How to make a rebellious child obedient

How do you get a rebellious child to be obedient? Star Awareness Project

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1. Communicate more with children, understand their problems, and solve them in a timely manner;

Second, we should give children the opportunity to show themselves and satisfy their vanity.

Third, we should look at children with an appreciative eye, praise and encourage them more, so that they have a certain sense of achievement, do not scold, scold and complain, but praise and encourage them more.

Fourth, it is necessary to avoid hurting their self-esteem, and not to criticize and blame them with serious language, and to carry out verbal attacks.

Fifth, take care of your children and spend more time with them.

1.If your child is secretly tattooed and you find out, don't scold him, the child is in a rebellious period, and doing so will be counterproductive2If we have a tattoo secretly, what we need to do at this time is to communicate appropriately with the child, such as asking if it hurts.

What does it feel like? Why go for a tattoo? And so on 3

In one is to take the child to find a few adults to get tattoos, listen to their stories 4In one is to tattoo the same tattoo as the child, and then wash the tattoo yourself, show the child every day, it is easy to make a decision, how difficult it is to wash it off, by the way, educate the child, do not make a decision lightly in anything, otherwise the cost of regret is too great 5After communicating with your child, take your child to get your tattoo washed, encourage and encourage your child, and don't let this affect your heart6

Pay more attention to the growth of your child in later life, when you are officially good at this stage, you may sometimes feel cool, it's as simple as that, make an agreement with your child, and when you do anything, think about it yourself, and discuss it with your parents if you can't hold it.

1. Parents should talk to their children on an equal footing. In the face of the baby's vexatiousness, if you forcibly take out the authority of the parents to do things against the child, it will only backfire. It is better to squat down and have an equal dialogue with the child to understand the real demands of the child's heart.

If the baby has a problem that cannot be solved, parents can also help with advice.

2. Appropriate encouragement and recognition of children. Children crave the approval of adults. Even if they're doing something you don't think is right.

You might as well do the opposite, first acknowledging his ideas and practices, and then waiting for him to calm down before expressing your opinion and saying what you think is the right thing to do. That is, a "delaying strategy", giving the child a certain amount of time to calm down, and then recognizing and encouraging him, may receive a different effect.

3. Children will always have some small emotions, some children are good at expressing themselves, and parents can help their children make analysis and give suggestions in the first time. However, some children are introverted and do not like to express things when they encounter them, so they need careful parents who can observe the changes in their children at any time and communicate with their children in a timely manner, and the children will gradually trust their parents. Parents should grasp their children's trust in themselves, make full use of them, and believe that no matter how naughty their children are, they will be obedient in front of their parents.

Children's disobedience brings a lot of trouble to adults, so what should parents do if their children are disobedient? I think there are 5 things you can do to make your child obedient:

1. Don't quarrel with children: Arguing with children will make children have low self-esteem, and also make children have a rebellious heart. After that, the impression of you will get worse and worse.

2. Don't hit the child: Hitting the child will make the child timid and afraid, and the understanding cannot be independent.

3. Correct a good attitude: you are a parent, and you can't let your child be as noisy as you, because in this way, your status in your child's heart will be lower and lower. Without status, children won't listen to you for anything.

4 Give the child more rewards: the child is easy to satisfy, reward the child with a hug or a small toy, the child will be happy to close his mouth, so reward the child in the necessary, but to be appropriate!

5. Properly respond to children's requests: Children may sometimes do things badly, which is basically caused by adults not teaching them well. We also have to consider the requirements of the child, such as playing with the computer, then let the child complete a job, if the child successfully completes, then promise you at that time, because a promise.

When my child was in the second year of junior high school, he began to rebel, his comprehension was often poor, and he couldn't remember formulas, which led to his poor academic performance. Later, he was able to make his mind flexible (Nikola Tesla training), and after learning, he changed the child's bad situation. The child's attention and comprehension have improved, reading is no longer distracted, and the child's academic performance in all subjects has made great progress.

Trust my story may be very helpful to you, may your dreams come true!

Communication with children during the rebellious period mainly includes learning to listen, staying calm when communicating, exchanging roles, respecting children, not making moral evaluations, and finding people that children believe in to enlighten.

1. Learn to listen: In the process of communicating with children, parents should learn to listen, so that children can express bad thoughts, bad emotions and grievances. Give children a certain understanding when they express themselves, and then give them some guidance and help.

