What it s like to lose the ability to move your heart

Personally, I think that the loss of the ability to move may be that I have no hope for the relationship, and the frustration of the relationship is very serious in my heart, because there are more feelings in contact, and the frustration is also very large, so the feeling of not being moved may be very bad, and it may also let my perfect feelings slip away from the side.

The loss of mobility means that you have lost everything about the world, the feeling of happiness, because this world is the world of the senses, sometimes when you are hit by something, or when something happens, you will feel that you don't have much nostalgia for this world, and you may lose the ability to move at that time.

In fact, this feeling is very pitiful, others can be moved, you can love others, and you go because of a failed relationship, ruin yourself, so that you will never believe in love again, sometimes you will feel particularly unconfident, will be very inferior.

If you lose the ability to move, you will have a very peaceful experience, because at this time, you are no longer interested in treating anyone and anything, and you feel that there is nothing in this society that can attract you, you have no ability to love, you are not interested in seeing anything, and the feeling of being muddy all day is wasting your time.

I feel that I won't love anymore, I have lost interest in the opposite sex, there is no feeling between men and women, there is no idea at all, I feel that they are all the same people, there is no difference, I have lost confidence in my feelings, I feel that more important things in life are to do, and I directly leave my feelings behind. There is no throbbing in any behavior towards anyone of the opposite sex, and I think that should be a very bad feeling.

If you lose the ability to move, it's a particularly sad feeling. If a person can't have a heart-warming feeling for others in the future, then he will not have love in the future, there is no love, life is incomplete, imperfect possibility, and he will not be able to find his life partner in the future.

Losing the ability to like people, it's not that you won't like people but you won't like people, you know it's not good, and you don't want to change it, you still like it when you see someone you like, but it's just like it in your heart, and you won't take the initiative to say hello, and it's even more impossible to chase it, and it's false to watch others enter in pairs and say that you don't envy them, but if you let yourself live like that, and you're still lazy to move, you want to do something you like, watch yourself get better and better, do whatever you want, and don't have to change for anyone. The life you like, the love you like, if you can't meet the right one, then maintain the status quo.

That is, any behavior towards any person of the opposite sex will not produce throbbing. When I go to school, I feel embarrassed to hold hands with boys, but as I get older, the feeling of heartbeat gradually loses, and the choice of the other half cannot be based on this, which can not be described as a kind of sadness.

I just don't feel interested in anything. When I meet the right person of the opposite sex, I don't feel as impulsive as I once was. I just feel that "well, the conditions are really good, the family has a house and a car, the parents have jobs and pensions, the character looks good, and the appearance is generally good."

And then it was then, and I wasn't so excited, thinking that I finally had someone who could take a fancy to me. I feel that I am mature, and I will not be unusually excited because I have someone who loves me, and my face is flushed, which makes me feel that my blood is swollen. Not even a sexual urge.

After being asked out by the other party, eating or shopping together, it is also familiar with the road to know what the other party is going to say or do in the next second. There are no surprises and they are not so easily moved. I feel that some of the other party's thoughts are under my control.

Inexplicably, I feel a little complacent, maybe because I saw the other party's routine, or maybe because some of the other party's actions are very simple, and at first glance, I am an honest person with no experience. When I first met my husband, I just thought that because I used to be a junior high school classmate, I subconsciously regarded each other as a mature person. He was very nervous, he was sitting upright from beginning to end, I smiled comfortably, he just forced out a smile, for fear that I would see through his panic, and I was afraid that I would be embarrassed.

At that time, I really didn't feel excited to see my husband, but I felt that when I reached the age of marriage, it was time to find a home for myself. So force yourself to accept the other party immediately, try to accept him, or there will be a different ending. But now it seems that the original decision was right, it is really, my husband is very kind, has no scheming, and is as simple as a child.

Indeed, it is also because of his family, full of love and care. So when I got married, I was also surrounded by happiness, because everyone knows how to be grateful and forgive, and don't care about small things. There are ups and downs, but they are also mutual comfort and encouragement.

Even if you lose your heartbeat, it won't make you feel distressed.

After an unsuccessful relationship, it is easy to lose the ability to move. That's about where I'm now. I feel that I will never fall in love with someone else again in this life, and when I think of falling in love, getting married, and having children with someone else in the future, I feel so troublesome and tired.

No matter how beautiful love is in other people's explanations, I don't believe it at all. Really, I stood at the beginning of my twentieth year and looked at the second half of my lonely life.

This sentence is not an exaggeration at all, after ending that relationship, the mood is really low to a few points, and even for a long time there is no effect, there is no energy to do anything, only at night, in the dead of night, will be incomparably situational, and then have to face pain. It feels like life is bleak and there is no hope at all. The girls around me are talking about all kinds of cp, but I don't have any desire in my heart, I'm just stunned.

The night was the hardest, everyone fell asleep, but I was the only one listening to the sound of the world. Whenever I think of the sweetness of the past, it is like a knife stuck in my heart, and tears will flow out unconsciously. I often keep my eyes open until dawn, and I don't even know when it's head.

