Does he not want to take responsibility or is he stingy? 60

First of all, you are sad when a loved one dies, and you want the other party to comfort you, of course, it is understandable, and secondly, you say that you have not quarreled before, and you don't know that he is stingy.

Third, his factory is not doing well and he wants to sell cars.

These three reasons come together.

This happened.

Don't just think about the other person's fault, think more about yourself.

It's not that he didn't do enough or violated his bottom line or something.

Don't put too much pressure on the other person.

Don't get cranky because you don't get something in return.

And again, the question is, do you have to make sure that you really love him?

To love him, how far can you go.

If not. It's good to get together and disperse.

Now at this stage, you don't want to be too headstrong and give him some time.

Give yourself a vacation to keep yourself busy.

Don't rely too much on his feelings.

Allow some space and time.

Let each other think about it.

It can only show that he is a little selfish and not very mature, I hope you can tolerate each other, love is to know how to cherish each other, there is no right or wrong in love, only who loves who is a little more.

After listening to your narrative, I don't think there's any need to continue, how can someone who doesn't even care about your grandmother's death be your boyfriend, even ordinary friends have to care about helping, isn't it, if he doesn't get results, forget it, let's liberate ourselves

If grandma dies, he doesn't care about you, and he doesn't care about you anymore, and there is no need to care about people who don't care about you.

Try to communicate with him once, and if it really doesn't work, pull it down.

I agree with both hands what the 3rd floor said. People who love you won't do this to you.

To hell with him!

...Do the task passing by. Landlord: If you like him, let's talk to him later.

Just do what you have in mind.

Wait and see. Men are stingier than women.

It's not a good thing to lie anyway, but he knows you're going to be upset and he should make a long story short, anyway, you're not 100% in his heart, maybe I'm not right.

Bring it up directly to him if you are not satisfied with his approach and see what he has to say. If he really loves you, I think he should and can change it, after all, he did it wrong. If he is annoyed with your dissatisfaction or defends himself, it can only mean that he is cheating on you or that he does not particularly like you, and he will not be happy in the future.

Don't play and believe those remarks that you like and insist on it, the reality is not **, there is not so much persistence. In the end, it is you who regret it, not the person who persuaded you to persevere.

It's really a bit excessive, let's talk to him about it, you have to think about each other when you're together, if you go on like this, you won't be happy.

What else do you want him to do with this kind of man!

A word of advice, take the early kick!

First of all, if nothing else, isn't it ashamed to be a man who earns as much as his own woman?

The one who doesn't want to buy things for you, and is not willing to spend money for you, but he can't always let you pay for him to buy things!

There is also this unclear way of buying things, I don't agree with it!

Do you think you paid for a computer for him, do you count it as yours? Does the phone you paid for him count as yours? Or is he going to pay you back? ~！

If you are responsible for the rent, it can also be said that you are renting this house.

What about the computers you paid for for others?

To be a woman, you have to be smarter, and there is nothing wrong with living a careful life.

Honestly, if you live with your boyfriend, he should pay for your living expenses. If you usually eat expenses, he should pay for it.。。

Now it's up to you to pay.

Also, have you ever calculated how much he paid for the clothes he bought you and how much you paid for the computer you paid for him?

If not, what do you want him to do, he is richer to earn money and spend it himself than with him.

As long as you are not married, it is better to have a lot of money or AA, and you can't say it clearly, and you will often quarrel about this matter in the future, and it is better to distinguish between economy and feelings.

Love is mutual, whether he is good to you is not necessarily the kind of good that is given to you materially, such as being considerate and caring for you. Don't pay too much attention to the details of money, otherwise the distress will affect your relationship. If he's really selfish that's his problem, and if he's still good to you, then don't worry too much, after all, you're lovers, not co-tenants.

From what you see above, although he doesn't take the initiative to buy things for you, as long as you mention that he will still buy it for you, it means that he is still very good to you, living together is like living a life, there is no need to always have surprises, two people who live a life will inevitably be budget-conscious, so the romance will be reduced.

Bear with it!

You've been taken on it, and you won't find happiness in the future!

Weigh it up.

It can't be said that anyone is stingy, it's just that he doesn't want to pay, he thinks that he works hard to make money, but he doesn't think that you are also hard. You're still boyfriend and girlfriend, and you're going to pay for him. What's more, married couples have some clear accounts.

A man who loves you is willing to spend money for you. Whatever. Hehe, the man who loves you will buy you a good one. I won't do it myself. Hehe.

It's better not to tie the economy together if you're not married, because it's easy to turn your face. I believe you have seen your current situation, it's not that you're stingy or your boyfriend is stingy, but that you're not at the point where you have money to spend and save together.

I feel that the two of you can't grow together, it's not a question of who is stingy or not, if two people really love each other, no one will care about so much money, if it's really for money, why be together again? Love is not like this, if you love a person, you have to love all of him, or you don't love, as the first floor said, if you really love, don't care about these, otherwise you will leave

That's not a qualified man.

In fact, you don't have to think about it, you can put it down if you like it, and leave if you don't like it

He must be stingy. I really don't know what life it is.

Your boyfriend has a brain problem, so don't want such a man.

Alas, too, if you really want to live with him, you don't have to worry about it, what's yours isn't his, isn't his what's yours? It's not too clear, this man is really a little stingy, to the end.

If your description is objective, then, I think, first of all, you should talk to this woman, or give her some hints, if she herself realizes it, it will be simple, if she is deliberately provocative, you can talk to your husband, whether it is possible to change the residence. Secondly, you can make unilateral efforts, such as buying groceries and you go with your husband, and then ask her if you want to bring any vegetables, and you come to make breakfast in the morning, so as to reduce their previous intersection to your range. In the end, you basically have to keep loving your husband very much, so that the third party will retreat! Hehe.

