What s wrong with liking to hoard things, I like hoarding things

In the contemporary era of material abundance, people love shopping, and merchants often cooperate with people's desire to buy to make a variety of discount activities, there are many things that are not needed, but they are bought home, hoarding has become a norm of current things, some things take a long time to use, or even not used at all, but most buyers still can't help but buy it home, which is actually behind the psychological problems at work.

As soon as I encounter something that I think is good, I can't help but want to buy it, and when I go home, I find that it is useless, and finally there are a lot of useless things at home, but I am reluctant to throw them away, so I hoard there, many things are forgotten, and people who like hoarding will not be able to help but buy some things that are good, and the cycle repeats, and finally the home is cluttered, and even affects life.

When buying something, as long as there is a cheap to make a profit, I am excited, and finally bought it after repeated comparisons, and finally took it home and found that its usefulness is not big, and then I forgot about it somewhere, and the next time I encounter it again, I can't help but shoot again, especially online shopping is the most likely to buy something cheaply and cheaply, and after getting it, I put it at home on the grounds of trouble to return, hoping to use it one day, but in fact it is useless, wasting money and increasing the accumulation of items at home.

Some essential things at home, such as toilet paper, I can't wait to buy several pieces at a time, for fear that it will not be enough, buy towels and the like, obviously one is enough, but unconsciously buy several back, clothes are even more I feel that I can't buy more, I can't control my urge to buy more at one time, this kind of problem is also hoarding behavior, in fact, for a period of time, we can't use so many things, but because we are afraid of not enough, so we want to buy more back, this behavior will cause waste, after buying back, you will find that you buy more, Then when you use it, you don't cherish it much, because there is a surplus, so the bold waste is not only a waste of money, but also a waste of resources.

First of all, control your wallet, whether it is an actual wallet or an e-wallet, the second is to learn to invest, gradually gather more money to do some financial planning, and finally tidy up your home, gradually give some excess things to people who need them or sell them for the second time, make a shopping plan for yourself, and plan what to buy, how much to buy and so on before each purchase.

Manifestations of hoarding:

01 Fanatical love of their own belongings.

Hoarders behave in a way that is incomprehensible to normal people, and they have a very fanatical and paranoid love for their belongings, which can even be described as obsession. Normal people like an object, usually that object has an extraordinary meaning, while hoarders may be obsessed with a broken or even rotten object.

02 Collection fetish.

People who suffer from hoarding have a collecting habit, but this collecting habit is different from other people's collecting habits, they collect items that make people cry and laugh, such as items that others discard, and do not have any use value, appreciation value, etc., even if it is a used band-aid, they will collect it like a treasure.

03It is difficult to dispose of items.

To use an analogy, people with hoarding have injured their fingers and need to be bandaged with gauze, and when the wound is healed, they are not even willing to throw away the gauze that bandages their fingers, but carefully treasure them. If one day, for some reason, let them throw these away, it is really a very painful thing.

04 Strong possessiveness.

This is also a personality that is easily produced by people who suffer from hoarding, and the desire to possess an object or even a person is very strong. This kind of strong possessiveness is actually very scary, especially when facing people or things that may not belong to them, they want to get to their side with what they are missing, and it is easy to go to the extreme road.

Ways to say goodbye to hoarding:

01 Be truly aware of the consequences of hoarding.

Many people who suffer from hoarding are actually very conflicted and entangled, they know which of their behaviors are wrong, but they can't control their desire to do it, and it is not the feeling of mental illness that they don't know what they are doing. Therefore, if you have a clear mind, you should not let yourself go, but think about the consequences of these actions, only in this way can you have the determination to say goodbye to hoarding.

02Learn to give up.

Detachment, this is the three-word mantra given by psychologists to hoardists, which is really very difficult for hoarding people, but if you have realized the harm of hoarding and have the determination to get rid of hoarding, then you must strive to achieve renunciation. Clean up the items you treasure, and then choose them carefully, and put the things that you think are very quirky into the cardboard box and throw them away as soon as possible.

03Engage in more outdoor interactive activities.

Too many people with hoarding are resistant to outdoor social activities or other activities, and they prefer to live alone, and it is precisely this solitary life that makes their hoarding more severe. Therefore, you have to let yourself participate in those outdoor activities more, even if you force yourself to do more, you will gradually get used to it, so that your vision will be broadened, your mind will naturally be broadened, and the problem of hoarding can be slowly alleviated.

It's like this, like ants will eat a lot before it rains, otherwise they will starve to death when it rains. This is also a rainy day, and it is also related to prices, enter at a low price, ** you don't need to buy it anymore.

I don't know if there are people like me, like to hoard things, when I was young, I liked to stock up on snacks and eat slowly, and when I grew up, I liked to hoard all kinds of daily necessities, Xiaotong hidden to toilet paper, big to all kinds of skin care products and cosmetics I like to buy a surplus to save, I remember the first year of the epidemic, when the express delivery was stopped, and then my skin care products were not much, I was going to buy a new set of just right when I was engaged in activities, but the express delivery was stopped, and it couldn't arrive, although the old one still has a small half bottle left, But I'm still a little anxious in my heart, that's how I feel, when there aren't many necessities left, and I don't have a way to buy them.

Of course, this strange habit inevitably caused me some trouble, I remember when I was a kid I liked to leave snacks for a slow time, and my sister was the complete opposite of me, which led to her going to my drawer after eating and secretly eating mine, and I was annoyed that she didn't change anything.

