Work and love, how do I choose Abba Abba ?

How to choose between love and work?

Confused** because you don't know what to do when they can't have both.

Here are a few questions you need to think about:

1. Do you think career or love is important?

If you think careers are important, then when they contradict each other, respect your heart and go for your cause; If you think love is important, then you should choose love; Of course, it is not that you have to give up your job if you choose love, but it is a question of which party compromises for which party; If you choose love, then you may get a career that is not very high-paying; If you think she is important, then accept the job and think about how you can make your future better. If you both have different plans for life, you want to go to other cities for better development, and she has her own dreams, then separation may be a better choice. If you don't want to be separated, then go and work in a city that you both love.

Second, how should you choose at the turning point of your life?

The campus romance encountered a graduation crisis, which is a major transition stage in the lives encountered by two people from campus to the workplace, from study to work. This change in social roles can have a big impact on a relationship, because the way you used to communicate and get along with each other may no longer be suitable for the present. If you can't change the original way of getting along, I'm afraid your relationship won't go on.

Graduation season = breakup season, because most couples are not able to adapt to this change of relationship, and in the end they can't get together, which is the result of two people working together. And whether you can go together or not is not up to others, but your own choice.

3. Respect your own heart.

If you love her very much, then don't be separated from her, and the two of you will face all the trials that life throws at you hand in hand.

All the struggles are because I want this and can't let go of that.

Respect the deepest choices of your heart.

May you be able to have the life you want.

Look how much you like your girlfriend, if you are sure that you want to get married in the future, you can go, if you don't plan to, then you don't need to, after all, there is a compilation, it is still quite difficult to enter. Of course, you also have to think about what your family thinks.

Does your boyfriend have any good advice if he goes? Or is he settled now? If not, then you let him stabilize his work, and then you can't be too blind to do things.

This question is really a little too difficult to answer, as I personally think that in front of love and work, I think men should make a difference and should focus on career, although love is also very important, because with a good job there is a better future, such love is the happiest is the happiest, I think every girl wants to find a man with a career to marry, I don't want to find a day of idleness of the kind of person to talk about love, even if there is I want to be that will not be too happy, but only short-lived.

If you really have to choose, choose a job, after all, this world is too realistic. If you really can't give up love, then give up your job and believe in the power of love.

I think this is a question of who is the main and who is secondary, and the point of view of the topic is that life is the subject, and love is only subordinate.

But I don't agree with this point of view, "love is just the spice of life", as if it is dispensable.

If love is a condiment, then life is a dish, just ask, will you eat a dish without condiments? So, I think love is a necessity in life.

Some are necessities, and some are dispensing that can be wanted. Very few people think that the existence of love is a burden or garbage.

There are two kinds of people who think that love is a necessity. The first is a desire to have love and is not afraid of anyone knowing. The second type is the walking higher animals. Also, think about the lower body from time to time.

As for love, it is just the spice of life. I also have two feelings. One is "just", and the other is "condiment".

Condiments, the sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty tastes can be had. It depends on who you meet and how you fall in love. And then there is "just", how do I feel that I look down on love and feel that love is just so tasteful.

I said before that life is to be born and live, so what is love? Individuals understand that love is actually a necessity of life, the life of having love will be more quality, life will be sweeter, and it is also happy to wander with the person you love, so love is not only the spice of life, but also a necessity, so please cherish love, protect love, and don't let love become a dispensable quality of life. ‍‍

Love is just a part of life, and there will always be someone to accompany you along the way, teach you to grow, and then slowly leave.

Love is unique, it is the spice of life, and it is a testimony that can make each other better. However, love is never all there is to your life.

The most wonderful feeling in the world is when you hug someone you love and he actually hugs you tighter. There are many people who once thought that love was the most beautiful thing in the world, without distractions, and pure. There is no deception, it is trusting.

All the days are as beautiful as poetry, like warm winter afternoons, like lazy and comfortable weekends. Once a person loves, he becomes extremely vulnerable. There is no such thing in the world as you think about whether you should love or not in love, and the love that hurts the least does not represent the best love.

When we love each other, we have to take the risk of hurt and loss. Therefore, love is beautiful, but it is not the whole of your life.

This statement is wrong. Love and marriage are important to a person, as a rule, How important is it?

Love and marriage are as important as eating. If you don't eat, you will die quickly, without satisfying love and marriage, you will be very unhappy and in a very bad mood, and a long-term bad mood is detrimental to your health, and may even lead to serious illness, which is terrible. Conclusion:

Love and marriage are not simple condiments for most people, but necessities. If there is no beautiful love and no satisfactory marriage in a person's life, life will be incomplete and will not be a basically satisfactory life, that is to say, such a life is seriously lacking. Life is not only about eating well and dressing warmly, life needs to have a happy mood, and it needs to have good interpersonal relationships.

This good relationship includes a good relationship between husband and wife. A good relationship as a couple is important.

Because love is not the spice of life, a good love can indeed make life better, but it is not that you can't live without love.

I feel that love is just the spice of life. I also have two feelings. Either "just" or "condiment".