Don't give yourself mental hints, the more you think there's something wrong with them, when this program is typed in your head 1,000 times, everything becomes true. Your husband is good to her, you are unhappy, you can communicate, but don't put pressure on your husband, because putting pressure is a hint, he will be disgusted and work against you. If your husband doesn't have that idea for her, the relationship between the two parties will be calm, and it will be embarrassing because of this.

If they are calm, you really don't need to be too persistent and calculating. A generous and tolerant woman is more likely to be appreciated and cared for by men. You can go together to buy groceries for them, be generous, the better you treat that woman, the more ashamed your husband and that woman will be.

Don't punish yourself for someone else's mistakes.

I don't think it's because you're stingy, it's because your husband did a bit too much, and any woman who sees her husband like this will not be acceptable. I don't know much about what kind of person your husband is and how his relationship is with you, so I can't draw too accurate conclusions, but, with a woman's intuition, I can feel that the relationship between your husband and that female colleague is definitely not simple, I think, if you care about your husband very much, you can't always compromise like this, otherwise they will become more and more excessive. You should have a good talk with your husband, if he cares about you, then he must let that female colleague move out, otherwise even if there is nothing now, something will definitely happen in the future.

If your husband chooses that female colleague, then you should make a choice, whether to keep your husband or separate from him, that's your business. You must talk to your husband about the important things at the moment, otherwise you will be sick yourself.

It's definitely not that you're wrong with this thing, and I'm sure any woman who encounters this kind of thing will choose to separate them. Maybe in the eyes of your husband and female colleagues, they don't have anything, but we all live in the eyes of others, it's hard to guarantee that outsiders don't have any ideas, and there is a saying that is good is long-term love, this kind of thing is not something we can stop, what you can do is to take precautions before things happen. Besides, from your words, I feel that the relationship between the two of them has gone beyond the confines of ordinary colleagues, and this is by no means your sensitivity.

You should be resolute, discuss with your husband that you can rent a new place or let the female colleague leave, and carefully explain your reasons to him, and if he does not agree to separate, then you really have to think about what to do in the future. Some things can be compromised, and some things must adhere to principles, always remember to choose what is good for yourself, I hope that your husband and female colleagues are really just a general colleague relationship, and I hope you can be happy.

I think your husband should care about your feelings, a temporary compromise is okay, but long-term depression is not a good thing.

This is a bad sign. You should go out with your husband more, try to use his spare time to get along with you, and don't let him contact this female colleague more after work, I think most of this female colleague likes your husband too.

I can tell you that it's not that you're stingy, but that your husband has a problem.

It's okay, why do you live with three people? And then what you said, it almost made me feel like the two of them were husband and wife.

A little bit. But the most important thing about a gift is the heart. Don't care too much about it.

If he really doesn't have any money, then there's no way, which one do you say is more stingy, 90 out of 100 or 10,000 out of 100.

As for the fact that he found a cheaper **, if the things are the same, it can only mean that he will be careful with his calculations, and he cannot be said to be stingy.

I think such people are much more real than those who have swollen faces and become fat.

If it were me, a ring in my 60s....Don't think it's all fake, I won't buy it.

And how much does he earn? Or a student? Generally speaking, your requirements are not too expensive.

This alone is difficult to judge. Maybe he really doesn't have any money.

Unless you're sure he's rich. That would say he was stingy.

If he really doesn't have any money, he really can't help it.

But at the same time, it depends on how much you choose something. If the average person can accept no. That can also be said to be stingy!

It's quite stingy, more than a hundred rings are not expensive, if you want to be really good, you need to be more expensive, Alipay has no money, you can save money to buy it again, or find someone to pay for it, and then give cash, either he has no money now, or he is a stingy person, and he doesn't plan to buy it for you, just for reference, I hope to adopt

Don't think about the stinginess, your boyfriend is just reluctant to spend money for you, because he feels that it is not worth spending money on you, and he will not marry him, so he is naturally unwilling to waste too much money on you, so you will feel this way

It's hard to say, people always have to grow up I guess he will feel very ashamed in the future, and you don't care too much about it, as long as he loves you.

That's really stingy, if it's me, as long as it's within my ability, I'll buy her what she likes, and the quality can't be bad, after all, it's a birthday commemorative.

Your boyfriend is very interesting, hehe, two people together, don't be defeated by these things.

Maybe he really doesn't have any money.

Actually, it's just mind, don't care so much.

If a man is stingy, then he is not stingy after marriage, did you not find out when you were in love? In fact, if you understand that your man can also let him, there is no rule between husband and wife who must let whom, don't you say? Marriage is not a grave, at least I don't see it that way :

As long as it is "managed" properly, marriage is the legitimate continuation of true love. I have picked up more ** of other women in front of my wife, and my wife has never been angry with me, and I am actually telling her that I have nothing to hide. Come to think of it, doesn't your man mean that?

Trust is the foundation of marriage. I wish you all happiness!

I am a man, it may be a little uncomfortable to answer your question, but I will give you some pointers, China, in the tradition, men have a piece of machismo, at present, most families are according to tradition, the door to the door come together, each other are a little reluctant, if you love him, I believe you will forgive him, if he loves you will quarrel with you, since it is a family, you must learn, understand forgiveness, adjust your mentality, accept those impossible, to go on, one is to change him, the other is to change yourself, otherwise,