I am afraid of loneliness, but I like the night, and I am afraid of the dark, but I love the night

The tranquility of the night makes people feel lonely, and the quiet night is alone, and it is inevitable that it will seem lonely. However, a quiet person, thinking about things alone, being in a daze, and taking a walk is a kind of enjoyment and self-relaxation. Sometimes I like to be lonely, sometimes I am afraid of being lonely......This is because everyone has their own thoughts, to like something they like, and sometimes they hate it, which is a very normal mental activity.

Loneliness and darkness are both part of an individual's emotional experience, and there is no good or bad thing. For many people, loneliness can be unsettling, while darkness can bring peace and relaxation.

To resolve this emotional conflict, first of all, you can try spending time with family, friends, or pets, attending social events, or joining interest groups so that someone may be there for you. Additionally, you can try some outdoor activities during the day, such as walking, jogging, or cycling, which can help you enjoy the sun and the beauty of nature.

Finally, you can try to find a source of inspiration and creativity in solitude and darkness. You can experiment with art forms such as writing, drawing, or crafts, which can give you a better understanding of your inner emotions.

Remember, whether it's day or night, we can all gain a sense of happiness and satisfaction by interacting with others, maintaining our mental health, creating works of art, and more.

Write them down and face the sea.

In the bustle of the day, you can't really calm down, there are always many voices disturbing you, me, and us, and even thinking becomes extravagant.

The darkness felt as if it was about to be swallowed, and it was so intense that it was overwhelming. However, the tranquility of the night can bring a touch of warmth, even if it is a little lonely at times. I like the night, of course I also envy the light, naturally I also want to shine, fortunately, there is the brightest star in the night sky, the night is not lonely, the night is beautiful, and I am fine.

The night is dark, but it is not dark, at least not to the point where you can't see your fingers. Sometimes, the night is gorgeous, but not as restless as the day, and the night can be hidden, perhaps unscrupulous or dirty, so as to bring some goodness, and he can give some solace to the down. He can also accommodate a lot, including wanton venting, helpless sobbing, etc.

The most important thing is that at night, you can calm down, let you reverie, let you delve into it, even if you think hard and meditate, you can't get an answer, but it gives you the opportunity to sketch a blueprint, which is not given by daytime, and this is enough.

In this fast-paced life, the day seems a little depressing, even if there is a leisurely moment, you can't think quietly like at night. When I leave the hustle and bustle of the day, at night, I am who I really are, I am who I am. It's fun to be your true self.

I love the night, I like to be my true self. Quiet. Collar.

Inspired by it.

In the silence of the night, the bells are ringing.

Some of them curled up in fear and went under the covers.

A small space always gives people an inexplicable sense of security. It feels like no one comes and goes, and there is only oneself in the heavens and the earth. Don't be afraid of ghosts chasing after you, no need to be afraid of someone hiding under the bed.

Lonely. It's not just you in the whole space, you're the only one. It's your heart, where you're alone, talking, judging all.

The book says, "There are some things that can only be done by one person, some things that can only be crossed by one person, and some roads that can only be walked by one person." "Collapsed beard.

Because life is not a vegetable market, not a festival. There weren't so many hilarious shouts, there weren't so many brilliant fireworks.

So sometimes, we like to be alone. Because it makes us feel powerful.

I always say, "Save the weeping for the night, and the sorrow for the bed." ”

Because at this time, you are the only one.

How nice. No one bothered.

Unscrupulously let cowardice run rampant and no longer endure it.

After crying, I felt how powerful I was, and I could solve everything by myself.

Very sad. But don't be afraid. A person is used to it, he is used to being alone, he is used to being alone, he is used to enduring the prejudice of different people against himself.

It's good to endure everything alone, whether it's infamy, blame, whether you do it yourself or not, it's good to bear it alone. Get used to it. Accustomed to being strong.

Although there are all these and that, but they are all gone, and sometimes, I used to be alone, and I am still alone. Don't want to find anyone else.

Say, when you are sad, you need a warm embrace. However, this is just the soft side of yourself. It's not that it can't be opened, it's just that it's opened, and I'm afraid of being seen by others, and I'm afraid that others will see through it.

Friends always say, "You're not alone. ”

False. I am not a person who knows it myself. It's not that you don't want friends, it's just that you can go to difficult places, and you only know if you know. It's not that you abandon your friends, it's just that you're used to being strong.

Say, there's no need to pretend to be strong.

That's right, that's right. It's just that people are different. Things are different. It's just different.

Don't always feel like you're alone.

You have friends, you have everything.

Don't always want to die, because you die, in exchange for the sadness of the people who love you, do you endure?

That's why sometimes we are afraid of being alone.

Because we're afraid of losing.

If you lose too much, you will be afraid.

I don't blame myself.

Ask for your own hardship.

We are afraid of being alone. Because we are afraid of losing the last ties to this world. I want to live again. Life, more than that.

Fear of loneliness, not cowardice.

Fear of loneliness, not fear.

I like to live in groups, but I just want to belong.

I hope that there is a large group in which there is a place for itself.

I hope that my existence, the meaning of existence.

Find a sense of presence, and keep it.

Perhaps, people, that's it.

It's just that complicated, like to contradict yourself.

The spear can't win, the shield can't win.

Finally, I found a fulcrum, and on the fulcrum of the nano square circle, I was trembling and afraid of falling, like walking on thin ice.

Sometimes, we like to be alone, and sometimes, we are afraid of being alone.

Not necessarily. I haven't forgotten anything, but there are some things that are only suitable for collections. ”

Yesterday evening I called my mother ** in the evening, and I learned that my father went out, came back in 3 days, and just left the night before yesterday.

She said: "At noon, your father still called ** and came back, and asked if you had hit **." I asked him what was wrong, and he said, 'I'm afraid you'll be alone.' ’”

He also said that I didn't fight the day before yesterday, and I should have played yesterday. It's just that I didn't fight before him, I was a step later than him. Yesterday she said that, and I listened to it.

My mom has been half-jokingly blaming him for not knowing how to care about people, and when you are sick, he can only blink at you with big eyes and look at you, anxious but don't know what to do; In the past, when I went to get chopsticks during dinner, I would ask "do you want to", and my mother would get angry: Do I use my hands to grab them? When you were in love, I asked him if he wanted to watch a movie about two cents and five, and he would be honest:

I don't watch free movies in the army......

But this man who "doesn't care about people" will be afraid of burying you alone.

Two days ago, I talked to my mother about relationship problems, and I joked with her: "When I really started to experience this myself, I felt that you were not easy, my father didn't care about people so much, and you could still live with him for so many years!" You are so great! ”

She told me, as always, to be tolerant and tolerant. He also told me that my dad often told her how much he appreciated her and how much she appreciated his hardship and honesty.

Now my dad is no longer as immature as Jean Nian, he will hand us the apple first, he doesn't feel distressed when we buy what we like, I used to think that it was a change in a person's behavior to grow and retain a woman's heart and youth, but yesterday I found out that there is nothing in the world to sell scum "give you flowers and give you a smile" love, all the love that we look like no matter how popular and humble it is comes from the deepest and most earnest memory and missing, and this is much more important than the chopsticks handed to you and the movies that spend money.

On Valentine's Day, my mom sneakily asked me, "Did ZC ever give you roses?" "I said no, but I really felt happiness and my mother's happiness.

I envy her. Because from now on, "I'm afraid you'll be alone" has become the most beautiful love story I've ever heard.