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Be willing to forgive others as well as be willing to forgive yourself.
We may not know how to forgive others and forgive ourselves, or even do not want to forgive, or do not know that we can forgive. In fact, it is necessary to forgive others and forgive oneself. Who is not wrong?
Even saints are at fault, let alone ordinary people? To forgive is to give people a chance, to give themselves a chance. "Turning hostility into friendship" is one of all the good things in the world, and it is very important.
Once you know the importance of forgiveness, you should be able to practice it. We can make up our minds and say to someone who has done us harm, "I am ready to forgive you, and although you have been sorry for me in the past, I am determined to forgive you, no longer hold grudges, and let you be free." ”
This is the "resolution of grievances and knots". This sentence carries a lot of weight, you not only liberate others, but also liberate yourself, and you will no longer be trapped by resentment.
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I'm practicing Jiuyang Shengong upstairs, he's strong, he's strong, and the breeze is blowing on the hills. He let him be horizontal, and the bright moon shines on the river haha.
Hate one and hate crazy Think more about others when you're okay If you often only think that you are right for one person Everyone else is sorry for you People will be crazy.
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Hate means that you care, see if you are worth caring. If it is worthwhile, it will turn hatred into love; If it's not worth it, give up hate and don't care anymore!
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Sometimes don't take it too seriously, because you're too tired.
There is a saying: he is strong, he is strong, and the breeze blows on the hills. He is horizontal, and the bright moon shines on the river. To be a man is to be serious, but sometimes it is "rare to be confused".
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Where there is hate, there is love, you must love that person, or you will be indifferent.
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Don't torture yourself with others!
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The landlord is okay, I'm not crazy, I'm crazy, I know how to come up and find someone to help, hehe, send the landlord a word, life is like a play, play a good role in your role.
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To give a little more forgiveness to others is to give yourself one more chance.
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You pig! If you hate others and hurt yourself and can't hurt others, why can't you get along with yourself!
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I hate it too
But I found that I couldn't bear to take revenge...
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Hate someone, no matter what the relationship with you was before, he must have caused you a loss of spirit, material or both. At this time, if the other party lives better than you, you will grit your teeth even more.
Therefore, the root of hatred lies in the other party's gains, and at the same time causes your losses, between gains and losses, resulting in one party's heart being uneven, thus generating hatred.
First of all, you can work hard, be better than him, get more, the loss he caused you, you can use it as a propeller for your own growth, when you really succeed, you will find that the other party is not so hateful, but a little pitiful......
Secondly, you can also not be enterprising, learn from the spirit of Ah Q, and comfort yourself.
Thirdly, you can find a way to make him experience a similar loss to you in response to the damage he has caused you. However, what is the difference between you and the other person in doing so? You must know that harming others is not necessarily self-interested, even if you get benefits temporarily, but you have to pay it back in the end, for a momentary speed, resulting in a psychological flaw, and the gains outweigh the losses.
In fact, if the other party makes you receive a loss, but in the end it is at the end of the road, you will not hate him so much, on the contrary, you will feel more pitiful ...... it, at that time, how can you still hate him, you can't help but sigh, sure enough, good is rewarded, evil is rewarded, but the time has not yet come
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Some people say that to love one is to give it all and leave no privacy, which is the loyalty to love. On the contrary, the best way to retaliate against a person is not to ask about anything, which is a bit like cold violence.
In the relationship, we desire that through our own giving, our selfless love can be exchanged for the same, but it is not necessarily. There will always be people who are hurt in the relationship, some people love hysteria, and some people take this as a game, the ending is destined to be a person who leaves freely, and a person is unwilling to let go, therefore, there are many people who are not broken up, and the relationship is facing various problems, so what is the best way to retaliate?
Don't ask each other about family matters.
In fact, two people who have really thought about being together will not have secrets between each other, including family affairs, and will have a certain understanding of each other, and make each other more intimate by understanding each other's family affairs.
Men will be willing to help women share the affairs of her family, and women will be willing to help men answer questions about people and things in the family, so it is also because they know each other very well that they can talk about everything with such peace of mind and peace of mind.
In a relationship, when it comes to each other's families, it is actually a very private thing, and if the other party is willing to share with you and ask for your opinion, then it means that your relationship is close enough.
When you are unwilling to ask the other party about family affairs, and no longer make any comments on it, and are unwilling to help him answer, it is a very direct blow, which will make the other party feel that you don't care about him very much.
02.Don't ask each other about the trivialities of life.
There will be a lot of topics between couples every day, and in the same way, people who love each other will keep looking for a lot of topics. As long as you are with someone you like, then there will be endless words.
