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Parents should lead by example. In order for children not to lie, parents must first be honest. Teaching by example is better than words.
A child's mind is like a blank sheet of paper, drawing or dyeing in any color, and parents are the first teachers, the first soul engineers. The role model of parents is the infinite power to educate children to be honest.
It is necessary to observe carefully and grasp the subtleties. As parents, you should care about every detail of your children, be good at observing their words and behaviors, ask them about their learning and life, understand how they get along with their classmates, observe the flaws of lying, grasp the truth in time, and educate their children in a targeted manner.
We must adhere to the educational method of patient persuasion. Most of the reasons why children lie are caused by the word "fear", and in order to educate children not to lie, it is necessary to adopt positive guidance education methods. Don't put forward too high requirements for your child, because if your child can't meet the requirements, he is afraid of losing face or losing money, and he is prone to lying.
If your child is caught lying, don't scold him. Rough parenting methods can only encourage children to lie. So, in a sense, some children are forced by their parents to lie.
Only by persisting in the method of patient persuasion and education can we get rid of the problem of children lying.
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From the first time you lie, you have to deal with it severely, blame, punish it or something like that, teach your child to be honest and confess your mistakes, but you will be appreciated by your parents, not blamed. That's what my family did, and once the kid lied, and I didn't let him eat lunch.
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You must let young children lie unsuccessfully, and naturally prevent young children from lying.
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Lying for the first time must be treated harshly and taught to be honest.
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1. Listen to children's voices, and parents learn to control their emotions. When children encounter problems or make mistakes, parents should first treat them with a normal heart: there is no child who does not make mistakes, and children in early childhood and childhood have not reached the level of violating the bottom line, everything is in time.
Parents use a tactful and gentle tone to understand the problem, and face the problem and solve the problem with the child, instead of standing on the opposite side of the child, implying accusations, madness, and venting their unhappy emotions at that time. Take your child's mistakes as an opportunity to have a deep conversation with your child.
2. Parents learn to apologize. No man is born wise or learned. No one can say for sure that they will never make a mistake.
Children make mistakes, and the responsibility lies with the parents. Maybe it's because parents run away from things, give up, and shirk in their daily lives, so that their children can see it in their eyes and keep it in their hearts.
Parents should lower their stature and face the mistake of the sum key. Especially what happens with the child, if it is wrong, it should be admitted that to set an example for the child, what kind of person parents want their children to become, they must first make themselves what kind of person they become.
3. Do a good job and encourage appropriately, and learn lessons if you don't do well. The ultimate goal of education is, of course, for children to grow up more healthily and healthily, and not to be affected by negative factors in the process of personality formation. So educating children, changing children, and helping children is our real goal, and punishment is not.
When children make mistakes and lie, don't rush to think about how to discipline them, as parents, we should analyze problems with our children, learn lessons, and not make repeated mistakes, which is the key. Of course, when the child behaves well, it is also necessary to encourage the child appropriately, so that the future study and life will be more motivated.
Children are picky eaters is a common phenomenon, parents should match the recipes, do not eat a food in a row, otherwise the child will be annoyed, for the child does not like to eat food, you can break it, so that he can eat but can not see, as long as he is not nauseated, it means that he just psychologically does not love, not allergies, in addition to the things that do not like to eat, let him eat less at first, slowly increase the amount, let him gradually like the taste, do not force to encourage, and do not use quid pro quo or use authority to scare the child, Let the child enjoy a variety of foods pleasantly.
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