What happened to those who didn t divorce for the sake of their children?

There will be no happiness, this marriage only exists because of the children.

Nowadays, many people are not very happy in marriage, just because they have children, so they have not divorced for the sake of their children, but this marriage is just an empty shell, there is no emotion, and there is no warmth, and the only thing that can warm their hearts is children.

In this unhappy marriage, women will be very tired, and they will also be very lost because they do not have the warmth of the family and the care of men. In fact, in a marriage, although a woman wants to divorce, she still has feelings for this marriage, after all, a husband and wife are a hundred days.

Especially now, many people are married on a blind date, or many of them are married because of marriage, and they are not together because of feelings at all. A woman wants to divorce, probably because in this marriage, her husband is not very attentive, has no feelings for his wife, and is not willing to spend too much attention on his wife, so after a long time, she has less and less to say, and she has no feelings. <>

I have a friend who was because the family was too poor, and she met an only child who was eight years older than herself, and the conditions in the family were okay, at that time, it was because the man was more honest, and later got married and had children, but the man liked to listen to his parents, and he never took her as his wife, and always felt that everything was the closest to his parents.

After a long time, the two of them got married and got married, and they didn't cultivate much affection, and then she wanted to divorce, but she was afraid that the child would be hurt, and she was traumatized in the future, and she didn't divorce until now, she said that he and his husband just had no feelings at all, but they were forced to be forced together by the pressure of life.

Marriage is not child's play, you must be sure of marriage and find someone who truly loves you.

My dad and my mom also had a crisis in their relationship, all because my brother and I didn't get divorced. During that time, the relationship between the two people was very stiff, they didn't eat together, they didn't sleep together, and they avoided each other when they met in the morning, and they wouldn't say a word.

But when I came back from a semester of school, the two of us changed, and the relationship was just like that of a newlywed. Maybe they're used to each other, and they cherish each other even more after a fuss. Mom had oil on her mouth, and Dad would wipe it off for Mom, which made me get goosebumps.

However, as long as both of them are well, they can do anything. <>

Uncle and aunt also didn't divorce for their cousin, and now my cousin has graduated from college and started working, and my uncle and aunt are also in the sixtieth year, even if they want to divorce, they can't stand the toss, so it's better to make do with it. The two have not quarreled for a long time, and life is also harmonious and respectful. Maybe life is like this, after experiencing something, you will know what you should keep.

It's better to live than to die, it affects the children, and makes the children resent why we haven't divorced.

It is actually wrong not to divorce for the sake of the children, because if there is an emotional rift in the marital relationship, it is very harmful to oneself, and on the other hand, if the child continues to live in this broken family relationship, it is also a harm to the child's growth, so the conclusion of not divorcing for the sake of the child is a paradox in itself. In today's society, divorce is a very common thing, each of us has to be responsible for our own life, to choose the life we want to live, so when we can find a happier life by ourselves, children will also meet new ones, maybe let's take a look at it in detail. <>

1.Learn to face up to your marriage.

A good married life is a very lucky thing for everyone, but there are also some people whose married life is not so happy, but each of us may encounter an unhappy married life, so when we encounter a marriage that makes us not feel happy, we have the right to choose to leave this bad relationship, then leaving this bad relationship is also a kind of liberation for children. Because when the child lives in a painful family, his own feelings or mental pressure are also very large, so divorce is not only a better decision for the husband and wife, but also a kind of liberation for the child itself.

2.Twisted melons are not sweet.

Sometimes when we see the news of some celebrities' divorces, we may feel very surprised, how can two people who love each other so much get divorced? In fact, everyone will have different changes in different time, environment and conditions, and each of us may have a different view on the original thing as we experience more. <>

So when there is a crack in the marriage of two people, no matter how forced to be together, it will only create more pain, and it is better for us to face and solve the problem than to create more problems.

It's not good, this shows that you have come to the point of divorce, but because of the children so give up this choice, this approach is very unwise, because the two of you are definitely not very harmonious in daily life, and this will pass on the wrong values, outlook on life and marriage to the child, which will have a great impact on the child in the future, so don't use the child as an excuse, and if the child grows up to know that this is the case, he will also blame himself.

This is not necessarily, and if there is no divorce, it will also affect the inner growth of the child, because the two people can't get along at all.

This is not necessarily, it is possible that if you do not divorce, it will also affect the inner growth of the child, because two people cannot get along at all.

Such a behavior virus is a good phenomenon, because it will cause great pressure on the child's heart, and it will also have great harm to the child, and there will be certain problems overall.

<> so-called "for the good of the child" is actually hurting him. Children are very sensitive themselves, and if there is no longer laughter between parents, only appearances, then children will definitely feel it. And in order to help their parents maintain family relationships, they will become cautious, please their parents everywhere, or do some extreme things to attract the attention of their parents, thinking that in this way their parents will continue to be together.

In fact, no one in the family will be happy in this way. Children will have a childhood and adolescence full of uneasiness, and even fear of love and marriage, husband and wife have to endure each other's suffering, rather than this is better to divorce happily, and tell the child openly and honestly about these things, although the parents are not together, but for his love will not be less, and in the future life to give him the same love, to help the child quickly come out of the shadow of the parents' divorce, this is the right approach. Not getting a divorce will only make the child more insecure.

If you don't divorce for the sake of your children, you can't provide a good family environment for your children, and you can't set a correct example for your children. Parents as the child's enlightenment teacher, has a vital role in his life, if you continue to endure for the sake of the child not to divorce, then in the child's mind, the parents are the failure of the marriage, and he will choose the same approach when he encounters the same problem in the future. If parents bravely choose to divorce, regain their own business and even a new family, then they will establish a strong image for their children of "getting back on their feet after falling down", and encourage their children to face any setbacks and difficulties in the future, instead of compromising and becoming slaves of life.