Watching TV and watching ** Seeing the familiar shots, my heart will always be unconsciously covered with a layer of dust, as if only the pain in my heart can free myself, and I don't know if I am drinking to quench my thirst. I don't want to look at a handsome boy anymore, and even a boy who shows favor is in a state of rejection, and I want to avoid it when I see someone else's sweet silent appearance, as if the whole world has been abandoned by me. But fortunately, I have come out now, but I lack a sense of belonging in the face of feelings.

It's also that the emotional ending of my own experience is too imperfect.,Gradually, because a person has no feelings and thoughts about other members of the opposite sex for a long time.,The feelings that should have passed can't be passed.,The feelings that shouldn't have passed have also passed.,Probably these bits and pieces add up to cause today's untouchable.。

If a person doesn't like another person but wants to be together, it will bring more harm than happiness, how can happiness bloom if he doesn't put his heart on that person? Probably some people will miss out on a lot of good other halves because of their unhappiness, and then continue to be muddy, have been waiting and yearning, but don't know how to rekindle the feeling of heartbeat, that may be lonely and old.

This phenomenon is only temporary, and when you meet someone you like, you will still feel your heart beat again.

I don't think it's that you've lost the ability to move, it's that you haven't met a second person who makes your heart tick in the current days, that's why you think so.

Live alone in the days to come, no matter whether it's good or weird or bad, since it's your own choice, then go on until you meet the one you like.

Get to know more people outside your circle, you will always meet someone who makes you excited, you don't lose the ability to move, it's just that you meet too few people.

You may not have lost the ability to move, but you just didn't wait for the person who made your heart to appear, wait slowly, don't worry, that person will always appear.

You have to believe that you are not losing the ability to move, but you don't dare to take the initiative anymore when you see what you are beating. Don't worry about losing face, don't worry too much, and boldly pursue what you like.

Then you don't love anymore, you just have to be single, and in this world, you don't have to get married and find a other half to live your life.

If you feel that you have lost the ability to be tempted, then look for more things that can make you excited, you just haven't found the things or people that make you excited.

You haven't lost the ability to be excited, it's just that the person you have your heart on hasn't appeared with you until now, and you need to be patient.

Of course, if you want to regain this ability, it is very important to know how to be excited in life, and life will become better.

Adjust your mentality, relax yourself appropriately, and wait slowly, maybe the person who can really make your heart flutter has not yet appeared.

I used to think that I could hold hands with a person for the rest of my life, and then we left separately;

used to toss and turn for a person with tears streaming down her face, but now when I hear her news, I don't have a ripple in my heart.

When I was young, I was paranoid and crazy about my feelings, I loved and hurt deeply; As I got older, I gradually looked away, let go of her hand, and gave her freedom, but she also took away my heart.

After she left, I gradually got used to being alone, eating alone, sleeping alone, playing games alone, and being lonely, as if having one more person in life was a burden.

When I saw this topic on Weibo, I was touched and found that many people's words were said to the heart.

I still believe in love, but I don't feel like it will happen to me anymore.

The coolest time for a girl is when she doesn't have anyone she likes in her heart.

Don't dare to take the initiative, don't dare to be moved, just want to get rich and keep your family safe.

I like to be alone more and more, and enjoy it, and I feel that freedom is precious, and what I lose is often not the ability to like people, but the courage to be together regardless of everything.

When you think that this life has nothing to do with you, you no longer have any expectations.

Later, when I saw the person I liked, I silently said forget it.

When I see someone who is excited again, my first reaction is not joy, but palpitations.

It's enough to know, and forget about it for the rest of your life.

In the past, when I met someone I liked, I thought about it hundreds of times a day, and it didn't matter if I took the initiative countless times. Now when I meet someone I like, I don't even want to find a topic. All abilities are lost when the last person leaves.

At first, it will be sultry, it will start to be routine, and it will begin to appreciate routines. Even if you don't have the heart to do it on a date, it can be enjoyable.

Since then, he has no intention of loving the night, and let him go down to the west building under the bright moon.

You are the south wall that I have hit without hesitation, and it is also the empty joy of my dream.

On the surface, he sees through Hongchen and has no quarrel with the world, but in his heart he longs for the love that touches him.

I used to be sick and pursued love, but now I am sick and I only like money.

I have quietly given you all tenderness, but I have forgotten how to like other people, and there are no surprises and no accidents in life.

When I meet someone I like again, I only feel very sorry to think about it, it's good to meet it a few years ago, which ones are warm to you, happy to you, young and frivolous and unruly are all given to you, and the whole world will be given to you. But you came too late, I have learned to send away the sunset alone, wait for the starlight alone, my love has already become calculating and calculating in countless isolated and helpless divisions, and I can no longer find the purity it once was.

Later, when love was about to come, my first reaction was not to rejoice, but to escape.