How to change the child s surname to the mother s surname, can the child change the mother s surname

Before the friend's house was demolished, my father transferred a sum of demolition money to the friend's account. Since my friend works at a bank, the bank will check the funds in the employee's account from time to time**, and if the employee has an unknown payment, the employee will be investigated. Just detected the friend's demolition money, the superior leader asked the friend about the huge amount of money during the investigation, and the friend explained that it was the money given by the father, but according to the information, the surname of the transferor and the friend was inconsistent.

Originally, he didn't know the money, but now he is incompatible with what his friends said, and the leader decided to investigate deeply.

Later, it turned out to be a friend's family with "a family of three with three surnames" to cause the trouble. It turned out that the friend's father followed the grandmother's surname, but the friend followed the grandfather, and the friend's mother had another surname, so there was a situation where the child's surname did not match the father's, and a situation of "three surnames in a family of three" was formed.

Times are constantly changing, and now more and more families no longer have a strict definition of whose surname their children have, let alone require their children to take their father's surname. Although there is no difference on the surface, children with their mother's surname will have a relatively large adverse impact on their future life and work.

1.Affect life and work.

I still remember one time when I went to do an errand with a household registration book, I found that the person at the next window was actually following my mother's surname, and then the staff felt very strange and asked if the clerk was half-father, but the result was that the clerk was unhappy, saying that he was biological. In fact, many people generally have thoughts about children with their mother's surname, and they still have to explain it at work, and if the explanation is not clear, it will be questioned.

2.Primitive families are suspected.

Although the society is more open now, there are still many people who have doubts about the child's mother's surname, on the one hand, they will associate it with the bad relationship of the parents of the original family, and even think that the child needs to take the mother's surname because of the divorce. If at this time, there is really a problem with the relationship between the child's parents, then it will lead to rumors flying all over the sky. Behind the doubts will attract all kinds of fingers, and in the face of gossip, children's physical and mental health will be affected, which in turn will affect the healthy growth of children.

Therefore, taking the mother's surname is not a good thing.

3.When it comes to inheritance.

Even if it is his own grandson, if the child really takes the mother's surname, in the eyes of the grandparents, the child is likely to be regarded as an outsider, and if there is a problem such as inheritance, it is very likely that there will be disputes because of this surname. On the contrary, a child with the mother's surname will be more popular in the mother's family, after all, the same surname is more affectionate, and if the grandparents have property inheritance, the child may also be given priority. This is also relatively unfair to children who do not have their mother's surname.

Therefore, the child's mother's surname may also lead to family disputes, which is not necessarily a good thing.

With regard to the issue of children changing their surnames after divorce, article 22 of China's Marriage Law stipulates that children may take their father's surname or their mother's surname.

Generally speaking, after the birth of a child, the name is determined by mutual agreement between the parents, so the change of the child's name should also be agreed upon by both parents. After the divorce of the parents, neither parent has the right to change the child's name without authorization. However, if the child is an adult, the views of the adult child should be respected.

If your child is under the age of age and you change your child's last name, if the other party does not agree, you can negotiate a solution. If the negotiation fails, a lawsuit may be filed to claim that the child's surname be restored.

The child may take the mother's surname, but with the father's consent. Only if both parents agree can the child change his or her surname.

According to the laws of our country, the change of name of a citizen shall be handled in accordance with the following provisions:

1. When a person under the age of 18 needs to change his or her name, he/she or his/her parents or adopters shall apply to the household registration authority for change of registration;

2. When a person over the age of 18 needs to change his or her name, he or she shall apply to the household registration authority for change of registration.

Legal basis] Article 1015 of the Civil Code, a natural person shall follow the father's or mother's surname, but in any of the following circumstances, the surname may be chosen in addition to the father's surname and the mother's surname:

1) Select the surnames of other lineal elders' blood relatives;

2) The surname of the person who is chosen because he or she is being supported by a person other than the legal person who is the person who is the legal supporter;

3) There are other legitimate reasons that do not violate public order and good customs.

The surnames of natural persons belonging to ethnic minorities may be subject to the cultural traditions and customs of their own ethnic groups.

Legal Analysis: Generally speaking, the change of mother's surname to the mother's surname should be reported to the household registration authority by the head of the household or herself.

Legal basis: Regulations of the People's Republic of China on Household Registration Article 17 When the content of household registration needs to be changed or corrected, the head of the household or himself shall report to the household registration authority; The household registration authority shall make changes or corrections after verifying the facts.

When the household registration authority deems it necessary, it may request proof of change or correction from the applicant.

Clause. 1. It is a custom in our country for children to follow the man's surname.

Although the law does not stipulate that children must take the man's surname, it is a custom in our country that children are born with the man's surname.

The public we are in contact with, the people around us, and the neighbors are normally born with the man's surname, which has always been customary, and everyone is used to it.

The wife suddenly asks the child to take her surname one day, which will make people unacceptable for a while, which is unreasonable! Changing the surname involves the emotional problems of the family, whether the child's grandparents and the husband agree.

Therefore, the two parties should sit down and communicate well to solve the problem. If the man agrees, then the child can take his wife's surname, and if the man strongly disagrees, then the wife must also listen to the man's opinion.

Because it is logical for the wife to obey her husband in the matter of changing the child's surname, it is contrary to common sense to ask the husband to obey his wife.

Clause. 2. Under special circumstances, you may consider changing your surname.

There are also cases of children changing their surnames in life. For example: the son-in-law who comes to the door, the child follows the woman's surname, although the man is not happy, but it is really helpless.

The husband and wife divorce, the child is supported by the woman, and the child is changed to a woman.

The father and wife had multiple children, and after discussion, some of the children took the woman's surname.

Special circumstances can be dealt with in special cases.

Clause. 3. The wife strongly asks the child to change the surname and does not listen to the husband's opinion, which will affect the relationship between the husband and wife.

The name is a code name, and the law does not stipulate which party the child must follow, so since the wife strongly asked the child to follow her surname, the husband agreed to solve it.

But then again, since a name is just a symbol, why does the wife insist that the child change her surname regardless of customs? This begs the question, is it a whim or a fashion?

The husband should communicate well with his wife, understand his wife's psychological appeals, and patiently do his wife's ideological work.

Communication is the key to problem solving. For the sake of family harmony, the wife still follows the customs and habits of the child in changing the surname and understands her husband more.

If the wife really wants to have children with her surname, then the best solution for both spouses is to have at least two children, one with the man's surname and one with the woman's surname, so that the problem will be solved.

In short, the child's surname with the man's surname is determined by customs and culture, and the wife must understand her husband more, not insist on going her own way, and communicate and solve everything, otherwise it will affect the relationship between the husband and wife.