What does it feel like to lose the ability to care for others?

It's a very helpless feeling, because I've been hurt, so I'm indifferent to anyone. Even if I meet someone I like, I don't know how to care about her, so I become very cold in his eyes, and I can't be happy.

Feeling like you can't be intimate with others anymore. In fact, I really want to have a good relationship with others, but I'm embarrassed to take this step and I'm embarrassed to take the initiative first.

Over time, he became more and more indifferent to the people around him. It's sad to lose this ability, but I don't know how to change it.

It was very uncomfortable, and it made me very depressed, and I even wondered if I had lost the ability to love. Of course, this may only be a temporary situation. But it also often keeps me awake and keeps me from concentrating.

Occasionally I wonder if I'm doing something wrong.

When others are sad, even if you know why he is sad, there is no way to comfort others, and he will only say dryly, everything will be fine, and other words that have no effect at all, and I want to care about the people I care about but don't know how to care, that is, I have a deep sense of powerlessness in dealing with emotional problems.

It's another manifestation of selfishness. I was shopping with another friend, I didn't want to go and I had to watch the kids, she said it's okay to take the kids, she helped me carry the kids. As a result, it was a day to walk, and the child didn't help me hold it, she chose something to grind and chirp, and didn't want me to hold the child and stand there for almost half an hour.

I once came back from my aunt's house, it was on my dad's motorcycle, and when I was on the road, except for the car accident, I was thrown out of my heart, and when I got up from the ground, I felt like I was not dead, and later, after everything was over, I found that I had lost my opinion of others, or lost the ability to really care about others, and I had been disguising myself.

It's not that you have lost the ability to care for others, but you have become a little indifferent or even numb to the different experiences of many people. Maybe it's because I've been through so much that it doesn't seem as serious as I imagined. In fact, such people are also very miserable, because in their world, there is a lot less sense of perception of others.

Personally, I feel that everyone in the world has the ability to care for others. Whether or not you care for others depends on those people's own wishes. Everyone's thoughts, behaviors, and so on are different.

So, personally, I think they don't want to, not lose. Or maybe there are people who give their love, but no one notices.

There are more than one or two reasons for this, but you must first love yourself, and you can love others only if you love yourself.

I think it's an excuse, it's just that I didn't meet someone better.

Any ability of a person needs to be practiced, and if it is not practiced for a long time, it will slowly degenerate and eventually be lost.

Love first loves.

Start practicing by loving yourself and regain your lost abilities.

If you want to care for others, you must first have love in that person's heart, and now people are always thinking about their own gains and losses, and there are not many people who really want to care for others from the heart, and many people are related to their own reasons, now the gap between the rich and the poor is obvious, many people are working hard for their future every day, they are still too busy to take care of themselves, not to mention caring about others? Even if you see something unangry and sad, you may feel sad for the person who has suffered at the time, but this feeling is only for a moment, it will not last, and that state of mind can only be called pity, not care, and now in society, there are too many people who have been numb to their feelings!! And people who are wealthy themselves, such as those businessmen and celebrities, although they are all claiming that this is for public welfare, what kind of rescue is established, and how many people are not for fame and profit?

Maybe you think I'm thinking a little dark, but I really have to be a villain, and how many of them can really say with a clear conscience, who I really care about?

Just thinking about fame and fortune, how can you have the ability to care for others?