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I myself have a very simple practice of life and death: every day when I go to bed, I think, "If I fall asleep today, I won't get up again tomorrow." If you think about it this way, you can sleep well, because when you think that tomorrow there will be nothing to disturb me, you will let go of all the sorrows of today, and even all the sorrows of the past, and you will not have any worries about the world, and you will not think that someone owes me 10,000 yuan, and I will take a taxi to ask him for 10,000 yuan, and what will I do when I come back with 10,000 yuan?
I'm going to die tomorrow, so lie down and rest in peace! Tomorrow we may die, and our death is like sleep. Someone thinks:
Tomorrow will die, so it's too negative! "I won't be negative, wake up tomorrow, open my eyes and get up quickly, because I'm not dead yet, and I still have one day to live. If we cherish every day and know that life is impermanent, we will not contradict our parents, put love in one day, we will not quarrel with our relatives, and we will cherish being with our children and colleagues.
If a colleague you hated sat next to you and thought that you might leave the world tomorrow, you wouldn't hate him so much. If you think that you have a long time to be a colleague with him, you will hate it. If you make a visualization of life and death every day, there is nothing to hate, so that you can sleep well every day and wake up the next day full of energy.
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Doing what you like to do, listening to the warm **, going out for a walk, and looking at the scenery of life is also a comfortable and happy way. Go out with friends and exchange friendships. People, once they are idle, will think a lot of things wildly, which will complicate what they think.
So you have to get busy, keep it simple, and live well...
The days cannot always be sunny, there are ups and downs, sorrows and sorrows, depression and loneliness, and life is colorful.
It is impossible for a person to be happy all the time in his life, to forget his troubles and sorrows, to forget his bitterness and frustration, to forget yesterday, to forget himself, and to forget his fragile feelings.
I wish you happiness and joy in life, joy and joy (*
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Is your school a closed school?
Don't you have so many fun friends? Or the boy or girl you look forward to every day, or even the one you have in mind.
Very few students will be under great pressure because they do not study well, in addition to what you can study well, that is, whether you can arrange them reasonably and make full use of them in your extracurricular life
Are you unable to find something to do for you, or something you enjoy? Many things don't come to you on their own initiative, but need you to go to them.
In this case, you should try to have friendly interactions with your classmates, not only now, but also in the future, interpersonal relationships are very important, in case one day you need someone to help you, and you can't think of anyone who can help you, then your road is really difficult.
I used to have a lot of friends when I was in school, but I didn't have any female friends, and I hardly talked to girls at that time, and now I regret it a lot, and if you go on like this now, then I think you will regret it like me in the future. Don't run away from reality, or you'll run away more in the future. If you can try to change your troubles now, then you will solve more of your troubles in the future, otherwise, although you won't see the person you are upset about, your heart will be troubled.
You can't stay at home, can you?You'd also love to have a lot of good friends to play with. Isn't it?
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You should be a more introverted person.,The main reason should be your lack of communication with people.,You should have to communicate with people a lot.,Usually chat with everyone a lot when you're fine.,Just kidding.,If classmates and friends accidentally say something wrong.,Don't take it to heart.,Have a tolerant heart.,Mature said:The prime minister can weigh the boat in his belly.。。。
If you want to open a little bit, be happy, it'll be fine, do what you do, and I'm sure you'll be able to change yourself.
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Find your own space and do what you think is happy! Going to school is a must! Don't watch more martial arts**! Something like that! It's okay to buy Xiaolin and take a look!
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If you don't go to school because you're having trouble with someone in your class and don't have good friends. I don't think it's worth it, studying has nothing to do with this, as long as you study hard and get good grades, you won't care about these things. If you don't want to learn, you feel like you can't learn.
Then don't go to school. Wasting your parents' money.
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There are no good friends to go to. Would you be happy if you found a very close friend?
There is no interest to cultivate. If you found a hobby that you liked, would you be willing to reach out?
It's inevitable to get into trouble with your classmates. Because you don't understand each other!
If you go to school and you try to accept them, so that they change their perception of you, will you get friends? Will you get a lot of interest from friends? If you don't go to school, will those friends and your interests come?
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Think about your future, think about your family.
The main thing is that you have to think about your future. It's not realistic not to go to school. In fact, the years of studying have really passed quickly.
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Do what you love.
Go crazy with your friends.
Shopping. Go karaoke.
Or watch a fun TV show and so on.
Do something meaningful.
Distract from the things that once made you unhappy.
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I'm the same, but I always have to face it, I won't run away from it for the rest of my life, and I try to adapt to the new environment.
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If we can't change the world, try to change ourselves.
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It's better not to go on it, sorry for you.
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The pressure is given by yourself, and others can't help you.
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College is about to start.
I don't want to go to school either, hehe.
I want to keep playing.
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One of the most important things in life: happiness.
Internally, this is an explanation of one's own life, and everyone only has this short life; Externally, a truly happy person is always the most attractive person to others, without exception.
So no matter what, you should strive to be a truly happy person.
Life is full of pressures and responsibilities, but it is not a reason to hinder your happiness, it depends on whether you know how to debug a peaceful world for yourself. Of course, if you are free from stress and responsibility and pursue happiness, then the happiness you get will be short-lived, and then it will bring more suffering.
It can be seen that the secret of happiness lies in debugging, adjusting, and adjusting, no less than whose responsibility is lighter and whose pressure is less.
Happiness is a state of the heart, in any bad environment, can still shine, in turn, a person who is worried in the heart, always waiting to have the conditions for happiness, even if it waits, it still feels insufficient.
How can I make myself happier? Four suggestions that are best kept in mind!
1. If you can't change, don't struggle.
No matter what happens, you must always accept and accept what has happened, and since it has happened, the more you struggle and the more you suffer, the more painful it will be. It's like accidentally falling into a swamp, and the more you struggle, the deeper you will fall. 2. Live in the present and not be afraid of tomorrow.
Life needs to be prepared for a rainy day, but we can't worry about the sky for nothing, be too cranky, and always fall into endless panic, worry and anxiety today because of tomorrow that has not yet happened.
All the content is thought up by oneself, no one is sure whether it can happen or not, even if it will happen on time, it should be full of courage to overcome obstacles.
You should live in the moment, even if you live in the moment, grasp what you can grasp in the moment, and never let things that no one can say affect you. Accept what happens, and welcome the good and the bad, because it is not worth it to bring distractions to yourself because of unnecessary things.
The reason why you are anxious is because you think too much, and you feel more and more hopeless and boring in life. 3. Take care of yourself and don't ask others.
You are not a savior, don't always think about saving others, when you want to save someone, have you ever thought that that person does not need your salvation, and the so-called salvation is only what you think you are.
Now that there is a lot of pressure in society, many young people who have just entered the society are overwhelmed, how can they make themselves happier.
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