go home now, and there is no warmth and relaxation at home.

Love him, keep him? Or let go and give yourself a self? In the contradiction, I'm so tired... I beg your advice.

If you don't do it fairly, you can watch TV at home and tidy up the house to cook! ~.

No problem with the male protagonist and the female protagonist insideCan he support you without you having to work?

If you are willing or not, you better be independent enough.

Do you like to stick to him? It's because I love him.

But that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice yourself! If he changes, you also change, and you are the other two! ~

If he changes, you don't change, he may change back.

Be independent, and if he can't accompany you, think of something to do on his own.

Don't cling to him. Don't call, text, give him **. He will make an appointment with you.

If a relationship has come to an end, I believe that at this time, many couples are more contradictory, can't bear the last annoyance, and are afraid of losing it, not adapting to the price of losing her, self-contradiction, it is difficult to choose, this is not indecisive behavior, just because we are people with hearts, but we have to weigh the pros and cons after all, if this relationship is indeed very consuming to each other, it is better to break it off and give each other a pleasure.

Try to separate, since you have come to the end, then be brave, two people who live together, take the initiative to move out one, and then use other things to occupy their free time, people say, time is a magical thing, it can make us grow, it can also make us fall, since it is a breakup, it must be very unhappy, we need to be happy to continue our more valuable life, then be brave, take the initiative to separate.

Try to treat each other calmly, no longer indifferent, no longer-for-tat, we tell ourselves, life is not used to embarrass ourselves, then open your heart to do what you like, stay away from people or things that make you negative energy, whether you go to a friend, or go home, or maybe you go to travel to wash the baptism, you can, in short, don't spend it in this already clear relationship, because this will only make you more painful.

Many people, obviously already know, the relationship can't go on, but still unwilling, regretful, reluctant, these psychological activities are normal, but time can ** everything, now you just need to be brave and decisive to take the next step, let the depressed self become clear, bad love will only consume yourself, an unhappy relationship, can not find a reason to solve, then there is only the way to break up, so, tell each other, let go of each other, make yourself better, look back, Are you still willing to be together and make an agreement together, because life is not only about love that allows us to live happily, but also about many meaningful things that we are worth doing.

It should be let go. Because if a relationship has already had a result, it won't help if you don't let go at this time, and letting go is good for both parties, so you should let go.

When encountering such a situation, you should work hard to pursue your other half, because only in this way can you change the state of two people and make the relationship between two people better.

In such a situation, I think you should take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and then try your best to keep the other party, and don't leave regrets.

Marriage is not child's play. Both parties must think about it before getting married. Because it's going to take a lifetime.

Be responsible for your family. Be responsible for your marriage. Separate at every turn.

Divorce at every turn! What is going on? Whether a marriage is happy or not depends on both parties themselves, tolerating each other and understanding each other!

In general, the difficulties in the relationship include external factors, such as the disapproval of the parents, in this case, as long as both parties are firm, and the majority of the compromise is the parents.

There is another one who is not single, which is more complicated, involving moral issues, I think it is necessary to be rational in the face of emotional difficulties, if two people have a good feeling from the beginning, they have a good feeling and slowly feel like, and then they dating. But after dating, I found that the personalities of the two people are incompatible, if so, I think it's better to break up, the twisted melon is not sweet and the emotional incident is something that depends on fate, what is yours is yours, not what you can't ask for.

Insist on it, and let it go when you need to let go. If the other party has a good character and is in good health. is more diligent, the personality is okay, the other party also likes you, and you also like the right words When there is a crisis in the relationship, the first thing that comes to mind is to save and persevere, and then choose to break up.

It's not easy to love someone or someone who loves themselves (except for water-based flowers), so cherish the people you love or those who love yourself. There is really no way to say whether the relationship is right or wrong, for example, if you give up now, it may hurt the other person, so you feel guilty and <>

I want to find some reason and motivation for myself to continue, but you have already retreated, and if you don't let go now, you will still let go and ask yourself in the future, what makes you feel difficult in this relationship, you can't run it, there are reasons for the beginning and end of a relationship, and only by finding out the reasons for the difficulties can you solve it little by little. Feelings are a matter of two people, not one person. If you are the only one looking for a solution to a problem when you are in trouble, I think you will be very tired.

There is no clear definition of feelings, everything depends on how you understand it, and for some people, it is indeed more difficult to hold on than to let go.

Sometimes it's really harder to stick to it than to let go, as long as someone doesn't know how to cherish it, it's hard to stick to a relationship all the time, no matter what you do, persistence is the most important thing.

It's harder to hold on than to let go. Because to insist on a relationship, you need to pay a lot, and two people need to understand each other and face the challenges and difficulties in the future together; And letting go is just going to be sad for a while.

A relationship has come to an end, and it is impossible for two people to continue to go on, but you still refuse to let go, this is because deep in your heart, this relationship is still not with illusions, hoping that you can redeem each other through your own efforts.

Because they love each other deeply, they are unwilling to give up and let go. This is the thought and behavior that many people will have after a breakup, some people take action, and some people bury it deep in their hearts. However, the pain of breaking up can never be reduced by half a point, and it is normal for this situation to occur, after all, for homework, for emotional couples, a relationship can not be ignored, two people get along day and night together, bit by bit, the love and sweetness of the past can not be eliminated in a short time.

But these two people have come to the point of breaking up, there must be irreconcilable contradictions, and even one party no longer has the same love as before. If this is the case, there is no point in forcibly retaining it, and it will only lead to the loss of one's own dignity. You might as well simply let go, let time distance yourself, and when you slowly get rid of the pain of falling out of love, you will understand the world.

There are still many other things worth exploring and pursuing, not only a lost relationship, a person who does not love himself, we should not put too much of our emotions on the person who does not love themselves, if you want to be loved, you must first love yourself, you may as well make yourself more beautiful and happy, so as to be worthy of a love in the give, and finally give up on yourself.

In short, don't be too illusionary, especially when the other party has no love, be more decisive, keep a trace of embodiment and dignity for yourself, and turn around and let go seriously, so that two people can better turn back and tie up in this relationship, and have a perfect ending. What's more, there are many things in life that are worth working hard and pursuing, and feelings are only a small part of them.