How to love someone you hate, what to do when you hate someone

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hate and love have no boundaries. Hate is the nostalgia for a person; Love is also the remembrance of a person. Now you hate him, it just means that you still love him, but it feels different.

    Far away from him, there is no longer that worry, and after a long time, he will forget it. If you want to forget his ruthlessness immediately, the best way is to find something to love and devote yourself wholeheartedly to people, things, and things. He has no meaning to your life anymore.

    Turn over as a small episode in life, a new page is still new, and the blue sky and beautiful world are still welcoming you. Because God favors young people who are full of vigor and vigor, your life path will always be colorful, beautiful and amorous girl, be strong and brave to continue your life. You will definitely find a better and better partner who only loves you and loves you all your life.

    Because God is protecting you. Human memory is magical, it will actively and selectively forget some painful things, which is a kind of self-protection of people, which is why many times people can recall fragments of happiness.

    If you always think about what you want to forget, it is essentially a process of deepening your memory repeatedly, so you can start with things that you feel relaxed, such as a job that interests you, travel, ......When I accidentally remember, I tell myself in another voice that it's okay, it's not the most painful, at least there are still things to be thankful about.

    Memories also have the effect of embellishment and exaggeration, and there are many times when the things you remember are very different from the facts at that time.

    So it's not unreasonable to say that time can take everything.

    Take your time, and besides, some things, although painful, can be remembered in the end as a kind of wealth, an experience and experience that belongs only to you, and it also represents your growth to a certain extent?

    Do more happy things and stop thinking about him! Pain will make you more miserable! Don't just money, it's the happy heart that matters!

    You should pretend that it didn't happen, try to make money again, and give more to the poor. You know, the poor have a hard time! You're better than them!

    Do good deeds, don't think about it, don't think about your brother! Don't despair! Don't be pained!

    Pain + Pain = Grief Grief + Grief = Grief!; -

    You don't have to hate people, it's just your mistake! You should hate yourself, and if you didn't believe him in the first place, it wouldn't be like this. I sympathize with you, you are miserable, you should not trust others easily, it will not benefit you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    1. What is love? A: For a long, long time, he was your life, all you had except for some.

    and even replaced a lot of musts. Maybe you don't know why maybe you want to get rid of it, you just can't do it, and not being able to do it is all the excuses. There is no need to look for a reason.

    2. What is hate? A: If he hurts himself and makes his own life bad, and most importantly, it can make me feel uncontrollable pain all the time, I hate him.

    3. Do you hate when you love to the point of pain? A: There is a possibility of the above.

    4. Is hatred deep love? A: I killed your father or snatched your wife, do you love me?

    5. What is the taste of love? a;Do you think of what it's like to love someone or be loved or loved?

    Loving someone is like life, with mixed tastes; Being loved is like watching a movie, the protagonist or the original is out of the way, can enjoy or participate, is it enjoyment or burden; Love, maybe others know, love in fairy tales must be the taste of marshmallows.

    6. What does hatred taste like? A: Hate that is not entangled with oneself has nothing to do with oneself.

    True hate, which may not exist, of course refers to the meaning of hatred that you express. If you hate, it's for yourself, because for him, what else do you call hate. Contradictions, but perhaps because of both, are inherently entangled in the answer you want.

    Question addendum: What does love and hate taste like?

    A: When you don't understand your feelings, don't attribute love to hate, it is she who loves, but in fact it is yourself who hates.

    Such an emotional question is answered only by oneself or no one at all.

    The above is just my temporary point of view, maybe, tomorrow I will also change my view, the world is impermanent, hehe......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Bang your head against the wall and you'll love him after hitting him to a certain extent

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on the kind of ...... that hateIt's because you care too much about his actions or hate him because you get upset because of him, and you're already in love with him......If it's a real hate......Why love him?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Does love need a reason? Love is love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ask a psychopath, and he'll be able to tell you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It seems easy to hate someone you love.

    Love someone you hate. Difficult.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No way! That's fine! You hate him, why do you love him! Oh, my God! Vice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It can be a little hard to fall in love with someone you hate! ~

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, glad to answer for you. One that makes you love and hate, it means that you love each other very much, even if the other party does something that makes you unhappy, although you hate him at the time, but you can't easily say that you give up on him, you value the relationship with the other party very much, you value this relationship very much, and you can't let it go. When you encounter unhappy things in your relationship, you should communicate more and understand more, and effective communication will make the relationship smoother.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Adjust your mentality, while hating a person, to a certain extent, it means that you are also in pain, you should change your state of mind, learn to be relieved, and understand that hating a person is equivalent to hurting yourself.

    Stay sober, when ordinary people hate someone, they often do certain unwise things, such as revenge, which is an extremely unwise approach.

    Be tolerant of others, have time to read more sage books, make your heart stronger, become less narrow-minded, discover the other side of this world, discover the truth, goodness and beauty that exist in the world, and be more tolerant of others.

    Get out of hatred, hatred will make a person lose themselves, and even lose themselves, no matter how much hatred and old hatred others have with you, please stay away from these rights and wrongs, learn to get out of these hatreds, the world is still beautiful.

    Frequent travel, try to go to some scenic spots, get close to nature, breathe fresh air, you will feel that the mood is suddenly better, and the past is like a troublemaker disturbing the clouds.

    Believe in time, time is the best liquid thing to dilute hatred, in the face of time, nothing is unpassable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it is your fault, please calm down and try your best to save it, if the fate is no more, then please cherish the future days and remember your lesson; If you are not wrong, please give her tolerance and inclusion, if you try your best, there is still no ending, then you try your best, you can only say that fate is over.

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