What do I have to do to make myself look up to myself

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If you look down on yourself because you are very unlucky, have no money, no girlfriend, and no one looks down on you, I don't think it's necessary, as long as you are working hard, you have a chance, I'll tell you a story about the Japanese, the instant noodle king, this person is engaged in financial bankruptcy, and loses money in clothing, but he is not discouraged, but keeps looking for direction, and finally he finds that it is very troublesome to be single or office workers to eat, so he tried to make a semi-finished noodle that can be easily processed and eaten, and he succeeded.

So I tell you, if you don't succeed now, it's not that you don't have the ability, but that you haven't found the way to success, just like getting lost in the wilderness, simply lying down and crying can only wait for death, you have to find a way to go on, of course, you must also have the wisdom to turn back in time when you encounter a dead end, so that you can succeed in the end.

Many people will ask such questions, it depends on your attitude towards yourself, in fact, people are originally divided into three, six, nine and so on, I think I am the best of the three rotten, so I am very happy, I have money, 800 yuan a month, I live, live in a single apartment, have a car, a bicycle, have love, even if she is not the most beautiful, but it is my favorite, I eat well, sleep well ......I have everything that others have. And I have a happy heart, even if I look old.

I remember coming home late one night because the company was working overtime, and I kept complaining because it was overtime without money and necessary, and I had a fight with my girlfriend during ......the dayI remember complaining all the time on the way home, scolding myself for being incompetent and ......incompetentIn an alley where I was about to get to the door of my house, I met a man who was in front of me who was in a hurry, and when I went around it, I found that he had a wooden stick in his hand, with buckets on both sides, and he was a blind man. So I helped him lead the way, and I learned that he wasn't blind and was working as a manager in a private company. Later, after a cold and fever, I couldn't see anything, and now I work in a massage parlor, and my wife has divorced him, I have always listened to his tone, and I didn't complain about anything, I was happy to thank me......

I think that people actually don't look at themselves because of how much pressure they put on themselves, and I don't know why I would say this to you, in fact, I think it's good to put a little pressure on yourself, that is, to give yourself a goal that you can do, and you don't need to think too much about anything.

Two words for you:

It's good to think about what you can do, and then do whatever you can.

First of all, it is necessary to regain self-confidence, and it is difficult for a person without self-confidence not to have an inferiority complex. Then give full play to your strengths, break down the success into small segments that can be achieved, make breakthroughs, and slowly you will regain the confidence you want.

Be self-reliant! Give yourself a goal and work hard to achieve it, and then you will be able to look up to yourself!

Say in the mirror: I look up to you!

Give yourself some confidence and believe in yourself that you are the best.

Do your best to do what you have to do.

Do something you've never dared to do before.

"Know yourself" is an instinct just like the body digests it when we drink a glass of water. First, understanding yourself is not something that you take for granted and don't require effort on your part.

Second, it's never easy to know yourself, and the difficulty you want to know yourself is essentially the same as trying to get to know someone else.

Third, "yourself" is also constantly growing and changing, so you also need to constantly and permanently change your perception of yourself and refresh your cognition. If you don't even look down on yourself, then how can you expect others to look up to you, it's the same as if you don't even love yourself, how can others love you! Therefore, if you want others to value and respect you, you must stand up for yourself.

A person who stands up is not easy to be defeated by others, so that he can improve himself and win the respect of others. At this time, in addition to knowing how to deeply analyze and correct yourself, you can also learn some high-quality things from others, and then learn from others' strengths to make up for your own shortcomings. Such people are good at learning and discovering, reflecting, and growing, and it is easy to win the respect of others.

In fact, only by accepting yourself as you are, regardless of your strengths and weaknesses, will you like yourself, and you will feel good if you like yourself.

I haven't come across something that I look down on or can't live without, but I can describe some examples of others for you.

There are many people who, after going through the ordeal, come to realize the importance of what they once looked down upon. For example, some people used to look down on their family background and think that they could not change their origins, but as time goes on, more people begin to value their family background and believe that it represents a life experience and education, so as to gain more self-confidence and identity.

In addition, some people used to look down on their physical fitness and thought that exercise and health were not important, but after experiencing illness and physical discomfort, they began to pay attention to the importance of exercise and health, pay attention to diet and exercise, and advocate a healthy lifestyle.

At the same time, there are also many people who once looked down on certain skills or occupations, and felt that those jobs were low-quality and low-grade, and were not worth doing, but in the context of changes in the job market and the occupational environment, these people began to realize that those despised jobs are also an important force to support the operation of the whole society, and gradually changed their concepts.

In short, we should learn to respect everyone and everything, and not jump to conclusions about anything because we may not really understand their context and value. Only by remaining humble and open can we get along better with this diverse world.

There is a good saying, if you look up to yourself, others will look up to you.

Some people have a low evaluation of their own ability or quality, look down on themselves, and worry about losing the respect of others because of their own unsatisfactory objective conditions, or because of past setbacks, actual failures, and lack of due positive social evaluation and expectations.