All in all, don't think that it is for the good of whom, only the happiness of your own life is the greatest responsibility for your children, your own life is not happy, and the marriage is not good, how can you say it for the sake of your children? Hopefully, parents in this state of affairs will find this article inspiring.

I think it's definitely not good not to divorce for the sake of the children, because I don't think such a marriage will bring happiness to two people, and it will hurt the children.

If you have children, you can try not to divorce if you don't divorce, divorced children hurt the most, no matter which party is meaningless, there will be less love on one side, and if the child follows that party to regroup the family, I don't know how to treat it, so don't go to divorce as a last resort.

Of course, it is better to divorce with children, so that children can better get a comfortable home, and do not live with such a man at home.

The child sees that the relationship between his parents is not good, and he grows up in a bad environment, and it will be difficult for him to get a good marriage in the future because he is not properly guided. The union of parents is wrong, do not let the mistakes perpetuate, it is better to separate and keep the children away from the wrong relationships. Teach yourself a lesson, and be cautious about your marriage.

Some families have broken down their relationship but insist on marriage for the sake of their children, which is not true. Sooner or later, the child will know the truth. It will be a big blow to them.

In fact, most of them are not allowed by the economy, and now in order to get married and buy a house, it is already a drop in the bucket, many people are still repaying the loan during their marriage, divorce means dividing property, and who takes a large amount of money to give each other.

There are also many pre-marital property, or the real estate is the name of the elderly, and the children must be assigned to study according to the real estate certificate, and the economic ability does not allow it, just like a piece of clothing that is okay, it should be divided into two halves, that is, the clothes are not clothes, the fabric is not the cloth, nothing can be done, both sides will lose, and the stable environment originally planned for the child will be a mess.

Also, since it comes to divorce He Hui and guess marriage, it must be a mess of being hurt by the marriage of the opposite sex, and they are all living in a mess anyway, so it is better to continue walking. The big deal is that going out is a couple, and entering the door is a shared relationship, and all matters are shared equally.

Nowadays, there are many such marriages.

It's all said that it's for the sake of the child, as long as you don't really can't stand it, many people will live their lives for the sake of the child.

No. Because you don't divorce for your children, but when your children grow up, they won't understand you.

In a variety show, the guests discussed, when there is a problem in the marriage, should they not divorce for the sake of their children?

Almost all the guests said no, including Wu Kequn from a single-parent family, he directly said no. When he was a child, his parents often quarreled, and then his mother would say to him, I just don't divorce for you, and he said that when he was a child, he felt so stressed when he heard it, and he wanted them to separate.

It really confirms what Fu Seoul said, those mothers who don't divorce for their children, they sacrifice themselves for their children, but when their children grow up, they will never be understood.

Many times, mothers do not divorce for their children, it is really not self-moving, but from a realistic point of view, such as after the divorce, the children always have to eat and dress, and the money comes from? Live**? How to ensure that the child's living standard does not decline, including going out to work, if the child is still in kindergarten or primary school, what if the child leaves school early?

Moreover, after women get married and have children, because they often focus on their families, their ability to make money is not strong, and it is difficult to protect the material life of their children after divorce. Therefore, some women really choose not to divorce for the sake of their children's lives.

Living for yourself, the mother is happy and the child can be happy, of course these words are very true, but living or being happy for yourself cannot be turned into money, the child's life is still not guaranteed, some mothers with strong motherhood, they have children in their hearts more important than themselves, so they will choose to be patient and not divorce.

Just like Fu Seoul said, talking about this is not to tell mothers to endure and not divorce, but to understand that there are really such mothers, and their starting point is really like this.

1.Afraid that the child will be wronged. In fact, women are afraid that their children will be wronged after they leave, after all, the child that a woman hopes will be beaten and looked down upon.

2. I am afraid that the child will complain about her in the future. If you leave now, the child will complain about her in the future, give him such a life, and even let him suffer, not to mention, his mother will not take him with him, let him endure such suffering, in fact, that mother is willing to leave her child, she doesn't want to.

3. I am afraid that my child will not have enough to eat. When the child is growing tall, how can she selfishly say that she will leave, for fear that he will not be able to eat enough to affect the child who is growing up, so she endured it for the sake of the child, and said that her child should raise it by herself, how to give it to others.

4. I am afraid that the child will not dress well. As a mother, what she can do for her child is to dress him in new clothes, sew and mend for him, and of course she doesn't want her child to be hurt at all.

5. I'm afraid that no one will take care of the child. What women are most afraid of is that when another woman has her own child, she will no longer be able to do it, so what if he is going to be abused, the child is so small, how can he be allowed to bear such harm, no matter how hard and tired the mother is, let her child live well.

6. I am afraid that my child will learn badly. At a young age, it is the time to learn, what if you accidentally learn badly, his future and his future will be bleak, you can't be so selfish, you can not be so selfish, say anything to let the child learn well, become her pride, and be a useful talent for the country and society.

7. I am afraid that my child will not be happy. The unhappiness of the child is the biggest pain in the mother's heart, the child can smile happily and happily by the mother's side, and it is worth paying a lifetime of happiness, after all, it is the meat on his own body, and he wants to make the child happy.

8 Summary: In fact, what women are most afraid of is that the child's life will be unhappy, and it is also the biggest reason why the mother does not divorce, the child is the mother's dependence, and being able to smile at the mother's wrist is the testimony of happiness, and that is the child's most innocent return.