Condiments, the sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty tastes can be had. It depends on who you meet and how you fall in love. And then there is "just", how do I feel that I look down on love and feel that love is just so tasteful.

Cherish love, you deserve it. If you look down on love, you are not qualified to have it! ‍‍

I agree, just like I'm single now, I still think life is exciting, and those couples have nothing to envy.

I don't think I think love is both a toning and a necessity! A person who has been single for a long time will lose the ability to love, and love is impotent! But when a love comes, you have to understand:

If you dedicate all your energy and vitality to love, then you must continue to provide for it when the state of love is constantly changing. "Love is the spice of life" does have some truth in this statement. ‍‍

I think love is both a spice and a necessity, when a person has been single for a long time, he will lose the ability to love, and his life will be very boring.

Maybe the loss of a job will affect your life, no love at most sad for a while, emotionally not how much you pay can be reciprocated, and then slowly will be immune to feel that love is not so important, mourning is greater than heart death. ‍‍

Just like me now, it doesn't matter if there is no love, work and relatives are indispensable, love is like this for me, it is just the spice of life, not the center of gravity of life.

Right! Women need men's support, and in the work, men's love can give women infinite spiritFor some people who don't value love, love is just playing at home and regulating their lives

And for people who value feelings, she will take feelings very seriously, and if she can have a true love in her life, that person is satisfied. Feelings are not playthings! ‍‍

It is right that love is just the spice of life, and you can't give up your life because of love.

Personally, I believe that long-term love is not a condiment. Short-lived love is a condiment, just like eating vegetables and adding MSG, it will be fresh immediately. ‍‍

Life is very realistic most of the time, and love is like a condiment that makes life special and flavorful.

Life is colorful, people need to survive and develop, they need to study, they need to work, and love is just a part of life.

I think this varies from person to person, some people can't live without love, that's a necessity for him, some people feel that there is not only love in life, but also poetry and distance, as well as their own dreams, love and the realization of personal value compared. ‍‍

Whoever drinks the glass of love has to get drunk, although love is beautiful, it is not the whole of life, in the long years of life, it is just a condiment, because life is realistic.

I don't like to be at home every day. Watching TV. Cleaning.

Cook. Then at night, wait for my husband to come back. Spend every day like this.

Words like this. I'm going to go crazy. Going to work is for me.

It's a part of life. It's to add color. What about love.

For me. Love is bigger than everything. Love comes first. ‍‍

There is not only love in life, you can't ignore other people around you because of a love, and you must correctly handle the relationship between love and life.

Everyone advised you to go to the city, but I advised you to go to the county seat.

You know, the establishment of this thing, once you miss it, there is no difference, the treatment of hired employees and the establishment of employees is different, after a long time you will feel very uncomfortable, and the gap will become more and more obvious in the future.

Therefore, it is still very good to have a establishment, although it is in the county, but the consumption in the county is low, the quality of life is not necessarily bad, the competition in the county is small, and the promotion opportunities are much greater than in the city. You can consider all of these together.

In the urban area, first of all, state-owned enterprises and public institutions are almost the same, but state-owned enterprises basically have no chance to come back, if you are young, you still have the opportunity to change jobs in the urban area, and renting a house in a state-owned enterprise is also a large expense, and the chance of success is also less.

This depends on what your major is, which job is suitable for you, if these two are your majors, you can go to the city, the city can better develop your career, and close to home, you can better take care of your family.

Are you a girl or a boy? If it's a girl, I'd like to say that there are a lot of inconveniences in renting a house outside, but if it's a boy, it's not so much of a problem. Whichever prospect is good, go whichever one has a good prospect, and it's okay to suffer a little.

It's just a simple suggestion, you have to listen to your own heart, after all, it's not a trivial matter

I wish you all the best in your work

Then you have to see which unit's work is more suitable for you, in line with your interests and profession, so that the work can be better developed, you will work more energetically, and your life will be more fulfilling. Hope it helps.

I think it's better to choose according to your own hobbies and majors. Personally, I think it is better to be a state-owned enterprise, because the development prospect will be greater, of course, the final choice is to do it yourself, and finally I wish you all the best and a happy life!

An iron rice bowl, the requirements for themselves are not high, life can be considered, many people want to go, but the salary increase will not be too large, and the promotion should also be mixed with qualifications.

The salary is about the same, just choose the job you like, and the most important thing is to be happy at work!

It's better to hire them, so it's easy to get a salary increase and you don't have to rent a house.

As far as the information you gave, it is still relatively difficult to judge, mainly because the scale of the enterprise is not specific, and the public institution is not specific.

Based on the information you gave, I think it's better to go to the city, and live at home in the city to save money, but it's best to be able to convert it into a formal establishment.

Then choose one that is close to home, it is convenient to be close to home, and it depends on the benefits.

I think I should go to the urban area, although it is a employment system, but compared to going to the state-owned enterprises in the county, it is more knowledgeable, and at the same time, it is also challenging, and I can train myself and improve myself.

It's up to you! There is also the working environment, you think about it yourself, which company you like, and if you work now, it may not be a lifetime, I think it depends on the company's benefits!