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Anonymous users2024-02-11There is a saying: teach your son in front of you and teach your wife behind your back. What to do when your mother has a conflict with her wife, you can criticize your wife quietly, and tell her that respecting the elderly is respecting you (this can be said in person and behind your back).
But behind the scenes, you have to do your wife's job, don't hesitate to bow down to accompany your wife, and tell her what you are struggling with. I believe that your wife will also understand you, slowly change yourself, and create less conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10I understand how you're feeling right now. My husband and my mother have a complete falling out, and it depends on whether your husband is willing to sincerely apologize to your mother, because no matter what, it's not right for him to quarrel with your mother. in order to prevent your husband from being influenced by his mother again in the future , it is recommended that you try not to contact or move around with his family .
It depends on whether your husband is willing to sincerely apologize to your mother, because no matter what, he is not right to fight with your mother. in order to prevent your husband, a mother-in-law man, from being influenced by his mother in the future , it is recommended that you try not to contact or walk around with his family .
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Summary. What should I do if my husband has a conflict with his mother?
Hello, glad to have a question for you. In fact, this is similar to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and you play a very big role in the middle. You have to stand on your feet, and you have to be tactful and don't help your relatives.
When a family is together, it is inevitable to stumble, and we have quarrels with our parents, but if it is solved, the family can still be happy and harmonious. What is the specific reason for the contradiction, is it convenient to talk to my husband?
My mother is very protective, and when I talk to my husband or argue, he will help me, and my husband feels that he is an outsider.
My husband is very cautious and delicate, and always hopes that my mother can be nicer to him.
It's just a lot of requirements.
He wanted me to help him with my mom.
This is particularly normal, in fact, there is nothing wrong with returning oak on both sides. The teacher also has a daughter, and if the teacher's daughter is wronged outside, I will also be sad. It is in a mother's nature to protect her daughter.
Your husband is not completely out of the ordinary, his personality is more sensitive and delicate, and if you are both unanimous with the outside world, he will feel particularly unbelonging. I will feel sad in my heart, and after a long time, I will be angry and resentful.
Do you live together?
The teacher can feel that you are in the middle, and you should be helpless and uncomfortable.
The teacher saw that you didn't reply, and the teacher suggested that you talk to your mother, and try not to interfere with your quarrel, your quarrel is your business, and it will be complicated if your parents get involved. Husband, you comfort him more, after all, the old man, we have to respect, and talk to your husband, if you have something, you can say it in private, don't Jian Liangxiao quarrel in front of his parents. You have to find a balance on both sides.
Usually when my husband provokes me, I will make a big noise and cry, and he will ignore me, and after crying and arguing, I will not talk to him and ignore him, and he will come to tease me, talk to me, and not admit his mistake. In the past, I could not talk to him for a long time, but now he comes back from work to hold the baby, and the baby deliberately talks to me, hey, as soon as I answer his words, this anger will not be able to regenerate. View the original post
The perception of the passers-by: 1) It is best not to be under one roof if there are conditions - far fragrant, near smell, many contradictions are caused by the collision of trivial family trivialities and cultural quality and living habits, so stay away (it doesn't have to be far away, it doesn't matter if you are in the same community or the same house or even the same unit). 2) Do a good job of duplicity and communication bridge - the mother loves her son, but the daughter-in-law "takes away" her love, which is somewhat unhappy, if the daughter-in-law does not have the considerate son as the mother-in-law imagined, it will be a thorn; After all, the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are two generations, and there must be conflicts in many aspects, plus some of the advice made by the mother-in-law as a past person will also be regarded as finding fault by the daughter-in-law, so the son must say in front of the daughter-in-law The mother-in-law said some good things about the daughter-in-law; Say in front of your mother The daughter-in-law said some good things about her mother-in-law, and as for the bad ones, don't pass on the bad things, and use your own words to say the bad things of both parties, because they will not hold a grudge against their son or husband. >>>More
The first floor is very comprehensive, and if you can do these points well, your family will be very harmonious. >>>More
It's very simple, eat at home at noon, and spend time outside in the afternoon and evening.
I think this matter, your mother is right, if your mother has no complaints about her daughter-in-law, then you should behave well in front of your wife, make your wife satisfied, don't do it for your mother in front of your wife for the time being, this will only anger your wife, your mother may be that kind of person, not the kind of person who is super careful. Your mother-in-law's behavior is not proper, and when they say bad things about your mother in the future, you don't want to, don't defend it, they won't be interesting to talk about it. As the children get older, your wife may forget what your mother-in-law did at the time, and now try not to pretend not to hear. >>>More