At that time, I had online classes at home because of the epidemic, and as a result, I had a lot of snacks that expired before I ate them in the dormitory, so I had no choice but to throw them away.

Of course, it also brought me good food, when there was no food at home, the community did not let me go out, but fortunately I usually don't like to cook at home alone, so I hoarded a lot of fast food, so I lasted for several days, and finally the community can finally go out, only to buy some living materials back.

Because of the three-year epidemic, many people have been under a lot of pressure, and these pressures have directly affected their psychological level, such as the people around me because of the following psychological problems under the epidemic.

First of all, because of the continuation of the epidemic, some people around me have become more and more anxious, especially for those friends around me who are engaged in the service industry, because of the impact of the epidemic, their work and business have been greatly affected, because the recurrence of the epidemic often requires the suspension of work or the suspension of their own business, which will naturally reduce their income significantly, and even if they return to work or start their own business again, Liu is no longer as prosperous as before. Even many acquaintances around me eventually went bankrupt due to the impact of the epidemic, so that they lost their income for a period of time** and lived a difficult life, which naturally caused a lot of pressure in their hearts.

On the other hand, under the epidemic, many people around me often have a self-enclosed mentality, because they often think that they have left their pure home, outside, activities are not safe, under the epidemic, the best way to protect themselves is to close themselves at home as much as possible, of course, there are some acquaintances around me because of the epidemic to form an irrational shopping psychology, in order to cope with the epidemic, these acquaintances tend to stock up on a lot of food and a lot of daily necessities at home, Even if they can't eat and use these things for a long time, they will still do it, because only in this way can they really feel at ease.

As a college student, my usual pleasure is to stock up on something to pass the time, so what do I stock up? I'm going to give you a brief talk today.

Draft book

Blank paper is also considered to be scratch paper, anyway, there was a period of time before I wanted to study hard (that must use a lot of scratch paper) and then I bought a big stack, but I didn't study hard, there was a big stack left, but I saw the plaid paper or something and wanted to buy it, so I bought a big stack of ......Infinite loop. Although I may not be able to use up the paper after buying it, I always feel that something is better than nothing. When I can't use it up at the end of the year, I will resell it to my younger students.

Cosmetics samples

I believe that girls generally like to stock up on cosmetics samples, and we all feel that the quality of cosmetics samples is better than **, which is our general psychology. I prefer to stock up on water emulsion samples, like going out for internships, traveling, and worry-free with such a small bottle. There are also small samples of shampoos, I will also stock up on a little bit, and different brands of shampoo are used in turn.

After washing your hair, you can feel the different fragrances.

Snacks

No one can say no to a snack. For the most senior snack lovers, I will buy some snack gift bags on many holidays, such as Valentine's Day, Spring Festival, 618, Double 11, these holidays, I will think about what snacks to eat several days in advance, and buy them in time when it arrives. Usually tired of studying, eat a small snack for a while and be full of vitality.

Paper pump

As a student party, the most indispensable thing in our lives is toilet paper. It's not a good idea to borrow toilet paper from others in the dorm room, so it's important to stock up on paper. I've seen a survey before

Stockpiling paper is where we feel safe. It can be seen that hoarding paper is the consensus of our contemporary young people. I will also stock up on paper wipes and the like, and it is very necessary to take a pack of wet wipes with me when I go out.

Especially now that the epidemic is not over, it is also necessary to wipe the public parts with wet wipes when going out.

Although hoarding things is the psychology of most of us, we still advocate that everyone should save and properly stock up on what they need at the moment.

1. Rice, flour, eggs.

The first thing to consider is to stock up on rice noodles, rice and noodles are rich in vitamins and proteins, which are the main carbohydrates of the human body and an indispensable part of the diet, so it is necessary to reserve rice noodles, grain and other materials as a reserve for family life. In addition, rice is prone to insects, so it is best to choose vacuum-packed rice and not to stock too much at one time. Just like 5kg-10kg Wuchang rice, it is light, sweet, soft, viscous, fresh in fragrance, and has a long shelf life.

2. Instant noodles.

Instant noodles have no nutritional value, but they have many benefits at critical moments, so you can store 5 10 packets of instant noodles at home in case of trouble. Convenience foods also have a higher fat content, and the fat content of a pack of instant noodles is, so be careful when choosing convenience foods.

3. Ham sausages and canned food.

Ham sausage is the best partner of instant noodles, the main ingredient is chicken, which is high in protein and rich in nutrition. In addition to ham, it is better to buy canned products, canned fruits, canned meat, canned fish. For example, when the infectious disease broke out in 2020, my family hoarded more than 20 cans of Merlin back pot meat, which was considered to have solved the urgent need and made great contributions.

A small bottle of canned food is enough for several meals, and there is no meat for half a month, so there is no need to worry. There are also canned peaches. Because this thing is considered to be the most suitable for the original fruit for both the senses and the taste.

Of course, in terms of food, I liked everything.

Particularly dreamy and cute dolls, craving-quenching snacks, fairy fluttering little skirts, as well as a variety of handbooks, tape, post-it notes, highlighters, gel pens for girls' hearts, and masks with beautiful patterns. Water cups of various capacities.

Snack bar Drinks and snacks are very fond of hoarding, I like to buy a lot at one time and then put them neatly in the cabinet Every time I see a full snack cabinet is really satisfying.

My favorite thing to stock up on is daily necessities, and I'm always afraid that I won't have them when I use them, so I usually prepare a lot of laundry detergent and other products, and I like to clean when I'm fine.