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This kind of quarrel is extremely irresponsible, and it is the most ineffective performance.

What is good to say, impulse is the devil, in fact, both parties quarreled, as long as one side is good to say, there is nothing if you are a man, because you are a man. What's the matter, you endure it, there is a saying that good men don't fight with women, the relationship between husband and wife is not noisy or lively, there are some small contradictions, in fact, everyone should be humble to each other One step is not a problem, there is nothing that can't be passed, noisy and noisy to go to divorce, so it's not worth it,

Why do you really want to get a divorce? Don't you really want to live together anymore? Not really, right?

You don't fight. Quarrels are normal between husband and wife, but it is not right to open and close your mouth and say divorce, it is not a last resort, don't impulsively put the word divorce on your lips, it is easy to hurt the feelings of the other party. You want to leave, but you don't have to leave, think about it, can you really live a better life if you leave?

I don't think so, so, there is nothing big between you, maybe it will be fine in a few days, live well, life is not so simple, you must learn the art of life between husband and wife, mutual understanding, mutual respect, mutual habits, and a happy life will beckon you.

Calm down and think about whether you really want a divorce, if so, why you want a divorce, and why you have to divorce. If not, then it may be an impulse to quarrel, and if there is really a serious reason, then think about it yourself.

It's impossible to talk about such a serious topic as divorce just by arguing a few words, is it that the relationship between husband and wife is not very good, and quarrels are just the beginning of the reason.

It's not enough to just quarrel a few words. It's just angry words in the head. You have to think about it when you're arguing. If you don't really want to divorce, don't talk about divorce, it will hurt the feelings of husband and wife.

If you quarrel a few words and you are going to divorce, your relationship is too weak, if you really leave, it is not caused by your quarrels, or the emotional foundation is not strong, start from the feelings to consolidate the marriage.

In fact, you are just making a small noise, and saying that divorce is just an impulse to blurt out. Don't take it seriously, both of them calm down for a few days and think about it, don't regret it later for the sake of impulsiveness.

Sometimes the cold war hurts more feelings than quarreling and fighting, if you don't want to leave, make an effort to fight for it, whether the two people are suitable for you know best.

I can't think like this, I sometimes quarrel like this, but it's not what I said, it's the one in my family who said it, I didn't answer, and when he was angry, I asked him what if I took over at that time, and he said that he didn't want to, just angry words.

Mom, don't be impulsive, which family doesn't have a time when it's unhappy, it's not even if it's noisy, don't always talk about divorce, it hurts the feelings of husband and wife, in fact, it's not a family after calming down.

I think it's angry talk! Because when they quarrel, they lose their minds, and they don't know what they say! Don't be sad! I think it's better to have fewer quarrels, and the impact on the baby is not good!

Marriage is not child's play, marriage cannot be hasty, divorce cannot be hasty, if you are really divorced, it is recommended that you rationally and calmly think about whether it is really unbearable.

Quarrels are a stumbling block in marriage, and it is better not to quarrel if you don't love him. And she departed. If you love it, you will be wronged a little by her. He coaxes well, and he is a good man if he maintains a good marriage.

Got a baby? If you have children, it is recommended not to be too impulsive, and can you take what you say during a quarrel seriously? Don't just think about divorce.

Marriage is not child's play, people's marriage is really not easy, or don't divorce easily, it will hurt each other.

Husbands and wives get along like this, sometimes they want to divorce when they are angry, but if they really divorce, they will be reluctant.

When you're angry, you're angry, so don't take it seriously, both of you calm down and talk about it in a few days.

After getting married, divorce still has to think twice, and if you have children, you should think more about not being angry, and it is inevitable that the two will quarrel.

Hey, it's okay if the anger is gone, but don't keep talking about this divorce in the future.

It's still a psychological problem, it's just a quarrel, and it's going to get to the point of divorce.

Dear, well, two people quarrel inevitably, endure everything has passed!

Of course, you can't really get divorced, it's not easy for two people to come together.

Feelings are not so fragile, think more about the benefits.

Don't overthink it, calm down.

Calm each other down and let it go.

Of course, I don't really want to divorce, it's just that when I quarrel, people are very impulsive, and sometimes they will say this sentence impulsively. However, although he said this impulsively, it was also very hurtful to the feelings between husband and wife. Therefore, the word "divorce", when the husband and wife quarrel, it can be said to be a relatively high-frequency word, it seems that saying this sentence can be invincible in this quarrel, in fact, it is not the case, it is very cool to say it, but in married life, this sentence cannot be easily said.

In marriage, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts between two people, and at this time, they should have something to say and avoid being angry. When people are irrational, they say things that do not go through the brain at all. Maybe once or twice, it doesn't matter, but everyone has always heard the story of the wolf.

Even if the other party gets tired of it, okay, then divorce. It's too late to regret it then.

Husbands and wives should not be impulsive, angry, or angry when they quarrel. If you release violent language, as long as you can hurt the other party, you will slander a thousand, a hundred times without any scruples. Being able to sit down calmly and communicate well will be more likely to solve problems.

In fact, quarrels hurt the feelings of husband and wife, and what scary words about divorce add fuel to the fire. At such an irrational moment, I believe that no one who says divorce really wants to divorce.

On the contrary, if you really want to divorce, it is when your emotions are very stable and calm, and at this time it is not a matter of will. Therefore, when husband and wife quarrel, they should pay attention to the language of proportion, and some words, such as divorce, should never be said. If you talk too much, both parties may feel that marriage is like child's play.

There are also couples who say divorce when they quarrel, because they can't get over face, and one party insists on divorce. I didn't mean to divorce, but I wanted to divorce against my will, so why bother?

