What did the elders say that you think makes sense now?

You have to study hard and study hard, studying hard is the only way out for our family, and only by studying hard can you learn things and have a good job in society.

My grandma said that you must find a boy you like, even if he is good to you, you must like it to be together, otherwise it will only hurt yourself.

My mom said to me that when you become a mom one day, you'll understand why I'm saying this to you, and I'm not lying to you.

Do not drink water from strangers, and do not take anything that strangers give. Because my classmate once accepted something from a stranger, and as a result, he had to compensate for being cheated, really, don't accept anything from a stranger.

An elder once said to me, when you grow up, you will know that this society is actually very dark and bumpy, not as beautiful and peaceful as you imagined.

You have to brush your teeth well and don't eat sugar every day, otherwise there will be tooth decay in the future, I always don't want to brush my teeth, and now there are several tooth decays.

You don't often soak in water to eat is not good for your stomach, so you will have stomach pain after eating too much, but I didn't listen to it but I have a serious stomach problem right now.

You don't want to fall in love now, when you grow up, you will know why your parents don't agree with you to fall in love now, early love is very hard.

My father, who had never read a book, told me that in summer there are always long days and short nights, and in winter there are always long nights and long days.

My mother told me not to engage in long-distance relationships with others, and many, many people did not achieve positive results in the end, but later I realized that it was right.

As far as I know, listening to the elders is a very important and rewarding act, because the elders have a long life experience and wisdom and know how to face life's challenges better than us young people.

First of all, listening to the advice of our elders can help us avoid detours. Most of the elders have been in a similar situation as we are, they have made mistakes and learned from them. If we can follow their advice, we can avoid detours and never make the same mistakes again.

Second, listening to our elders can help us mature faster. The elders have more life experiences than we do and have brought us up, and they understand our strengths and weaknesses better. If we can listen to their advice and try to understand what they mean, we can not only increase our knowledge, but also improve our life wisdom and mature faster.

In addition, listening to elders can also strengthen family relationships. In modern society, family members often have little time together, and even if there is a gathering, it may just be to discuss the present. However, listening to our elders can help us understand their thinking patterns, values, family culture, and relationships with friends and relatives that will support and help us when we encounter and face problems in society in the future.

Of course, not all elders' advice must be followed. Sometimes their advice is outdated or not suitable for our lifestyle. It is necessary to accept the advice of the elders with an open mind, and also to find a balance between following the advice and thinking independently.

In summary, our elders play a very important role in our growth, they have rich life experience, endless love and support, their views and opinions deserve our respect and listening, and listening to the opinions of our elders is an indispensable part of our growth path.

Many elders like to lecture others every day, they think that they are elders who have experienced a lot of things, and their views on things are correct, and these young people will not do things, and the elders also like to use their own experience to teach others to do things, but these experiences can no longer be used.

Elders like to preach because they have a sense of age superiority.

Elders like to preach to others, and they feel that what they say is right. Elders rely on their age and seniority, so they can casually preach and criticize others, because even if he says it, others dare not refute it, because he is an elder and he is old. So he slowly developed such a bad habit, and he himself felt that it was very good, but in the eyes of others, he had no choice but to endure it, and he couldn't disrespect his elders, just listen to it himself, and he wouldn't take it seriously.

Very to the elders think that they have experienced a lot of things, so some of the ways they say about some things are also correct, and they have to let those young people do things according to their own words, but young people have their own methods and plans, so they often contradict each other because of the disagreement of views, and in the end it is often the end of the young man who contradicts the elder who gives him experience, and often complains that the young man is disobedient, so the young man is very rare.

Some of the lessons given by the elders are not so useful now.

Many elders just like to give all kinds of advice to young people, saying that they should get married at twenty, and if they don't get married, no one should want them, the sooner they get married, the better, others don't listen to what they say, they will get angry and lose their temper, and finally they quarrel, many of the elders' experience is outdated, and they are not suitable for the current society at all, so we must listen to the opinions of the elders appropriately.

The elders like to preach to others for the good of these young people, but many experiences are no longer applicable to this society, and they will still speak these experiences, as juniors, they only need to listen to it, and there is no need to take it seriously.

The words of the elders sometimes make sense, but sometimes they don't. Whether it makes sense or not has nothing to do with whether it is an elder or not. Some elders do not do their jobs properly and say some crooked and evil things every day, of course, it is unreasonable.

But there are many times when the old man's words are quite reasonable, because he is older, has experienced a lot of things, and has a lot of experience, so what he often says makes sense.

Sometimes it also makes sense because they have eaten more salt than you have ever eaten.

