There is a new saying of marrying a wife in the countryside, and the truth is also very down to ea

There is a new saying of "marrying a wife" in the countryside, and the truth is also very down-to-earth, how much do you know? It is widely believed that it is difficult for rural boys to get a wife, so some new proverbs called "marry a wife" have been created. These great truths, expressed in humorous language, are catchy and well-founded, but they also vividly reflect the reality of the countryside.

New proverb 1: There are too few girls, and the village is full of bachelors. Economic development has brought about a large number of migrations.

Many young men and women from rural areas are concentrated in cities. In addition to the elderly, children also remained in the village. More and more people are going out, but fewer and fewer are returning to the villages.

Young girls in rural areas, in particular, rarely return to their villages, making the family of a patriarchal family with a desire for their children to inherit the family tree become an old flame of son-based marriage.

New Saying 2: The need for marriage is increasing day by day. If you want a car, you need a house!

The level of economic development in different regions is not the same, so the standard configuration when getting married is also different. In the last century, it was mainly the "big three", but in modern times the "big three" have long been outdated. Even the bride price money is not just the original "single-minded", "two families together", "three families together", but suddenly entered the level of 100,000 or even hundreds of thousands of bride price.

Although the peasants gradually became richer, it was difficult for them to cope with such large expenses in the face of marriage, which led to "marital poverty".

New proverb 3: Three promotions, three twos, do not move. This proverb about marrying a wife is popular in southwestern Shandong Province.

"Three" is the favorite number of Shandong people. From the past "three hundred and eight, three marriages" to the current "three catties and three taels, motionless", this reflects the qualitative leap in the growth of the engagement fee, from 10,000 yuan to 100,000 yuan. In the past, it was said that "31,000 8, three families in one" meant that the bride price was more than 30,000 yuan, and the mother's family, the mother's family, and the newlyweds all earned money together.

But now, after the "thirty-one thousand-eight" year, it has become "three kilograms and three taels".

I don't know much, and most of them show the difficulty of marrying a daughter-in-law, and the bride price required is relatively expensive, and there is no way to afford it.

Three catties and three taels, motionless, thousands of purples and thousands of reds and greens, motionless, these proverbs are very realistic.

These are some of the things about the bride price being more expensive, expressing that people are under more pressure and that it is more difficult to marry a daughter-in-law.

1. Wax snow is like a quilt, and the spring snow freezes to death.

This is a saying about the weather in agriculture, which expresses what kind of weather can be used for planting, and the impact of snow and spring snow on crops.

2. I'd rather lose money than give up the house to the south.

This proverb means that even if you don't have money, you can't let the building location to the south of the house be lost, which is enough to see how important it is for the farmers to see the house facing south.

3. A small broken house in front of the big house, crying every three years.

In the countryside, this proverb is about some warnings in front of the door, in the eyes of the old farmer, the house should not only be built solidly, but also in accordance with the situation, for example, "there is a broken house in front of the door" is not good in the eyes of the old farmer! The reason is that the broken house has not been inhabited for a long time, and it is dilapidated, and it is easy to bring trouble to yourself in front of the door, and even more so, there is a ruin of the family, which means that it is not good!

4. The chickens fight forward, and the pheasants do not fly by themselves.

In the countryside, people who feed chickens know that if they want to drive out their chickens, they will only circle around the house by fighting, but as soon as you show up with foreign pheasants, they will leave on their own.

5. Pet the dog on the stove, and the pet son is not filial.

Parents should teach their children the correct values and principles of life, and should not be too spoiled and indulgent.

6. Water and fertilizer should be in the month, and the compost should be heated.

This proverb says that the amount of water and fertilizer should be sufficient, and it should be managed for a period of time; And the compost is like the above to heat up and ferment, so that the effect will be better when used, if you use it directly, it will burn the seedlings.

7. Eight mature ten percent harvest, ten mature two percent lost.

It refers to the best time to harvest crops such as rice and wheat. Eight mature, ten percent harvest is to say that rice, wheat and other crops are ripe to eight achievements can be harvested, and can be harvested, meaning no loss, ten mature, two percent loss is to say that rice, wheat and other crops are ripe to ten percent when harvesting, because after the plant is ripe, its shell will open, the fruit will fall off, at this time the harvest is naturally greatly reduced.

8. Jujube persimmon half a year of grain, not afraid of famine.

This saying says that if you plant more dates and persimmons at home, you will not be afraid of famine, especially in the past, many arid lands, you can't grow food, it's still good to plant fruit trees, and you're not afraid of drought, you can also eat it as food, and it's very easy to store.

Rural classic sayings:

1. Acquaintances are all over the world, and there are a few people who know each other.

2. There is no tree that cannot be sawn, and there is no bell that cannot be ringed.

3. Don't be jealous of money, don't be jealous of food, don't be jealous of life, don't be jealous of death.

4. Turning petrification into gold, people's hearts are still insufficient.

5. Talking about heroes, the family gradually retreated.

6. Refuse to go on a sunny day, just wait for the rain to shower.

1. Good men do not compete for wealth and property, and good women do not compete for marriage.

2. The bold ride the dragon and the tiger, and the timid ride the cat and the rabbit.

3. The rich do not know how to use the new, and it is difficult to change the old family style when they are poor.

4. The house leak has been rained for many years, and the boat has encountered a head wind.

5. Only for the gentleman to watch the door, not for the villain.

6. The mountains are high and the water is long, and the spirit is strong.

7. People don't understand the past and the present, and horses and cattle are like shirts.

8. Cats and mice sleep differently, and tigers and deer do not walk in different ways.

9. Have the heart to burn incense, no matter morning or evening.

10. One good can't cover a hundred ugliness, and a hundred good can't cover an ugly.

As long as you remember one of these five sayings, you will be inexhaustible for a lifetime!