Many people do not see or rarely see their own strengths and strengths, and always look up to others while looking down on themselves, often comparing the strengths and strengths of others with their own shortcomings and shortcomings. Look down on yourself, don't like yourself, don't tolerate yourself, blindly complain, blame, hate, and deny yourself. I feel that I am inferior to others in appearance, personality, ability, and family background, and I am inferior everywhere, so I have no confidence in study, life, and work, underestimate the favorable conditions, and overestimate the difficulties, so I am depressed and upset, and I hope to succeed in doing things, but I don't expect to succeed, lack of courage, indecisiveness, can't play normally, and repeatedly miss opportunities.

In addition to giving up on themselves, some people get by, and they also show excessive self-esteem and vanity in order to cover up their inferiority, and they can't handle interpersonal relationships well.

You know, there are always people in this world who are better looking, younger than you, smarter than you, and richer than you, but no one can replace you.

Everyone has their own goals and responsibilities in life, no matter how poor their own conditions are, do not be ashamed of themselves, cowering, but strive to improve the shortcomings, develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses, and must believe that they can also be worthy of the great responsibility and succeed.

Therefore, even if others look down on you, you must look down on yourself.

In this world, there are many glamorous people, who are sunny, confident, and have a sense of superiority. Walk to **, will be sparkling.

Some people put their position very low, and Sakura is not a people-pleasing personality. I always feel that I am inferior to others, and my position in my heart is low, low to the bones. I always feel that I am inferior to others in everything, I give priority to others in everything I do, and everything is good for others, and I don't want to offend people or reject people.

Why is this so? At the end of the day, it's your own problem. I didn't put myself in the right place.

There is a story: a boy with no shoes to wear, wearing tattered clothes, walked to the photo studio and wanted to take pictures, and his mother said, we don't have decent clothes, don't take pictures yet. But the little boy said, "I have a big smile."

Mentality is very important, maybe I don't have anything, but with a good mentality, at least I will be comfortable.

In fact, if you want others to look up to you, you have to mention yourself first. Walk with your chest high and raise your head, and speak without being humble or arrogant. At least these two things can be done.

Next, keep suggesting to yourself that I'm not worse than others and that everyone is the same. Encourage yourself every day to keep yourself strong and confident.

You are a sign of lack of self-confidence.

First: If you don't have self-confidence, what do you have to do if you're afraid? There is no quantitative change, and there is absolutely no qualitative change.

I used to be a relatively introverted person, and the counseling room also published a counseling report. "It is precisely because you have a gap with others now that you dare to rush is not an impulse but an action! Above!

That's what my teacher left me.

Second: Without self-confidence, it is necessary to be well prepared. When Jiang Nanchun was running for the sophomore year, he was still panicked, but because he memorized it a month ago. So although my mind is blank when I come to power, it will be better to play subconsciously alone.

Third: If you don't have self-confidence and your level is relatively low, you will talk less and do more and listen more, which will not be easy to expose yourself. Many people panicked when they saw customers, so they tried their best to break the atmosphere of the scene, and as a result, they exposed all the pounds and vehicles they had.

On the contrary, when doing business, you should ask more questions and listen more, and when you hear any paragraph, you will come to praise, and when people are happy, the more they will talk, and if they are cool, it will be called "familiar at first sight".

In fact, people often say they are happy at first sight in the shopping mall, and we often pretend to be happy even though we are not happy. After listening to the key points, I said: "Sir, your sentence is too classic, can you allow me to remember it!" , After remembering, I have to add a classic sentence: "I'm sorry I interrupted you just now, but what about later?" ”

Fourth: The upstairs speaks very well, and if you are not confident, you will learn to be a person and do things. We often say that small companies do things, and big companies do things.

What you do is to have a good attitude, that is, to do a little more, so that others feel that there is nothing wrong with being stupid, it is a blessing to suffer, the more you do and the more you see, the faster you will grow, and the boss and colleagues like it. To be a man is to have a good heart, to guard against others can be a little, but not to harm people's hearts, to have desires to know how to restrain themselves, a successful person is to rationally know how to manage their desires.

There are three stages of career: the first is the learning stage, you are now, then come on; The second is the experience stage, when pride is avoided. The third stage is the popularity stage. It's good that you're humble, keep up the good work. It's hard to be popular, and it's hard not to succeed.

Fifth: If you are not confident, you will ask people for advice, which not only shortens the distance with people, but also learns a lot of things. But remember not to be too sensitive.

It's normal for people to hit you when they don't treat you well, you can't take it too seriously. If you go too far to the heart, you will explain that "your skin is not thick enough" and you need to continue to cultivate. If you see it through, you are shy and look down on yourself, and you are hurting yourself.

Think about your own things, rush forward rationally, don't be afraid of anything you encounter, see the tricks, train yourself to be brave, courageous, rational, and "thick", then you will be amazing.

Sixth: When you are not confident, don't set too long-term goals with yourself, set small goals in stages, give yourself a reward when you achieve it, and constantly encourage yourself.

To do the above, the shorter the time, the better, rushing is the best way!