In fact, there are many people who feel that what the old people say has a certain amount of truth, after all, as the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you。Some old people have some words to say, the purpose is to avoid us to repeat the mistakes of the past, let us take fewer detours, some pits we don't step on, don't hit the south wall, but some people just don't listen, and in the end they can only think that they are unlucky.

What a person says can actually reflect to a certain extent the road he has traveled, the losses he has suffered, the people he has met, and his cultivation。Just imagine, those old people have done a lot of things on the road of life, experienced a lot of things, there are some truths, he got them in practice and verification, and the words he said actually have a certain meaning for life reference, so we will sound like there is a certain amount of truth. People who have personally walked through or even experienced and experienced and felt will pay more attention to and even pay more attention to how to avoid and remind future generations not to make such mistakes, but those who are not afraid of tigers are often not taken seriously.

For me, as long as what the old people say makes sense, I am still very willing to listen to it and learn from it。After all, people have summed up a paragraph with what they have experienced for most of their lives or even in their lives, let us avoid suffering losses or being deceived, why don't we be happy. Instead of spending time reading books or even spending money to listen to some expert lectures, it is better to listen to some of the experiences that people have summed up after they have walked on the road of life, which will bring us more gains.

Of course, when we listen to the opinions of these people, we must learn and apply them lively, and we cannot copy them。Because everyone's life path is different, everyone's life journey is also different, and the times will also change in different environments and different societies, into the city, some are indeed not necessarily applicable, but we must modify appropriately, and then let their principles into our thinking, so that is the most correct.

Some of what the old people say is reasonable, some are unreasonable, and they can't be generalized, I personally think that there are a lot of reasons for what the old people say, but we should look at it according to our actual situation, and we should take the essence and remove the dross.

What the old people said is very reasonable, after all, they have experienced a lot of life than us, and they are also very experienced.

I think there is a certain truth in what I say, and these are the experiences of the old people, so we must listen to the old people more when we encounter things.

1) Throw the missing tooth on the roof or under the bed.

When we were children, we must have experienced a period of tooth replacement, where teeth fell out automatically in order to grow new teeth. The elders in the family will ask if it is the upper or lower teeth. If it is in the upper row, the child will be taken to the side of the bed and thrown under the bed; If it's in the lower row, you'll throw the lost teeth on the roof!

It is said that if you do this, your teeth will grow out neatly. The elders will say this, in fact, the intention of comfort is greater, and I hope that the child will not be sad because of this. In fact, after the tooth is lost, remember to check for other unusual conditions first

For example, bleeding does not stop, there is a foreign body in the tooth, and so on. The second is that usually the brother prepares the stove in the morning and brushes his teeth late, and he should brush it clean to ensure that there is no food residue between his teeth. In this way, the teeth will definitely remain in a "beautiful" state!

2) Nibble on the fish bones and draw a fish pattern in the cup.

When I was a child, I would be extra careful if I ate fish. If a fish bone is accidentally bitten, the elder will pick up the cup and fill it with water, then hold the bottom of the cup with three fingers, draw a fish pattern in the filled cup with chopsticks, and then slowly let the child drink the whole cup of water. Strangely, if the situation is not very serious, you will gradually stop feeling the presence of fish bones in your mouth.

When I grew up, I found that these are actually psychological effects. It is recommended that if you bite the fish bones, do not blindly believe in the soil method, if the situation is too serious or has not improved for a long time, do not hesitate to consult a professional doctor immediately!

3) Do not eat eggs before the test.

I believe most people have heard it when they were young: "Before the exam, you can't eat eggs, otherwise you will get zero eggs in the exam!" The elders would say this because both eggs and zero eggs have a relationship with the word "egg".

In fact, they also wish the children a smooth exam! Eggs can not only provide the protein that the body needs, but also refresh the mind and enhance memory. The most important thing is not to eat greasy food before the exam, and try to eat as light as possible to avoid stomach pain affecting the exam.

When you take the exam, relax and envy, and usually prepare for your homework, so you won't be afraid of doing too badly!

4) After eating, do not leave the rice grains on the plate.

When many people are young, if the elders of the family see that the child has finished eating, but there are some uneaten grains left on the plate, they will start to say: "When you grow up, your wife and husband will have such a grain on their faces!" It means that when the child grows up, the other half of the child will have something similar to pimples on his face.

In fact, the elders will say this, and the biggest intention is to hope that the children will not waste food. As the saying goes: "Who knows that Chinese food on the plate, every grain is fortunate."

From an early age, we must know how to cherish food and cultivate the virtue of not wasting food.