How do I choose between family and love? Confused and ask for help

Alas, I can understand your suffering, you don't want to give up, in fact, you also vaguely found that she doesn't love you, but you don't want to think like that, just say that she loves you, but friends, get married, it's not that you love her, there are many things in the future, your parents will be hurt a lot in your wrong marriage, because they love you, they don't want you to be hurt, they have to accommodate your girlfriend and her parents in life, I don't think it's okay to be inappropriate. But if you marry someone who has no moral character, you can't choose, whether he is tall or poor, you can't choose, this is choosing, how to live the rest of your life, you must think clearly. It's too late to get married.

It's too late to have children. Think about it, long pain is better than short pain.

Take care of your family first, and don't be too high-profile with your girlfriend first. When the time comes, introduce her to your family. When necessary, you have to remember that family affection is love. After all, without your parents, you wouldn't have met her.

Brother, it's not a matter of affection and love, if I were you, I would have kicked her a long time ago.

She just looks at you stupidly, and honestly, I hate this kind of person the most.

This is your first love, and I am reluctant to give you two sentences: What is first love? No matter how unsuitable and unreliable that object you look back on after a few years, when you are in it, you feel that he or she is the only right person in the world, and you will grow old together and enter the same coffin.

Our perception of love starts from the first love, when we were only one half of love, relying on the other half, and dared to make the most absurd and beautiful fantasies about love. It is only when the other half suddenly disappears, that we have to force ourselves to grow a significant other half that supports us in order to heal--- painfully and tangled through the process, and then become a complete individual who can truly face love...

Think about it and get lucky!!

I want to know the strength of your love, if you are sure that she loves you, you can marry her, if you doubt that she loves you, think about it, you should feel your love most clearly, don't be sorry for your family and don't be sorry for yourself.

You're watching for a while, and you're still like this, and you're going to break up, and then you're going to get married or divorced, and your mother can see that she loves you very much, and I believe that your mother is a good mother-in-law.

First love is basically bitter, and I personally feel that she is not suitable for you. You can tell what kind of personality she is by her parents.

Want to ask, do you like the feeling of being with her? Listen to your parents, your fate hasn't arrived yet.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, if you don't see it clearly and think clearly before marriage, there will be a lot of troubles after marriage. Now you seem to be very accommodating to her, and slowly she will take it for granted (maybe it is now), and you are reluctant just because you are used to being together, and you haven't seen each other for four years, and now you have been together for a year, there is a certain freshness. It can be seen that you are also a filial son and can think about your parents, so you also have to think about how she and your parents get along if you get married, and if you don't get along well, it will be difficult for you to be caught in the middle.

Your girlfriend is 156 and you are 178, and there is indeed a bit of a difference in height, but it's not a big deal. In short, you have to make the final decision yourself, others have no right and cannot decide for you, don't regret it. I wish you to find happiness!

Love is the most selfish; Friendship is the most precious; Family affection is the most selfless.

Love, friendship, and a family affection will surely make your tree of life green and lush, whether it is in the sun or in the wind and rain, you can shine with a kind of glory that is read.

Family affection is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth, and love is a kind of purity.

Family affection is a kind of sunshine bathing without conditions and without asking for returns; Friendship is a vast and grand embankment of understanding that can be inhabited at any time; Love, on the other hand, is a kind of mysterious and boundless soul that can make songs forgetful and tearful.

In life, it is a pity that family, friendship, and love are missing; The lack of two of the three is really pitiful; If you lack all three, you will live like you will die! "Experiencing the depth of family affection, appreciating the breadth of friendship, and having the purity of love, such a life can be called a veritable life.

The reason why you feel that love and family affection can only let you choose one is because you have not handled the relationship between the two. Family affection cannot replace love, and love cannot replace family affection, blood is thicker than water, and it is about family affection.

It is possible to give up everything, including life, for the sake of the beloved. It's about love, and love makes life full of color and vitality.

You must think about handling the relationship between these two well, I think if you don't handle it well, you can only make a choice, whether it is family or love, you are also difficult to choose.

The right thing to do is to use blood thicker than water to mediate the relationship between your lover and your family.

In the same way, love is used to regulate the relationship between the lover and the family, and when the relationship between the two is harmonious, it will be you who will benefit.

Otherwise, whatever you choose will be painful.

Love and affection ...

Love is acquired.

Family affection is innate.

Innate things can't be forgotten.

You can do without the acquired things.