What is the difference between those who compare and those who don t?

First of all, there are two situations for people who do not compare, the first situation is that he has already had the second aspect in this regard, his ideological consciousness is relatively high, and most of the people who compare are people who are relatively lacking in this aspect, which is also what we often say will show off what is lacking.

I think the biggest difference between people who compare and people who don't compare is the attitude to life, people who compare are generally more tired in life, because they have to buy a lot of expensive clothes and luxury accessories, and they have to live at this time, he is very tired to be able to afford such a large amount of expenditure, and people who do not compare do not need to pay so much attention to it, they only need to buy those more comfortable clothes, or other daily necessities.

The biggest difference between people who compare and people who don't compare is that the psychology of these two kinds of people is different, people who compare are more concerned about their appearance, and what others think of him, but people who don't compare are more indifferent to fame and fortune, don't fight or grab, and people who compare often live more than human beings who don't compare.

People who love to compare are people with strong vanity. Relatively speaking, people who don't like to compare may live a more chic life, and they live more freely. Because if you love to compare, what others have, you need to have, this is actually very bad, will make yourself very tired.

People who compare are competitive, and this kind of person will do their best in work and life, because they don't want to fall behind others, but this kind of person is also the most prone to go to extremes. On the contrary, people who do not compare are more comfortable and easily satisfied, but they have less motivation to do things.

People who compare will feel that they have a sense of distress everywhere, and always feel that if they are the best one, they will feel that such people will be very tired. People who don't compare may be more likely to be satisfied because of personal reasons and personality reasons, and they will do everything according to their own abilities and conditions.

Therefore, people who compare and people who do not compare will give people two completely different attitudes towards life, and I personally think that what suits me is the best, and it is not bad for people to know how to be satisfied.

I think that people who compare may be more competitive and more sensitive than people who don't, and they will evaluate themselves through the eyes of outsiders rather than through their own inner abundance, while people who don't compare will be more calm and calm.

The people who compare are very tired, and others buy a new bag, buy new clothes, live new shoes, or something. There are those who can't be sour, but it's useless. Those who don't compare just look at it. Then praise your vision is good, whether it suits you or not, and how to dress.

I think people who compare will be very tired, that is, compare everything with others, live very selflessly, blindly follow the trend to do things, people who do not compare must have a good mentality first, and, with their own ideas, they must be assertive people, and they will live very easily.

No matter how the person who compares looks at it, there is a very uncomfortable feeling, because no matter how he disguises it, his thoughts are always biased, and the person who does not compare will make people feel like a spring breeze and have a very comfortable feeling, and the latter will be happier than the former.

Having a comparison to prove that you are still a normal person means that you still have the ambition to change the status quo and are working hard for the future of yourself and your family. Don't feel too much burden if you have this mentality, because ordinary people will have it, but you have to grasp the size, not too much.

The right range of jealousy can speed up making you better, but overthinking jealousy will push you into a situation from which you will never recover, and doing good and evil will be in a year!

People who don't have a little comparison feel like mortals.

There is more than enough to withdraw his hand behind him, and there is no way to turn back.

There are also positive aspects of comparison, such as comparison with those with good academic performance, outstanding work performance, and excellent performance in all aspects, so that a situation will be formed to catch up with and surpass learning. However, the comparison mentioned here does not refer to this positive energy aspect, but more includes the superior, generous, beautiful, fashionable display, comparison and blind pursuit, and the negative energy is more. So, why do people make this comparison?

There are three main reasons:

Winning is caused by a strong personality. Some people are very strong in their bones, and they can't tolerate others being stronger than them, and they can't see others surpassing them, but they are not capable and have insufficient conditions. Therefore, we will do everything possible to create the illusion of being stronger than others in some aspects, so as to form a comparison.

Compare status, treatment, relationship, family, wealth, etc.

Vanity is a haunt. Some people live in other people's worlds and care a lot about what others say and say. In order to cater to the praise of the world, satisfy one's own vanity, and thus form a comparison. Compare clothes, children, appearance, cars, bags, etc.

A little money to back it up. Penniless people want to compare without capital, because they have nothing to compare; Very wealthy people don't need to compare, because they can do whatever they want. Only people who have a little money or have a certain amount of financial ability, and have a strong personality and vanity than the financial ability, will compare.

People who like to compare are often unhappy, because comparison is prone to psychological imbalance, and unbalanced is unhappy. Those with poor conditions feel that they are not as good as others, and they are unhappy; The comparison with good conditions is better, but I still feel that I am not as good as others, and I am not happy. Moreover, the psychology of comparison is very strange, and they often only compare with those who are better than themselves, so they are always unhappy.

In view of this, it is more real, casual, down-to-earth, and better to really "be yourself"! Then go your own way and let others say go.

This is because these people are more vain and desperately want to be recognized by others, so they feel that they are stronger than others by comparing themselves with others, so as to gain inner satisfaction and superiority.

Comparison is defined in psychology as a neutral and slightly negative psychological trait, that is, the mental process by which an individual develops negative emotions when he or she finds that he or she is deviating from the reference individual. Usually the individual who produces the psychology of comparison with the be. Comparison is defined in psychology as a neutral and slightly negative psychological trait, that is, the mental process by which an individual develops negative emotions when he or she finds that he or she is deviating from the reference individual.

There is often a great similarity between the individual who usually produces the psychology of comparison and the individual who is selected as a reference, resulting in an exaggerated need for self-esteem, an increased motivation for vanity, and even extreme psychological disorders and behaviors. According to the different effects produced, the psychology of comparison is divided into positive comparison and negative comparison. Self-identification leads to material comparisonSelf-identification is a very important part of the personality, everyone wants to be smarter than others, or beautiful, or rich, or capable, or have some outstanding performance in some way, and so on.