Don't rush to give instructions or help that you think will be beneficial to your child, listen patiently, let your child express his emotions freely, and let him feel that you understand and agree with him very much;

2. Keep calm when communicating: In the process of communicating with your child, you must stay calm, avoid communicating with your child in a rigid way, and don't beat and scold your child when you are in a hurry. In addition, parents should communicate with their children when they are calm, and the effect will be better;

3. Swap roles: Parents should understand their children's rebellious psychology in the process of communicating with their children, avoid occupying a dominant position, switch roles with their children, and listen to their children's inner thoughts, including their children's views on adult education. Understand your possible shortcomings through communication and find effective solutions;

4. Respect children and do not make moral evaluations: When children are rebellious, parents should not be too strict. Once the child is rebellious, do not label the child as disobedient, and avoid using such disobedient words to teach the child in the process of communicating with the child.

It is conducive to reducing children's rebellious psychology and achieving effective communication;

5. Find someone who is convincing to enlighten the child: whether it is a girl or a boy, there will be someone who he is happy to talk to. When the child is in a rebellious period and cannot communicate well with the parents, the parents can find someone the child trusts to communicate with him and avoid forcing the child to communicate with the parents.

6z: When a child enters adolescence, if he rebels, parents must make six major changes in time, and the last one is very important!

1.Change your attitude towards your children, tell your children less about the big truths, before the children were small, what you say is what you say, now that you have grown up, you say a word, he will say two words, and the oil and salt will not enter. Therefore, parents should make changes from the bottom of their hearts, really treat their children as friends, and mutual trust is the most important foundation.

2.We need to accept a contradictory child because he has two contradictory psychological demands, he wants to enjoy the care of his parents as a child, and he wants to enjoy the respect of others as an adult. We should respect Him in thought, nurture Him emotionally, and guide Him in behavior.

3.Change the criteria for evaluating your child.

Adolescent children like celebrities, **, hairstyles, shoes, who hasn't had their youth? More understanding and tolerance is more beneficial to children's physical and mental health.

4.Change the content of what we talk to our children, as parents nine out of ten sentences are learning, everywhere is dissatisfied, and it is normal for children to be unwilling to listen to our nagging. Find some topics that your child is interested in, and with a common topic, you can have a better relationship.

5.Adjust our own mental state.

Children are full of vitality, and parents are in mid-life crisis. It's not that your child doesn't understand you, but you may not be able to keep up with the pace of your child's growth, so actively adjust your routine and sleep, and increase exercise. With light in your eyes, you will be a good role model for your children!

The education of rebellious children has attracted much attention from parents, and it is the general consensus of parents to talk back, disobedient, and difficult to communicate, how to educate a rebellious child? Today we're going to talk about it.

1. Understand the rebellious period.

The rebellious period is the psychological transition period that children will inevitably go through in their growth, and there will be such a stage for both boys and girls. The child's rebellious period is divided into: baby rebellious period (2 3) child rebellious period (6 8) adolescent rebellious period (12 18), with the arrival of each rebellious period, the child's mind is more and more independent, and the self-consciousness is more and more intense, so parents should face up to the rebellious period, we must be aware of it, and change the way we get along in time.

2. Learn to be tolerant and understanding.

Due to the different growth environment, the child's behavior and degree of rebellion in the rebellious period are different, as a parent, we should tolerate the child's rebellious emotions and understand the fact that the child has entered the rebellious period.

However, tolerance and understanding does not mean that we should leave it alone, we must see the growth of children, respect children's self-esteem, and do not snoop on children's privacy at will. Learn to let go, believe that your child has the ability to handle things independently, and try your best to support and help your child when he encounters difficulties and failures.

3. Establish a relationship of trust.

Building a trusting relationship with your child is an important way to solve communication difficulties.

1. Talk counts, promise the child not to regret the matter temporarily, even if you don't do it, you must honestly inform the child of the reason to reduce the child's disappointment with us.

2. Grasp the big and let go of the small, don't be too sensitive to everything, without affecting others and not violating moral laws and regulations, some rebellious behaviors that we are not used to can be appropriately tolerated, such as fancy dresses, mavericks, etc., and children will slowly converge after this period.

3. Calm down and give recognition.

No matter what stage the child grows to, he is always comparing with himself, parents should be calm, see the child's shining point, give enough recognition and recognition, explore the child's interests and hobbies, and create more opportunities for him. Children who are accepted, recognized, and recognized will become more confident and trust their parents more.

Fourth, let go of yourself and learn to listen.

In family education, parents' self-awareness is too strong and the desire for control is too strong, which will make us ignore the child's voice, lose sight of the child's real demands, and restrict the child's self-awareness.

Therefore, we need to let go of our egos, put away our desire to control, try to empathize, listen to our children's voices, do not interrupt their speech at will, and do not ignore their ideas. Win the opportunity for your child to open up to you with sincere interaction, and help your child get through the rebellious period smoothly.

How can we make rebellious children obedient? , one is to be reasonable, to be reasonable, to help him accompany, to be a friend to him, and to let him go through the rebellious period of the entire adolescence, and the other is that the strict family discipline is wrong.