First, no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. When you are poor, no one knows you even in the downtown area, and when you are rich and prosperous, even if you hide in the deep mountains and old forests, there will be people from afar who come to recognize your relatives. Another meaning of this sentence is that face and dignity are not given by others, but earned by oneself, and if you want others to afford it, you must fight for it first.

Similarly, this sentence is also a very accurate description of the warmth and coldness of people in the world.

Second, no matter how poor you are, you don't sell your dogs, and no matter how hungry you are, you don't slaughter cattle on farmland. No matter how poor you are, you can't sell your dogs, and no matter how hungry you are, you can't slaughter cattle that plough the land. This sentence has two meanings, the first is that we should adhere to the principles of life and work, have a bottom line, and not only focus on the present and lose greater interests, and the second is that even if the future life is unsatisfactory, we cannot betray the people who have shared weal and sorrow together and even helped them for some interests.

3. If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you. It often comes from the mouth of the elderly in the countryside, but nothing should be fulfilled. The lessons learned from the past are all valuable experiences, which fully prove that the elderly in rural areas have rich experience in life and production.

This sentence can also be understood as saying that when you stick to your own point of view and do things, you should also listen to the advice of others, and you may be able to avoid detours.

Fourth, if one stitch is not repaired, ten stitches are difficult to sew. Obviously, the hole can be mended with one stitch but it is not mended, and it is difficult to sew ten stitches until the gap on the clothes is getting bigger and bigger. Another meaning is that everything should be done in moderation, and if you make mistakes, you must admit your mistakes in advance and make up for them, rather than blindly making mistakes and regretting them too late.

This is like a person's life, if you take the wrong path, you must recognize the mistake in advance and correct it in time, don't go all the way to the dark.

Fifth, the heart of harming others is indispensable, and the heart of preventing others is indispensable. You can't think of harmful people, but it's not like you're not on your guard. As the saying goes, "people's hearts are unpredictable, and the sea is unpredictable", although you don't want to harm others, it doesn't mean that everyone thinks the same as yourself.

Usually farmers use this sentence to educate future generations, and the hidden meaning is that in the future life, whether it is a person or a work, you must leave a way back for yourself.

Whether you are a farmer or a worker, even if you are a rich man worth tens of millions, as long as you remember one of these five rural proverbs and understand it thoroughly, you will be inexhaustible for a lifetime!

This winter, the wheat covers the three-layer quilt, and sleeps on the pillow buns next year.

One person does not enter the temple, and the other does not look at the well.

The son is not ugly to the mother, and the dog is not poor at home.

A stick in the spring, a meal in the autumn.

Winter ploughing is one inch deeper, and it is stronger than more manure.

1. I'd rather lift shoes for a gentleman than share wealth with a villain.

Needless to say, everyone must understand that this sentence is a pro-gentleman and a far villain, and this sentence feels very right, which involves the bottom line of being a man.

2. In winter, thunder rings, and nine out of ten bullpens are empty.

The literal meaning of this sentence is that if there is thunder in the winter, it will be miserable, and the cold will almost freeze all the cattle to death. This sentence also has the effect of predicting the weather, so that farmers can prepare in advance when there is thunder.

3. If you don't stand up at thirty, you will be tired until you are old.

This sentence is more common in ancient times, and the consciousness is that if you don't have a son by the age of thirty, then you should be ready to die of exhaustion. The reason is that the life expectancy of ancient people was generally short, if you give birth to a son late, wait until you are old and your son is still a minor, can you not be tired? But even in modern times, I think it makes sense.

4. One spin is good, two spins are bad, and three spins die quickly.

"Spin" is the vortex above the head, the average person has only one spin on the head, a few people have two spins, everyone generally says that the children of the two spins are bad, and the people who spin the three spins have not seen it, but this statement is feudal superstition, and it is best not to believe it.

5. One bucket is poor, two buckets are rich, and three buckets and four buckets open pawnshops.

This is related to palmistry, ancient palmistry believes that if the number of buckets in the finger lines is more, the richer it is, if there is only one, it is poorer, if there is no bucket, it is abject poverty.

6. Diligent wear is not new, and diligent is not close.

This sentence is to say that the clothes will become old if they are worn too often, and if the relatives come and go too often, it will cause all kinds of conflicts, and they will not kiss. This sentence also makes a lot of sense.

7. One generation of relatives, two representatives, and three generations of contempt.

This sentence is to say that the relationship between relatives is far and near, if the first generation such as brothers and sisters is still very close, the second generation is a little farther away, if it is further away, it is almost like an ordinary stranger.

8. It is better to give people a stop mourning than to give people a pair.

The meaning of this sentence is that in the countryside, it is better to give the house to someone else to put the coffin than to live in the husband and wife, which also belongs to feudal superstition, but the reason is unknown.

9. If you have money, you don't buy riverside land, and if you have money, you don't marry a living man's wife.

The first half of this sentence is to say that the land by the river cannot be bought, because if there is a flood, it will be washed away by the water, and then your money will be lost. And the second half of this sentence means in ancient times that you can't marry those divorced women, because it will provoke right and wrong, but it's not appropriate now, divorce is common for everyone now, and marrying a divorced woman is not a big deal.

10. If you can't eat poorly, you can't wear poor, and if you can't calculate, you're poor.

This sentence is to say that a person's poverty is not caused by being too casual about food and clothing, but because he does not know how to calculate and plan for the future. This also makes perfect sense.

I am shallow in my knowledge, and I can only know a little bit about it.

As the rural saying goes, every sentence is reasonable, and the classics will never go out of style.