Comparison generally refers to material comparison, and the self of these people may be dependent on material superiority, but in fact, it also reflects a sense of uncertainty in other aspects other than material. Especially for some people who have lacked family affection in the past, they are prone to material comparison. The theory of "face problem" leads to blind comparison, and the theory of interpersonal relations points out that when people actively participate in social activities, if they pay too much attention to the opinions of others, they tend to strengthen the herd mentality, leading to the emergence of vanity psychology.

The so-called vanity psychology is actually a kind of self-fiction that transcends the objective value of the self, which is manifested in the review stage of the postgraduate entrance examination, which is the unrealistic review goal or the high pursuit of the college and major to be applied for. In Maslow's hierarchy of needs, the need to be respected is a higher level of need, above the needs of physiology, security, friendship, and love. Due to their long-term hard work, many graduate students have a strong need to be respected, and it can be said that a lot of efforts are trying to establish a system of self-esteem and respect for others in order to achieve self-worth.

However, this should be based on a correct and objective analysis of the self, otherwise it will only lead to blind comparison and ignore the comparability itself because of the excessive pursuit of vanity satisfaction.

In fact, if a person always likes to compare with others, in fact, this is a manifestation of psychological inferiority, he feels that he is not good enough, but he wants to be recognized by others, so he always compares with others, and wants others to recognize himself from the depths of his heart, which is often not confident people will behave like this.

Of course, this is also a matter of personal vanity, which means that it has to do with a person's personality and the way of doing things. There should be a relationship, some people may be more vain in their character development in life, so it is relatively easy to compare with others.

Because these people always like to compare, it is because their hearts are not so confident, or they feel that others always look down on them, so they like to compare with others, so that they can find a sense of existence.

This is caused by vanity. Some people do prefer to compare with others, others must have themselves, whether he uses this thing or not, even if he buys it home and becomes an ornament, he always feels that he can't be worse than others.

Because it's vanity at work. There are many such people in this life, who always like to compare themselves with others, and feel as if they are better than others and have reached a state of self-satisfaction. In fact, the psychological defects of such people are still very big.

Because of such a person, he wants to become stronger, so he likes to compare with others, he feels that he is better in this aspect, to increase his self-confidence, in fact, his heart is very fragile, he has no way to get his own sense of security, only through the comparison of his own sense of security.

It may be that she feels that she is better off than others, so he will have a sense of superiority in his heart, and then he wants to compare with those who are worse than him, so that they can get a kind of psychological satisfaction.

Because of jealousy. People who like to compare with others are people who are not satisfied with their current situation and are powerless to change, because they can't change and want to have it, they will be jealous of others, and the more they compare, the more jealous they become.

Hello, people are proud, and some people have stronger self-esteem. So he doesn't like others to be better than him, and wants to be better than others. In fact, it's okay to be yourself. Adjust your mindset.

Some people always like to compare with others, which means that this person's vanity is relatively large, and he does not like to be looked down upon by others, that is, he values his face too much!

Some people always like to compare themselves with others because they are very demanding. I always want to be happier than others, and if I don't have it, I want to get it as soon as possible.

Because some people just like to compare, he will look down on people who are inferior to him, and he will also be jealous of people who are better than him, this is due to his character, people like him are tired of life, and they are also easy to hurt others for their own interests.

In the final analysis, it is because of this person, he is too inferior, and he needs some external conditions to achieve his sense of achievement, so he always likes to compare with others.

This is very normal, other people's lives are better, and your life must generally have a contrast, so while you are here, you will motivate yourself to work hard and do something more beneficial to yourself.

This is very normal, everyone has more or less comparison psychology, this is one of the psychological phenomena of people, some people compare psychology is a little stronger, and some people are to show off.

This is people's vanity, most people will have a comparison mentality, but having a comparison psychology is not necessarily a bad thing to compare with others, it will force themselves to continue to improve.

Some people like to compare with others, which means that they also want to get the same things as others.

It is mainly caused by jealousy, others have what he doesn't, so he likes to compare, your mentality is also not good, everyone should learn to be lenient for their own mentality.

This is how his personality determines his behavior, so he is afraid that others will look down on him, and he always compares others in this way to enhance his self-confidence, in fact, it is because of low self-esteem.

These people may often have a strong sense of vanity, like to compare everything with others, and then want to be better than others in everything, and have a stronger jealousy mentality.

Everyone's thoughts are different, some people like to compete with others whether they are in life or in the workplace, and there is no need to care about how others live their lives.

Because people live with the same face, they all like to compare with each other, compare what they eat, compare what they wear, and they have to compete for the same level. It's all about face. In order to prove that you are doing well.

Presumably, when you see the word "comparison", your first reaction is vanity! Of course, we do not rule out that this is a psychology of vanity. In the eyes of some people, comparison is to maintain their "dignity", people who like to compare are very concerned about their "face", in the eyes of this type of people, "dignity" and "face" are above all else!

Dialectically, vanity can indeed make people impetuous, and even make people do something beyond their ability! Although comparison as a social phenomenon has existed for a long time, it does not mean that all people like to compare, which not only depends on personal values and character, but also depends on personal cultivation, family environment and so on. There are still a lot of low-key people!

As a social atmosphere that is not good, although it is not advocated, it is still positive to look at it in two, so the author believes that it is not necessary to knock it over with a pole! The author believes that comparison can mobilize people's enthusiasm. Comparison, of course, is to compare with people who are better than themselves, which can stimulate people's enthusiasm, stimulate the self-motivation and fighting spirit of people, which should also be regarded as the preferable side of "comparison"!

Of course, the comparison should be within the scope of the ability, and unrealistic comparisons are not recommended!