How do I choose between love and work now15

Do you think it's easy to find someone you don't want to leave? Or is it easy to find a job that you don't want to give up? You can only choose one or the other, which one are you more willing to give up?

There are many things that you still have to go back to ask yourself, and what others say is always the judgment of others based on their own experience, not yours, and it may not be suitable for you.

The key is whether you love this man more or love your existing work and life more. This is the test that life has for you, and it is also the test that love has for you.

You say that if you can't find a good job in Shanghai, you will also be under a lot of pressure, first of all, you must be clear about who is giving you pressure, how he behaves when you are not working, whether you will be unhappy because you spend money, whether you will take the initiative to give you money to spend, whether you will not complain that you can't find a good job, these can measure whether you are with this person's conditions.

In general, there are many things in the world that are inseparable, and you have to believe that if he really leaves you very painful and can't live, then he will naturally consider going back to his hometown with you, and he doesn't agree, which means that he can still live without you. Wasn't he the same person before you went to Shanghai?

Life depends not only on feelings, but also on the economic foundation, you have to think about how long it will take to buy a house in Shanghai and settle down on his terms, and in this time, do you have the confidence to go through with him, even if you are willing, he is willing to do it.

I suggest that you always retain your dignity, your work determines your dignity, a woman without dignity is with a man, he will not cherish you, and even dislike you one day, this is a common problem of many phoenix men, if you don't know the words of the phoenix man, you can search the Internet.

Since you have the idea of leaving him, leave resolutely, because this idea will take root in your heart until it grows into a big tree, don't leave secretly, go with the light, talk to him about your plan and future, if his plan does not take you into account at all, you will never have to take care of him again.

It depends, I support you to go!

Select a job. The 160-year-old Ken Ben can't protect you, and you miss you.

Is the baby also short after it comes out?

The reality is that if there is a choice, there must be a choice. If you want to get love, you have to give up a job with good conditions.

Make your own choice

If it's really hard for you to find a job in Shanghai, then it's better to go back, after all, being able to support yourself is the most important thing, and sometimes there is always too much helplessness in the world.

Either you stay or you go.