Although it is said that in married life, occasional quarrels can enhance the relationship, but it is better to say less about the words that hurt the feelings, such as divorce.

Maybe there is such an idea, after all, divorce is a relatively serious matter, if there are frequent quarrels, every time you say divorce, one day it will become a reality, so don't say divorce easily in life.

I asked questions many times, and refused to communicate after speaking.

Divorce is mentioned as soon as there is a quarrel, which is really infuriating, and yesterday I was also angry to say divorce because of something I wanted.

I regretted it again, but I was really angry at the time, and I put up with it so many times that I didn't want to put up with it anymore.

Nor are there frequent quarrels. Occasionally once or twice.

It's been more than a year since I asked questions, and I don't have any children.

Quarrels are sometimes just about finding problems and solving them.

Give time for the other party to adapt, and give time for yourself to adapt, and the proper handling of quarrels will enhance the emotional life of your husband and wife, but you must first learn to manage marriage.

The question may be too bland. I think there are some things that can be communicated, but a lot of times they refuse to communicate.

No. When arguing, he always says something angry. When the other party quarrels, he always talks about divorce, just because he is used to saying this, and he doesn't really want to divorce.

When this happens once or twice, it may be on the gas head. But after a long time, it must have been on my lips, and I must have an idea in my heart. If you don't care about it at this time, the consequences may be really divorced.

I didn't really want to leave, but I was very angry and unclear in the situation at that time, so I said this.

I think they wanted a divorce, because if they didn't have that in their minds, they wouldn't have said it.

It is possible that he really wants a divorce, or he may want to use the divorce to put pressure on you to stop the indifferent quarrels.

I understand how you're feeling right now. I don't want to get divorced and quarrel every day, because everyone measures the same thing differently. For example, some couples often quarrel, and they feel uncomfortable if they don't quarrel for a day, and they have thought about divorce countless times, but they can't make a divorce decision for a long time.

Some couples quarrel so much that they can't bear it, and they have no feelings at all, and they may simply choose divorce decisively after a certain quarrel. Divorce is actually a kind of choice, even if the two-bridge type individual quarrels infrequently, they may feel that they can't live it, this is not the life they want, so they choose to give up. Couples who quarrel every day are more and more sensitive to each other because they have developed the habit of quarreling, and they are like hedgehogs that attack when they guess with the stool, always ready to protect themselves by attacking each other.

Although such a couple is very tired of getting along, they may not easily get divorced.

As a woman, you are not good enough for yourself, not loving yourself enough, not being selfish enough. It is recommended that you don't try to control too much initiative over the family, for example, finding a house can be handled by your husband, and letting a man do this kind of thing is also a test for him, and let him experience the hardships of this kind of parasitic fence. If you are not feeling well, don't cook, you can go to the restaurant, it doesn't cost dozens of dollars, it doesn't matter if you eat a meal or two, and you don't eat every day, give yourself more time to rest, as for whether your husband is happy to eat, who care?

He didn't understand you when you dragged your sick body to cook.

Although it was you who provoked the incident this time, it was still wrong for him to hit you, and he was too ruthless, and he was bleeding, and when you tried to fight back after a slap, he continued to beat you! If you forced him to slap him first, the rest is his own will.

If you don't want to divorce, then you have to spend a lot of energy to repair your relationship, if you don't divorce, you can't repair the relationship, just for the sake of the child to maintain a seemingly peaceful life, I'm afraid it will also be a great harm to the child. I hope you will be cold and quiet for a while before making a decision.

You say that you care about him very much, and even lose your dignity, this matter is more serious than divorce, when you love someone, you can love so much that you give your life for him, but you can't give dignity. The dignity paid for love is cheap, and even the people who are paid will not pity you. If there is only one thing left in a person's life, I think that one thing should be dignity.

The ancients said: It is better to demolish ten temples than to demolish one marriage.

This is a university question that has been accumulated over the years, because outsiders don't know what is going on at all, and it is just a one-sided emotional infection, which is not helpful.

If the other party is really so hateful and powerless, the fault is the other party, and he has left a long time ago, and he is at peace of mind, because his heart is contradictory, and he can't tell right from wrong, so he has to ask, and he doesn't know how to choose.

Going back to the original case, why does the wife ask her husband to put a garbage bag, the husband does not want to, and the wife will continue to chatter until the husband comes?

The more unwilling the other party is, the more obvious the transmission of power is, when the wife gives an order and the husband does not respond, at this time, it is not a matter of putting garbage bags, but whether his power can be executed.

Such small things abound in life, and we always try to achieve the satisfaction of a sense of power through accusations, and achieve control through accusations, which is the root of all family conflicts, and the need to cover up in the wrong way that we are embarrassed to speak.

Some couples will talk about "divorce" as soon as they quarrel, and there is another reason, that is, the party who said this lacks a sense of belonging to his marriage, and it is precisely because his heart and his marriage are not together, they feel that such a marriage is dispensable, so they are unscrupulous, thinking that it is a big deal to divorce anyway, it doesn't matter.

In fact, marriage is a major event for two people in their lives, and if there is really one party's heart, it will not be here. Sooner liberation is not necessarily a bad thing. There is no concrete action and just blindly drags on, which is a harm to each other.

The other party is not the person he wants to join hands for a lifetime at all, and he does have plans for divorce in his heart.

Another reason is that he and she in this marriage are not the people they want to join hands for a lifetime at all, and the people who say this are not trying to threaten each other, but they think like this in their hearts, precisely because they do have plans to divorce, but the other half does not agree, and they have no choice but to do so.

The suggestion here is that if you don't plan to divorce, the person in front of you is also the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, so you must control yourself when you quarrel, and don't say the word "divorce" casually, after all, such words are really hurtful, and no matter how deep your feelings are, they will be affected.