Sharing the trivial things of life will make the other party understand your life better and understand you better.
The best way to retaliate against someone is not to ask about their life, which will give him the impression that your world is unrelated.
There are many times, even if two people are together, but life has become boring, then there will be people who want to retaliate, enough indifference and laissez-faire, is the most direct way to make the other party feel that your attitude has changed.
03.Don't ask each other's circle of friends.
Everyone has their own circle of friends, and some people like to introduce their other half to their friends when they are in love, and the other party will be willing to understand you better by getting to know your friends.
Because I am interested enough in you, I am willing to approach your circle of friends.
Love is not everything, but love plays a very important role, love and communication are equally important, so the person who loves you is willing to get close to your friends for you, on the contrary, it is another result.
When you want to take revenge in your relationship, but ask the other person's circle of friends, don't ask everything about his friends, then your performance will give people a feeling of indifference, then this is nothing more than a huge blow to the other party.
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2. The more time you have to love, the less time you have to hate.
4. Let yourself be open-minded, let yourself have a big picture and a big vision, if you only look at the sky above your head and only hate the people in front of you, you will definitely become a frog at the bottom of the well, so jump out of the Three Realms, cultivate your mind, and the best way to forget is to make your time more precious.
5. Don't talk big, be good at doing small things, take action, make yourself stronger, when the person you hate becomes small in front of you, you lose the power of hatred and pity the other party more.
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In this case, you should be as tolerant as possible to make yourself feel better.
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It's just that some of the things he did to you make you feel extremely hateful, but in fact, you should change your state of mind, learn to be relieved, and understand that hating someone is equivalent to hurting yourself.
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If you look at him, then you can reconcile and say sorry to him.
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I think love is deeply responsible, we will hate a person must be because there is her in our hearts, the reason why we hate each other is to love each other in our hearts, love and can't help it, and after a long time, it slowly turns into hate.
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Hit it yo, get the photo ready, pillow and start playing hahaha.
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Summary. Hello dear! If you hate someone so much that you want him to die, it is usually because that person has caused you great harm or betrayal, causing you to feel extreme anger and pain.
This emotion tends to lead to extreme thoughts, including revenge, hatred, etc. However, such emotions and thoughts are very dangerous and unhealthy and can lead to serious consequences, including threats to the safety of oneself and others. If you have such strong emotions, it is advisable to try seeking professional help.
A psychologist can help you understand and deal with negative emotions in your heart, find positive coping strategies, and relieve your inner pain. At the same time, one should also avoid contact and conflict with this person as much as possible, keep yourself safe and healthy, and try to let go of past hatred and pain to move towards a happier and healthier life.
Hello dear! If you hate someone so much that you want him to die, it is usually because this person has caused you great harm or betrayal, and you feel extreme anger and pain. Such emotions often lead to extreme thoughts, including revenge, hatred, etc.
However, such emotions and thoughts are very dangerous and unhealthy and can lead to serious consequences, including threats to the safety of oneself and others. If you have such strong emotions, it is advisable to try seeking professional help. A psychiatrist can help you understand and deal with the negative emotions of the trapped land, and find positive coping strategies to relieve the pain in your heart.
At the same time, one should also avoid contact and conflict with this person as much as possible, keep yourself safe and healthy, and try to let go of past hatred and pain to move towards a happier and healthier life.
Why love someone to the end and hope that he dies and still love.
Dear, the answer to this question is very complicated, everyone's emotions and experiences are different, so there will be a variety of different emotional situations. In some cases, when people have suffered too much hurt and pain, or are unable to let go of their feelings for someone for some reason, the thought of wishing for the other person's death may arise. But this kind of thinking does not correspond to the true meaning of love, which should be a form of respect, care and support for each other.
If a person really loves another person, then he or she should want the other person to live a healthy and happy life, and talk about the other person not to die. If you are confused or distressed about this issue, it is recommended that you seek professional counselling or seek a trusted family member and friend to listen to and support you.
Why wish he died.
Do not copy. In this case, it should be because you love the other person too much and are worried that something will happen to the other person and leave you. That's why I think so.
Is there still love in this.
But he's always like this, I can't accept it, I hate him, I want him to die, prove that I still love him, I'm so disappointed.
Kiss, this is exactly what you love him too much and guess, you can't allow him to have contact or communication with other members of the opposite sex. You should communicate more with him, explain your thoughts, and treat him more rationally. Since you love him, you must treat him kindly.
Hatred arises from the heart, try to open your mind, accept some things that you think are bad, the world is not because of a certain person, learn to be tolerant, appreciate others more, find more advantages in others, you can also learn a lot, and this kind of life is also beautiful, you will find yourself a lot happier
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